Lifelong Cat Lady

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well except on dxp where ppl save your photos

exception to the rule I guess or where all the crazies reside

Low key, I saved yours for my spank bank. THANK YOU CC

just don't throw me under the bus in 6 months

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I texted you some nudes Bri. You're welcome.

I especially enjoyed the one of you in the Hello Kitty suspenders

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well except on dxp where ppl save your photos

exception to the rule I guess or where all the crazies reside

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Posted by nikkistar
LULZ

I can't right now.

Let me list all the butter that has been done to me, and just me alone that half of you defended me on, and half of you didn't defend me on. I am not going to list names, but some of you are on here that let that butter slide for butters and are now on whatever soapbox you want, for or against what dazed does.

1) My picture was taken from DXP, put up on another forum for others to judge. Half of you markers that kept quiet about that, are suddenly pissy about pictures here being memes.

2) My son has been used as fonder to try and trigger me. From calling him ugly, homely, to saying I am a butter ass mom. Multiple users have done this in regards to my son. There are some in here that have expressly stuck up and been irate that he was used, and have called it disgusting. While there are others that sat about being quiet and not saying a sparkle motion thing.

3) I have been called every name under the sun when it comes to Asian racial slurs. Some of you have defended me, and some of you again let it just slide and not said a sparkle motion thing.


And I can tell you, the users that have defended or not defended me have all been different people that I have seen get irate for other people that experienced the same sparkle motion things I listed, but let it slide with me, and vice versa.

WE ALL HYPOCRITES. AND IT'S OKAY.

I hope that I wouldn’t have let that slide, but if I did I’m sorry. I can only imagine it would be that I thought you would take care of it yourself and maybe resent the help as patronising or fake somehow

That's the thing, none of that butter actually affects me on any level.

Because at the end of the day, the only opinions that matter are the people I love. And not to be a cookiemonster, but those aren't people that I only talk to on DXP.

I don't operate on an ego. I don't operate from a place of caring about how the world views me. Was I always like that? Hell no. But what I am trying to get at is that people are a combination of good and bad. It's what makes us who we are. So for people to go about being pissed off at butter that doesn't even really matter in the grand scheme of life, is just so wasteful. Because none of us are perfect.

You think I give a butter about how dxp views me

Call me. A bigot all day

Just don’t ever use my personal property. I delete my pics after I post them. If I didn’t care I’d have most up. I also like a bit of my privacy. This is boundaries crossing on multiple levels. Why people say please don’t quote gonna delete. You know and you respect that.

Simple.

I wasn't actually talking about you. You have remained pretty consistent in everything. You have defended my son. You have defended me when it came to DJ posting my pics.

You are actually one of the few that seem to be as consistent as possible. Maybe not with the racial stuff. You laughed at some of that.

I did? Really? Wow pat on the back!

Racial stuff is like black humor. You know it’s wrong but can’t help laughing

Woman, I didn't even care that you did. I still love you regardless.

I go around saying I was born with a double whammy, Asian and woman. I can't drive for butter. Oh and I eat cats. lol

Well my issues come from deep anger at how my ppl are treated

But throwing butter at others might not always be the best methods

Plus looking at Asian culture minus the pet eating is very similar to mine

I actually really prefer Asian culture more than American

And you are perfectly entitled to express yourself. I am more so laughing at the other people that are just as butter, calling Dazed out as being butter. You get what I am saying?

There are very few people in this thread, that haven't done their fair share themselves. That doesn't mean they are "butter" either. It is just acknowledging that if you do the same things you get pissed off at another user for doing, you're a hypocrite. Hahaha.

On a side note about culture. I had a really interesting conversation with my fiance the other night about culture. The questions he asked me and Chris, about cultural differences so he could understand it more from a non-white perspective was interesting. We seem to have those types of talks all the time in the house. I like those types of talks.

But African culture is beautiful in itself. It astounds me that more people here have no idea about Apartheid or any of the current things that happen.

There are levels of butter on dxp tho

on a scale of 0 to p-angel

Where does dazed fall

You asking me?

Well to me he's on the same level as me, 8.

LMAO

Eeek so you both are Tubbys

That's pretty high

You're a 1. lol

I agree. I am a 1

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Posted by nikkistar
LULZ

I can't right now.

Let me list all the butter that has been done to me, and just me alone that half of you defended me on, and half of you didn't defend me on. I am not going to list names, but some of you are on here that let that butter slide for butters and are now on whatever soapbox you want, for or against what dazed does.

1) My picture was taken from DXP, put up on another forum for others to judge. Half of you markers that kept quiet about that, are suddenly pissy about pictures here being memes.

2) My son has been used as fonder to try and trigger me. From calling him ugly, homely, to saying I am a butter ass mom. Multiple users have done this in regards to my son. There are some in here that have expressly stuck up and been irate that he was used, and have called it disgusting. While there are others that sat about being quiet and not saying a sparkle motion thing.

3) I have been called every name under the sun when it comes to Asian racial slurs. Some of you have defended me, and some of you again let it just slide and not said a sparkle motion thing.


And I can tell you, the users that have defended or not defended me have all been different people that I have seen get irate for other people that experienced the same sparkle motion things I listed, but let it slide with me, and vice versa.

WE ALL HYPOCRITES. AND IT'S OKAY.

I hope that I wouldn’t have let that slide, but if I did I’m sorry. I can only imagine it would be that I thought you would take care of it yourself and maybe resent the help as patronising or fake somehow

That's the thing, none of that butter actually affects me on any level.

Because at the end of the day, the only opinions that matter are the people I love. And not to be a cookiemonster, but those aren't people that I only talk to on DXP.

I don't operate on an ego. I don't operate from a place of caring about how the world views me. Was I always like that? Hell no. But what I am trying to get at is that people are a combination of good and bad. It's what makes us who we are. So for people to go about being pissed off at butter that doesn't even really matter in the grand scheme of life, is just so wasteful. Because none of us are perfect.

You think I give a butter about how dxp views me

Call me. A bigot all day

Just don’t ever use my personal property. I delete my pics after I post them. If I didn’t care I’d have most up. I also like a bit of my privacy. This is boundaries crossing on multiple levels. Why people say please don’t quote gonna delete. You know and you respect that.

Simple.

I wasn't actually talking about you. You have remained pretty consistent in everything. You have defended my son. You have defended me when it came to DJ posting my pics.

You are actually one of the few that seem to be as consistent as possible. Maybe not with the racial stuff. You laughed at some of that.

I did? Really? Wow pat on the back!

Racial stuff is like black humor. You know it’s wrong but can’t help laughing

Woman, I didn't even care that you did. I still love you regardless.

I go around saying I was born with a double whammy, Asian and woman. I can't drive for butter. Oh and I eat cats. lol

Well my issues come from deep anger at how my ppl are treated

But throwing butter at others might not always be the best methods

Plus looking at Asian culture minus the pet eating is very similar to mine

I actually really prefer Asian culture more than American

And you are perfectly entitled to express yourself. I am more so laughing at the other people that are just as butter, calling Dazed out as being butter. You get what I am saying?

There are very few people in this thread, that haven't done their fair share themselves. That doesn't mean they are "butter" either. It is just acknowledging that if you do the same things you get pissed off at another user for doing, you're a hypocrite. Hahaha.

On a side note about culture. I had a really interesting conversation with my fiance the other night about culture. The questions he asked me and Chris, about cultural differences so he could understand it more from a non-white perspective was interesting. We seem to have those types of talks all the time in the house. I like those types of talks.

But African culture is beautiful in itself. It astounds me that more people here have no idea about Apartheid or any of the current things that happen.

There are levels of butter on dxp tho

on a scale of 0 to p-angel

Where does dazed fall

You asking me?

Well to me he's on the same level as me, 8.

LMAO

Eeek so you both are Tubbys

That's pretty high

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Posted by nikkistar
LULZ

I can't right now.

Let me list all the butter that has been done to me, and just me alone that half of you defended me on, and half of you didn't defend me on. I am not going to list names, but some of you are on here that let that butter slide for butters and are now on whatever soapbox you want, for or against what dazed does.

1) My picture was taken from DXP, put up on another forum for others to judge. Half of you markers that kept quiet about that, are suddenly pissy about pictures here being memes.

2) My son has been used as fonder to try and trigger me. From calling him ugly, homely, to saying I am a butter ass mom. Multiple users have done this in regards to my son. There are some in here that have expressly stuck up and been irate that he was used, and have called it disgusting. While there are others that sat about being quiet and not saying a sparkle motion thing.

3) I have been called every name under the sun when it comes to Asian racial slurs. Some of you have defended me, and some of you again let it just slide and not said a sparkle motion thing.


And I can tell you, the users that have defended or not defended me have all been different people that I have seen get irate for other people that experienced the same sparkle motion things I listed, but let it slide with me, and vice versa.

WE ALL HYPOCRITES. AND IT'S OKAY.

*Rolls eyes
I defended you on all counts. I was very vocal and loud about it too.

My reward, you and dazed made an alt account to troll me (and others).
An alt account he used to send threatening harassing pms to me and then after he deleted cried bs and demanded receipts knowing full well the evidence was gone.

People are allowed to feel irate that their image is being used without there consent. ITS OKAY. Let people vent.

Why do you think I was even talking about you?

Two, I never MADE a troll account. I was aware Dazed made an account to play Mafia, and then that he further decided to troll. But I did not tell him what to do, or what to say. And I did not attack you. I simply said I noticed idiosyncrasies that you exhibited. And again, I don't attack you. I don't take part in actively attacking you.

Two, I am okay with them expressing their feelings. I am simply calling out the hypocrisy of it, because its funny watch a bunch of folks that do the same exact bullbutter, complain about the same exact bullbutter.

CAUSE IT IS FUNNY.

You've admitted multiple times that he ran by what he wrote on that account by you. That you even helped him write certain things on that account. So now your story changes yet again. Interesting...

Aside from yourself and dazed I don't see anyone who is complaining that takes peoples pics and alters them/writes insults on them. Do you? After all thats what people are upset about, the altering and redistribution of their images and personal information.

He did run by what he was gonna post. Does that mean I authored them? He just told me what he was gonna write to see what would happen. You're point? Again, does not mean I told him WHAT TO POST.

JFC.

And I alter them for butters and giggles. SURE DO. I said I was a hypocrite. I don't get where you lack the literacy to get it, that I ALREADY KNOW I AM A HYPOCRITE.

You just have a problem with acknowledging you are one as well.

We are all hypocrites is a weak ass cop out. You came here with the intent on devaluing people’s feelings based on ‘we are all the same, we all insult each other’.

But like I stated previously, it isn’t an issue that insults are being thrown out. The issue is he altered and reposted peoples images and personal info. Two very different things.

You know, I think this post deserves a meme. Because I have accepted you will never just saying "I am a hypocrite too".

So, I am just gonna have some fun.

I find your soapbox to get me to say I’m a hypocrite hilarious as well. Perhaps we are not so different.
Enjoy!

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Posted by Notmyrealname

Posted by nikkistar
LULZ

I can't right now.

Let me list all the butter that has been done to me, and just me alone that half of you defended me on, and half of you didn't defend me on. I am not going to list names, but some of you are on here that let that butter slide for butters and are now on whatever soapbox you want, for or against what dazed does.

1) My picture was taken from DXP, put up on another forum for others to judge. Half of you markers that kept quiet about that, are suddenly pissy about pictures here being memes.

2) My son has been used as fonder to try and trigger me. From calling him ugly, homely, to saying I am a butter ass mom. Multiple users have done this in regards to my son. There are some in here that have expressly stuck up and been irate that he was used, and have called it disgusting. While there are others that sat about being quiet and not saying a sparkle motion thing.

3) I have been called every name under the sun when it comes to Asian racial slurs. Some of you have defended me, and some of you again let it just slide and not said a sparkle motion thing.


And I can tell you, the users that have defended or not defended me have all been different people that I have seen get irate for other people that experienced the same sparkle motion things I listed, but let it slide with me, and vice versa.

WE ALL HYPOCRITES. AND IT'S OKAY.

I hope that I wouldn’t have let that slide, but if I did I’m sorry. I can only imagine it would be that I thought you would take care of it yourself and maybe resent the help as patronising or fake somehow

That's the thing, none of that butter actually affects me on any level.

Because at the end of the day, the only opinions that matter are the people I love. And not to be a cookiemonster, but those aren't people that I only talk to on DXP.

I don't operate on an ego. I don't operate from a place of caring about how the world views me. Was I always like that? Hell no. But what I am trying to get at is that people are a combination of good and bad. It's what makes us who we are. So for people to go about being pissed off at butter that doesn't even really matter in the grand scheme of life, is just so wasteful. Because none of us are perfect.

You think I give a butter about how dxp views me

Call me. A bigot all day

Just don’t ever use my personal property. I delete my pics after I post them. If I didn’t care I’d have most up. I also like a bit of my privacy. This is boundaries crossing on multiple levels. Why people say please don’t quote gonna delete. You know and you respect that.

Simple.

I wasn't actually talking about you. You have remained pretty consistent in everything. You have defended my son. You have defended me when it came to DJ posting my pics.

You are actually one of the few that seem to be as consistent as possible. Maybe not with the racial stuff. You laughed at some of that.

I did? Really? Wow pat on the back!

Racial stuff is like black humor. You know it’s wrong but can’t help laughing

Woman, I didn't even care that you did. I still love you regardless.

I go around saying I was born with a double whammy, Asian and woman. I can't drive for butter. Oh and I eat cats. lol

Well my issues come from deep anger at how my ppl are treated

But throwing butter at others might not always be the best methods

Plus looking at Asian culture minus the pet eating is very similar to mine

I actually really prefer Asian culture more than American

And you are perfectly entitled to express yourself. I am more so laughing at the other people that are just as butter, calling Dazed out as being butter. You get what I am saying?

There are very few people in this thread, that haven't done their fair share themselves. That doesn't mean they are "butter" either. It is just acknowledging that if you do the same things you get pissed off at another user for doing, you're a hypocrite. Hahaha.

On a side note about culture. I had a really interesting conversation with my fiance the other night about culture. The questions he asked me and Chris, about cultural differences so he could understand it more from a non-white perspective was interesting. We seem to have those types of talks all the time in the house. I like those types of talks.

But African culture is beautiful in itself. It astounds me that more people here have no idea about Apartheid or any of the current things that happen.

There are levels of butter on dxp tho

on a scale of 0 to p-angel

Where does dazed fall

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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Posted by Phangus

Posted by Notmyrealname

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Notmyrealname

Posted by nikkistar
LULZ

I can't right now.

Let me list all the butter that has been done to me, and just me alone that half of you defended me on, and half of you didn't defend me on. I am not going to list names, but some of you are on here that let that butter slide for butters and are now on whatever soapbox you want, for or against what dazed does.

1) My picture was taken from DXP, put up on another forum for others to judge. Half of you markers that kept quiet about that, are suddenly pissy about pictures here being memes.

2) My son has been used as fonder to try and trigger me. From calling him ugly, homely, to saying I am a butter ass mom. Multiple users have done this in regards to my son. There are some in here that have expressly stuck up and been irate that he was used, and have called it disgusting. While there are others that sat about being quiet and not saying a sparkle motion thing.

3) I have been called every name under the sun when it comes to Asian racial slurs. Some of you have defended me, and some of you again let it just slide and not said a sparkle motion thing.


And I can tell you, the users that have defended or not defended me have all been different people that I have seen get irate for other people that experienced the same sparkle motion things I listed, but let it slide with me, and vice versa.

WE ALL HYPOCRITES. AND IT'S OKAY.

I hope that I wouldn’t have let that slide, but if I did I’m sorry. I can only imagine it would be that I thought you would take care of it yourself and maybe resent the help as patronising or fake somehow

That's the thing, none of that butter actually affects me on any level.

Because at the end of the day, the only opinions that matter are the people I love. And not to be a cookiemonster, but those aren't people that I only talk to on DXP.

I don't operate on an ego. I don't operate from a place of caring about how the world views me. Was I always like that? Hell no. But what I am trying to get at is that people are a combination of good and bad. It's what makes us who we are. So for people to go about being pissed off at butter that doesn't even really matter in the grand scheme of life, is just so wasteful. Because none of us are perfect.

This does make sense to me, people are complicated and do wonderful things and rotten things depending on which way the wind is blowing. I do think you can respond to individual acts without needing to demonise someone’s entire character. Like I say I do think he went too far. I think it’s awful to share peoples stuff. But I also do get that he’s usually standing up for his ideals and felt it was an important point to make. Not that it matters what I think anyway 🤷‍♀️You def have the right approach, we just can’t assume everyone shares that talent. This definitely is a silly website not to take too seriously but there are still real people here and not everyone has that tough as nails scorp/cancer shell to protect them lol

It’s basic civility. Address the behavior not the person. And definitely not the person’s race, age, gender, sexual orientation, family of origin, country, political party, or astrological sign.

I disagree

Astro sign should always be addressed

Leeb moons are the devil, and you're the leader of them all.

Oh I think you should share that crown with him.

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