Confused Scorp got Phone Call~ U Were Right

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OK...so after the apologetic TM on Wed. night because our second date got messed up (which I did not respond to)...I got a phone call at 12:00am...(he just got out of baseball game. I had just gotten home from dinner and in bed.

LEO::"I don't want to bother you, are you busy? How was your night?

Scorp: "Hey, how r u? Your never bother me, don't ever think that, its always nice to hear to hear from you. My night was great" (it wasn't)

LEO: "Where did you go...were you in town tonight? I bet it wasn't as good as our dinner the other night. How was your day? I was out near your area today. I was going to call and take you out to lunch. God, you had no idea how badly I wanted to see you tonight, and I'm so mad at myself sbout the other night. If I could, I'd hop in my car and come see you right now.

SCORP: "I was local, not in town. It was good but its all about the company you keep. Coming over now IS NOT going to happen. I will see you when you get back from Toronto"

LEO: " I get back Sunday at 11:00am, Can we do something Sunday? I am going to have a boring weekend while I'm sure you are going to be a busy girl and have a great weekend. I can't stop thinking about you so that will help the weekend go by faster~ will you be thinking about me?"

First, many questions about my night...hmm...I am sensing a little jealousy...although he had no idea who I was out with. Second, he has called/ TM at least once a day...not playing the average "Hard to get Guy"...

Do these LEO guys want to be with you all the time or what? Or is it he wants what he can't have yet and its a challenge?
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It's a challenge, but could be both. If you keep the challenge maybe you'll find out what he really wants.

I remember a leo guy who was interested in me since the first time he saw me. To me he was just a friend but I could sense that he wanted more. I never gave him a real chance with me, so he still asked my friend about me years later, and said that he still remembers how good time we had together.. He was feared by other guys and every girl wanted him. He was just not for a long-term relationship so I never bothered to try that.
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mystery is good ..makes the whole thing interesting..i am just saying don't make it too complicated...just make sure he doesn;t think you are making excuses not to see him...leos have a big ego..sometimes they need to feel that they attract the whole attention of the person they are interested in. If he is insecure he might take the whole mystery thing the wrong way....on the other hand leos dont give up until they get what they want...it would be too damaging for our egos not to get it!! Oh and since leos are pretty straight forward...they are not that good at reading people..of course age and experience plays here a big role! Nevertheless you should keep some mystery...cause this is intriguing.....just dont overdo it!!
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this depends... leos have a high sex drive as well i think ...from what i hear leos and scorps are the best combination sex-wise..they do not match for a relationship though.....How about you do it with him ....give him the best sex he ever had (scorps are good at this) and then put in a little mystery again so that he comes back for more....Anyway this all depends....I guess you ll know when it's best to do it...just wait for what is in your opinion the right moment....
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Geesh...thought he was going to Toronto today and he TM's me at 5:00 saying his flight was cancelled due to bad weather so leaving in the AM, said he was taking the coach out to dinner early and what are my plans tonight...well, I thought that was weird because weather is fine so I looked up the airport and nothing was cancelled going to Toronto! Hmmmm.....

So, I TM'd him back saying " Have plans tonight...call me"

He called me one minute later leaving me a message "I know your going out tonight and wondering if you were going o be in town or your staying local..give me a call when you get this, maybe we can meet after my dinner" WOW...what makes him think I don't have a date tonight? He was suppose to be in Toronto for christ sakes!

An hour later I called him back "Hi LEO, how r u? I am not staying local but not going into town, so have a good night and I'll talk to you later"

Does he honestly think I will drop everything for him after one date? Whats up with the flight lie...maybe it wasnt but its not too hard to figure out online.

I can almost GUARENTEE he will call me later tonight...like he did last night when I went out. Start drilling me about my night. I just don't get him!!!
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Well, I knew Toronto was inthe 70's and beautiful and hasnt started raining here yet....they do not cancel flights that easily. I'm no dummy, I'll investigate anything that sounds fishy to me...and yes, its that Scorpian nature

So how am I to read this one? That he lied? Why would he? We had no plans this weekend so whats the big deal? Did he he was going to Toronto (which he said on Wednesday) to make me cancel plans for Thursday to see him? And then to ask what my plans are tonight? Ummm....YES I have plans because you WERE suppose to be in Toronto. Then he made sure to tell me that his flight now leaves at 9:00am Saturday and he was doing dinner with the coach at XX time and at XX place tonight.

Whats up with this?

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Ok...so I'm out with my date (a guy I have been having had GREAT time with for 2 months , a little older but we have a blast together, have ...only kissed no chemistry)

And LEO calls me twice but leaves NO message. Geesh...he's almost 40 yrs old, doesnt he understand people have caller ID?

So when I got home I decided to call him...."I saw that you called" I said. Hewas once again asking my night, what did I do where did I go...so on and so on. He said "well, I am suppose t ofly out again Sat. morning but I may just ditch the trip all together" I said its weird they cancelled the flight because I got out during a snow storm and a hurricane...I said "oh must be the airlines". I'm no dummmy!

So we chatted a bit and I said I had to get to bed but wanted to return his call.

Maybe a dumb idea to return his call when he never left a message but I just dont understand this guy!



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My guess Capgirl? I will get a call tonight or an IM.
There hasnt been a day that goes by that he hasnt contacted me in some way.
I know he must be in Toronto now since I did verify that ~hehehhehee

But his last minute "what are you doing tonight" is driving me. I am a planning type of girl.

Do you think it was bad for me to have called him at 1:a, when he called 2x that night and left no message? I shouldn't have done it, the alcohol made me do it.HAHAHA