Blessing or a Curse?

Why as a Scorpio do I always feel so emotional? Like no one can give me the emotional need or depth that I am looking for that matches mine?

Why as a Scorpio do I always feel so emotional? Like no one can give me the emotional need or depth that I am looking for that matches mine?

Ha.
I'm surrounded by emotionally barren individuals.
Primarily air+earth.

-___-

For me, it's all about needs not being met. And I have this problem a lot. I don't think it comes down to being a "Blessing" or a "Curse".

Because water.

Oh, and on that note, Scorpio is the one out of the 3 water signs that is land based (scorpio/fixed). Does that mean Pisces and Cancers have an easier time navigating and dealing with emotions?

Are you a guy or a girl?

As a Cancer man I keep my emotions to myself, I do have a circle of friends that I can talk to when I need emotional support most of them are female.

You Scorpios do have problems with your emotions they get in the way and then they it makes you do things that cause problems. Maybe it might be my Taurus moon but I've been told by my Scorpio friend that I'm cold even my Aries friend has said that. With my Scorpio friend is I can hurt her feelings so easy some days its like walking on eggshells. It doesn't really help the fact I'm an ISTJ personality type so it makes me even colder, I don't use emotions when I make decisions all based on logic.

I've heard "You hurt my feelings" from my Scorpio friend a few times.

Posted by MoonArtist
Oh, and on that note, Scorpio is the one out of the 3 water signs that is land based (scorpio/fixed). Does that mean Pisces and Cancers have an easier time navigating and dealing with emotions?

No.

Matter of fact, HELL NAW.

Alot of people dont respond well to emotion and it really sucks when people dont get where you're coming from emotionally. Its overwhelming and very discouraging.

Some times i feel very alone in how i feel cuz people dont get me. Even when i express myself. 😢

Posted by MoonArtist
Because water.

"Because water"? Is your fur wet again?

iamscorpio23 - I couldn't agree more! Also a Scorp and I think most of the time it is a curse 😢 No one gets the depth and I don't think it is possible to even explain it or share it with anyone bc it runs that deep. It can be all consuming and distracts from so many things.
The only blessing is that the ones that do (somewhat) understand it seem to embrace and enjoy it. I have a few friends that do get it 🙂 Hard to find a love interest that gets it though - I think for me I scare most away bc they won't wait to crack the depth or find it too intense.

Truescorp12 I can relate.

I'm not a Scorpio but my Venus is in Scorpio and my chart is Scorpio/cap heavy. I can totally relate to the depth of emotion you mentioned especially in relationships. I'm way too dark/emotional/affected/complicated/ intense for most people to handle. I rarely connect on a deep level with people I date for this exact reason. No matter how well things go I always feel there's something "missing" or that the relationship seems too superficial. I usually fall in love with complicated men that are just as emotionally affected as me which leads to other problems.

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Posted by MoonArtist
Because water.

"Because water"? Is your fur wet again?

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It's most annoying.

After two decades of this shit, I've chalked it down to PMS.

Truescorp12- Thank you you are exactly right when I say emotion I am not talking about just your everyday ups n downs it is something so much deeper than that. I can not begin to explain it or to really compare it to its a feel I just feel. I've noticed that when I talk to people I like to take the conversation as deep as possible and when it comes to love it feels that I literally put my heart all in no inch of it is left out but it is rare to find people who take that seriously these days.

Iamscorpio if we had deep conversations with everyone around us, we would drown in that shit within a matter of days. It gets too heavy and depressing. I find myself needing to breathe, but not knowing that's what I need until I've sinked in too deep.

As a Scorpio I've learnt that balance is something we need and lack. My friends, the ones who talk about mundane, everyday stuff, are also the ones who keep me balanced and grounded and lighthearted.

I hear you! :/ think sometimes although a challenge, some of our best matches can be our opposites (less emotional people/air signs) because they can teach us to transform from just our emotional need (craving partnership, intimate closeness, consistency) and to discover other aspects of relationships that can be really fulfilling 🙂 Although, I struggle with this currently. lol so suppose it depends on your relationship needs, and fulfilling yourself first

virbib01 and iamscorpio23 - I am new to sharing on this site but have read so much and I have to say it is so wonderful that there are so many people that 'get it' - astrology and scorps as well.

Glad to know it also not just scorps that are so deep and complex 🙂