Confused by another Scorpio?

Im dating another Scorpio again. This one is just as handsome, also very cool and calm, makes amazing eye contact. We had our first date at the beginning of the month about, I thought it had went well. We talked for several hours about everything from work (we do the same thing) to our families, it got very personal by the end of the night. Nothing happened physically aside from a hug. The next day I texted him and everything seemed great, we made a date for Sunday and I planned to let him pick a time and place because he was so busy and thought it would be easier for him to decide. The whole week goes by and I don't hear a thing, so Saturday I text him trying to confirm Sunday since I haven't heard anything and get no response, Sunday morning comes around still nothing so I make other plans and invite him along to be polite. He responds saying he wasn't looking to be out late. I don't reply.

We haven't talked until Wednesday. I was being featured in a show at a gallery and was wondering if he was planning to attend (note that I didn't invite him, this was something he was planning on going to before we met). He says he plans to attend but again "doesn't want to be out late" which was fine with me because I just wanted to introduce him to a designer whose work needs to be photographed I wasn't planning on asking him to go out. He then carries on to have a conversation with me, asks me how am I, we flirt a little and promise to see each other at the show.

The next day he texts me letting me know he's there and to my surprise he's alone (I thought he could come with friends). He then stays with me the whole show, even held my hand at certain points to make sure he didn't loose me (it was crazy packed). Afterwards he went with my friends and I to get pizza and when we took the train home we got a little cuddly. We were sitting real close with hand our hands on each other's legs. We gave each other a quick goodbye hug and I texted him that night trying to be flirty he responded with the same vibes. He apologized for not going out with me the previous week and promised to have time for me as soon as the month is over. I told him to "not let me down" and he promised me he wouldn't. I haven't heard anything since, so yesterday I decided to send him a text asking him what he was doing, and got no response again. I'm very confused! Can't seem to tell if he's into me or not how can someone go from hot to cold in a matter of days?

Sounds like he has a girlfriend

Posted by SofiaV87
Sounds like he has a girlfriend

I suppose that could be true, though we are connected on all social media accounts I feel like if that were the case I may find someone. I'm sure he's in the least dating othe people.

He's acting weird. I think the best thing to do is to confront him and see what's on his mind.

I cannot answer, since I've been trough this hot and cold for two years with a scorpio man, and now that it's over, I still don't get it. Mine lied and cheated. Maybe they just need space, to reload, maybe too afraid of giving up control and falling in love, who knows.

Posted by cap2333
Im dating another Scorpio again. This one is just as handsome, also very cool and calm, makes amazing eye contact. We had our first date at the beginning of the month about, I thought it had went well. We talked for several hours about everything from work (we do the same thing) to our families, it got very personal by the end of the night. Nothing happened physically aside from a hug. The next day I texted him and everything seemed great, we made a date for Sunday and I planned to let him pick a time and place because he was so busy and thought it would be easier for him to decide. The whole week goes by and I don't hear a thing, so Saturday I text him trying to confirm Sunday since I haven't heard anything and get no response, Sunday morning comes around still nothing so I make other plans and invite him along to be polite. He responds saying he wasn't looking to be out late. I don't reply...

You were already doing too much when you text him Saturday to confirm plans for Sunday. He knew he had to get back in touch with, so let him. Or not. If not, you know where you stand. That doesn't mean a lack of interest, but it does mean there isn't enough interest to invest much more energy into this guy. When we are interested we call. We follow up. We're not going to "forget" or let too much time go by. Sure life happens and we get busy, but a scorp that is truly interested isnt going to allow doubt to creep in a romantic interest's mind. We'll make sure it happens.

So now you've set the stage for a little bit of chasing, which is why you got this:

Posted by cap2333
...got no response again

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It may simply be the wrong time. When he's with you, he turns up the heat because well you're there. When you're not, other things occupy his mind. Not a good sign.

Thank you all for your responses and great advice. I decided to give him a chance to come out with me and some friends over the weekend, he said he would be there and then didn't show up or even bother to text me. I deleted his number and decided to move on. Thank you all again!