Caught by Scorpio

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Posted by scorpio_chic
ouch.

When I first met my pisces ex, he was too into it for me. It scared me off. 5 years later I grew a new interest in him, because I had evolved & grew up.. wanted more.



Tell truth - "if" I have just made you aware:

You were actually too happy for your own good.
This is what scared the hell outta you
and so you could not ACCEPT/ENJOY all his attention.

You left to see if he'd run after you,
to prove that he wouldn't flake on you
after you gave him your heart 100%

He didn't - but instead he gave you the gift
of "missing him" and you came back on your own.

But by that time, he had managed to resign himself
to the fact that you were gone - you'd hurt him
and so he swam away emotionally.

If true,
You can PM me and it can just be our secret
or you can "admit it publicly" and serve to
the benefit of other Scorpio girls who are
thinking of running away for the same reason.
(The only other reason is "not enough" time
or attention - either way, it's not something
a Scorpio girl can talk about with her guy.)
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Posted by scorpio_chic
I almost didn't see this.

Actually, no.. scorpiopics. I say what I mean and I mean what I say! LOL

It was never about being scared. He didn't scare me at all the first time around.. I knew he was all in. WHat scared me was the fact that he was telling my roommate that he was going to propose to me (I was only 23 at this time, he was only 19) we had only been dating for like 3 months! I liked him a lot, but definitely had no desire to marry him. It just wasn't that deep.. I wasn't there yet. I broke up with him and started seeing this Taurus guy. Pisces ex DID come after me... almost in a stalkerish type way. Popped up at my home unannounced saying that he had a flat tire down the street in the middle of winter. My new guy was over so it was very uncomfortable because new guy was irritated by Pisces presence... I was feeling guilty as hell I never wanted to 'put it in his face' that I was seeing someone else. I loved pisces but wasn't in love.

It wasn't until late 2007 that I talked to pisces about getting back together (we always remained friends) This time, I WAS all in but it was long distance by then because he moved away in 2005. Our relationship suffered because of the long distance and because he was throwing himself into reality tv dating shows which I obviously had a problem with. He started neglecting me (going days without calling me) So again, I broke up with him back in 2008. To this day, we are still friends and he insists that when it's all said and done, we'll be married. I can't say that I agree.

Not saying it wouldn't happen, but if he has plans to marry me he better work on getting me THERE or work on coming back home cuz I already told him I will never do the long distance shit again. LOL




#1 - THANK-YOU

#2 - Naughty girl - held back relevant info in first post lol

#3 - Good girl - provided missing info - all of it! = CLARITY

#4 - Telling roommate he was going to propose at 19/23 (haha cougar! ) after 3 months - and no serious talks to you about it - yes that's scary! DELUSIONALY IDEALISTIC, actually.

#5 - Stalking you - awww you loved it because you knew he wouldn't actually hurt you and had proof that he cared long-term

#6.1 - I still think he gave you the gift of missing him though. And it must have needed a very big box!
#6.2 - Perfectly ok for you to tell me to F-off now and try