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~Confusing Situation with this Scorpio Girl~
My chart:
Sun Aries
Moon Pisces
Mercury Pisces
Venus Taurus
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Scorpio
Saturn Pisces
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Chiron Virgo
Sun Aries
Moon Pisces
Mercury Pisces
Venus Taurus
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Scorpio
Saturn Pisces
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Chiron Virgo
*****My moon may be in Aries because I don't know my ascendant*****
and her chart:
Sun Scorpio
Moon Aries
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Libra
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricor
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
and her chart:
Sun Scorpio
Moon Aries
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Libra
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricor
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Posted by ellessque
it's a mini me!
haha omg! it is! this so weird, so what would you say about her behavior then?
Posted by GetMistedPosted by FieryAries9108
My chart:
Sun Aries
Moon Pisces
Mercury Pisces
Venus Taurus
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Scorpio
Saturn Pisces
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Chiron Virgo
Least fiery Aries everclick to expand
haha it's true though my moon may be in aries because I don't know my ascendant.
Posted by ellessque
yeah, it can happen. She might have been interested in *that moment* and then between all the other moments that happened before brunch the next day.....you lost her or attention she lost inspiration, not really knowing if she could take you all that seriously.
Venus in libra/Mars in Scorp....we can be devilish flirts that mean nothing by it. She was probably enjoying your aries, due to her moon. I tend to migrate towards aries in social events because I don't even like social events and they make me feel at ease (aries moon).
Unless you are direct with her.....she'll continue to flirt, bob and weave all day and every day.
However, calm your aries....don't go full throttle. Ask her out, do something neutral that both of you can enjoy to get a feel of the situation. You don't want us jumping in straight away.....because that will give us the need to run later. That aries moon/libra venus opposition is no joke.
Time is really on your side. You need to take it slowly.
Thanks for the advice, and unfortunate;y there is no way for me to know where my moon is because I can never find out my ascendant also would you take the not looking at me and smiling thing as being shy?
Posted by ellessque
yes, not looking directly at you and smiling....equals shy for sure.
If I'm unsure of mutual interest, I can behave that way.
If I'm just screwing with you and we are both having fun flirting, I have no problem with eye contact.
Also, when I'm interested.....I can be very aloof, reserved and act like I'm not bothered by you 😄
That mars in scorpio is a stickler for self-control
Awesome that's good news (not really) but at least I somewhat understand why she was acting different around me.
Posted by ellessque
yes, not looking directly at you and smiling....equals shy for sure.
If I'm unsure of mutual interest, I can behave that way.
If I'm just screwing with you and we are both having fun flirting, I have no problem with eye contact.
Also, when I'm interested.....I can be very aloof, reserved and act like I'm not bothered by you 😄
That mars in scorpio is a stickler for self-control
Truth. (well, not speaking on Elle's prsentation, just the way emotions are expressed)
*presentation
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by ellessque
yes, not looking directly at you and smiling....equals shy for sure.
If I'm unsure of mutual interest, I can behave that way.
If I'm just screwing with you and we are both having fun flirting, I have no problem with eye contact.
Also, when I'm interested.....I can be very aloof, reserved and act like I'm not bothered by you 😄
That mars in scorpio is a stickler for self-control
Truth. (well, not speaking on Elle's prsentation, just the way emotions are expressed)click to expand
Good that will make me more confident around her.
Bumpp, Could anyone give me anymore advice, she said she wants to hang out with me, which I'm surprised about.
Posted by GetMisted
What's the problem here? Go hang out with her.
Yeah I guess there is no problem then.
Posted by FieryAries9108
Bumpp, Could anyone give me anymore advice, she said she wants to hang out with me, which I'm surprised about.
Give you advice on how to hang out?
I hear Scorps like it if you just be yourself, open up a bit and listen to them. It could all be a bunch of BS though .
You need to be more specific. I think you go pretty sound advice on the OP. What else are you wondering about?
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by FieryAries9108
Bumpp, Could anyone give me anymore advice, she said she wants to hang out with me, which I'm surprised about.
Give you advice on how to hang out?
I hear Scorps like it if you just be yourself, open up a bit and listen to them. It could all be a bunch of BS though .
You need to be more specific. I think you go pretty sound advice on the OP. What else are you wondering about?
click to expand
Well she said she wants to hang out but I have to wait a couple of weeks, she said she would look at her schedule and see when she was free, she never texted me back after that, so I texted her and felt really annoying and pushy in the process, she said that she promises that we will have time to hang out, the thing is that this already sounds so iffy, can hold her to this promise?
Posted by FieryAries9108Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by FieryAries9108
Bumpp, Could anyone give me anymore advice, she said she wants to hang out with me, which I'm surprised about.
Give you advice on how to hang out?
I hear Scorps like it if you just be yourself, open up a bit and listen to them. It could all be a bunch of BS though .
You need to be more specific. I think you go pretty sound advice on the OP. What else are you wondering about?
Well she said she wants to hang out but I have to wait a couple of weeks, she said she would look at her schedule and see when she was free, she never texted me back after that, so I texted her and felt really annoying and pushy in the process, she said that she promises that we will have time to hang out, the thing is that this already sounds so iffy, can hold her to this promise?click to expand
Clingy? Not so much. A little anxious? Yes. If you felt like you were being annoying and pushy, then stop being annoying and pushy. Not contacting you between now and then is not an indication that she will not follow through or that she is no longer interested. However if you push too hard, it will become an issue. Oddly, I was just dealing with the same issue and before hanging up the phone I already knew I'm not going to waste my time with this guy because of his approach. I like assertive, not aggressive.
Anyway, chill out and see what happens. If she doesn't follow through as she said she would (without a reasonable excuse) then this is an indication of how she is feeling about you at the moment and to me, an indication of how much emotional investment you should be putting into this woman. When someone tells me they are going to do something and don't (depending on what the "promise" is) I begin to reevaluate their importance in my life.
I hope it works out and enjoy!
Posted by Infinite8
I don't know. I'm thinking she is just straight. She flirted for fun but noticed that you were more serious than you should be. She is perhaps aware of how you really feel about her. She wants to be nice to you and friendly but that's about it. I did that once to my co-worker... but once I found out that she was determined to "get me" and convert me, I kind of got annoyed and slowly detached myself as a friend. That is how I see it. But once again, I might be completely wrong.
I have a lot of friends that are lesbians/bi and two in particular would always fall for girls that were straight and "confused". So, they would start the relationship with these girls and fall madly in love. But the straight girls after a year or two would always go back to guys. It's a very hurtful and damaging experience. Just make sure that the girls you choose really are on the same page as you. Good luck, hun!
Thank you! =)
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by FieryAries9108Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by FieryAries9108
Bumpp, Could anyone give me anymore advice, she said she wants to hang out with me, which I'm surprised about.
Give you advice on how to hang out?
I hear Scorps like it if you just be yourself, open up a bit and listen to them. It could all be a bunch of BS though .
You need to be more specific. I think you go pretty sound advice on the OP. What else are you wondering about?
Well she said she wants to hang out but I have to wait a couple of weeks, she said she would look at her schedule and see when she was free, she never texted me back after that, so I texted her and felt really annoying and pushy in the process, she said that she promises that we will have time to hang out, the thing is that this already sounds so iffy, can hold her to this promise?
Clingy? Not so much. A little anxious? Yes. If you felt like you were being annoying and pushy, then stop being annoying and pushy. Not contacting you between now and then is not an indication that she will not follow through or that she is no longer interested. However if you push too hard, it will become an issue. Oddly, I was just dealing with the same issue and before hanging up the phone I already knew I'm not going to waste my time with this guy because of his approach. I like assertive, not aggressive.
Anyway, chill out and see what happens. If she doesn't follow through as she said she would (without a reasonable excuse) then this is an indication of how she is feeling about you at the moment and to me, an indication of how much emotional investment you should be putting into this woman. When someone tells me they are going to do something and don't (depending on what the "promise" is) I begin to reevaluate their importance in my life.
I hope it works out and enjoy!click to expand
Alright thank you so much, I really appreciate your advice! =)
Posted by ellessque
did she say she needed a few weeks before you could hang out? (or did you?)
I'll assume she did......I'd give her a few weeks and text her on occasion. Nothing too pressing...a "good morning", a random thought, a link to something funny, a bad joke, etc.
The thing is with that chart, especially the aries moon and mars in scorp.....when we are engulfed in a project we are ENGULFED in a project. We constantly set goals and deadlines for ourselves and it is full speed ahead until it's completed. We zone into things with laser precision. She might have something going on at work or in her personal life that needs to get done by a certain time. We are pretty self-disciplined and the aries moon can get distracted easily....if we don't stay on course, shit doesn't get done.....then the libra pops up and makes us flog ourselves with guilt.
I'd take her at her word and don't internalize it and make it about *you*....more than likely, it has nothing to do with you or not making time for you, you just caught her in the middle of something else that needs to be resolved before she can give you any undivided attention.
For myself, if I can't give someone my attention fully, I won't even bother. I hate being spread thin...it disturbs my libra bits.
An occasional text here and there is not clingy. But.....waiting with baited breath is. Keep moving forward in your life and if new prospects pop up in the interim, go for it....she'll understand 🙂
Alright thank you so much for the really wonderful advice =)
and yes it was her.
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Here is my chart:
Sun Aries
Moon Pisces or Aries (idk since I don't know my ascendant)
Mercury Pisces
Venus Taurus
Mars Pisces
Ju