how do you know if a scorpio has cut you off

for sure?
do scorpios spell it out to you as in say it straight to your face, or just drive you away by hurting you emotionally?

I do the same. Cut off means cut off, because I'm pretty understanding and tolerant for the most part. When I cut someone off, that means I've been wronged royally.

You won't know you'll just wake up one morning wondering what happened and what did you do wrong .

I recently cut a friend off (she hurt my feelings) I deleted her phone# and unfriend her from FB 2weeks later she friend requested me again so I gave her another chance... I have too much damn Air in my chart :-/

Posted by claaarez88
for sure?
do scorpios spell it out to you as in say it straight to your face, or just drive you away by hurting you emotionally?

What has yours done?

Posted by pathfinder

What has yours done?

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my besty is the scorpio
-i went out with her frenemy/former friend one night
-i consider this frenemy my friend
-she posted something hurtful on fb about somebody being two-faced
-i pm'd her telling her i hope she doesn't take it the wrong way
-she denies this asking me what i'm talking about
-she pointedly ignores me afterwards, comments, even questions at fb
-she organized sleepovers and i wasn't invited
-she posted stuff that hurt me like saying these are friends she loves the most and i'm not there
-she treated me like i'm invisible
-i have since kept off fb to take some rest from all the punishment

besty: sun scorp, moon cappy, saturn cappy
me: sun leo, moon virgo, saturn virgo

If I care for the person, I will tell.

But that will happen after a long period of wait, so return is not possible anymore. I will first work on detaching myself, and once I do, it will be for good.

Posted by claaarez88

Posted by pathfinder

What has yours done?

my besty is the scorpio
-i went out with her frenemy/former friend one night
-i consider this frenemy my friend
-she posted something hurtful on fb about somebody being two-faced
-i pm'd her telling her i hope she doesn't take it the wrong way
-she denies this asking me what i'm talking about
-she pointedly ignores me afterwards, comments, even questions at fb
-she organized sleepovers and i wasn't invited
-she posted stuff that hurt me like saying these are friends she loves the most and i'm not there
-she treated me like i'm invisible
-i have since kept off fb to take some rest from all the punishment

besty: sun scorp, moon cappy, saturn cappy
me: sun leo, moon virgo, saturn virgo

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A friend who tries to control you by telling you to whom to talk to and with who you can or cannot hang out, is not a friend. Tell her that her enemy is not your enemy and if you choose to make her enemy also your enemy, there better be a very valid reason.

If your Scorpio friend feels insecure that you might be talking with her 'enemy' behind her back, just assure her you never talk behind her back. The problem lies in her. If she wants to be friends with you again, she has some apologizing to do.

Posted by FUM

Posted by claaarez88

Posted by pathfinder

What has yours done?

my besty is the scorpio
-i went out with her frenemy/former friend one night
-i consider this frenemy my friend
-she posted something hurtful on fb about somebody being two-faced
-i pm'd her telling her i hope she doesn't take it the wrong way
-she denies this asking me what i'm talking about
-she pointedly ignores me afterwards, comments, even questions at fb
-she organized sleepovers and i wasn't invited
-she posted stuff that hurt me like saying these are friends she loves the most and i'm not there
-she treated me like i'm invisible
-i have since kept off fb to take some rest from all the punishment

besty: sun scorp, moon cappy, saturn cappy
me: sun leo, moon virgo, saturn virgo

A friend who tries to control you by telling you to whom to talk to and with who you can or cannot hang out, is not a friend. Tell her that her enemy is not your enemy and if you choose to make her enemy also your enemy, there better be a very valid reason.

If your Scorpio friend feels insecure that you might be talking with her 'enemy' behind her back, just assure her you never talk behind her back. The problem lies in her. If she wants to be friends with you again, she has some apologizing to do.

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^^this

Posted by pathfinder

Posted by FUM

Posted by claaarez88

Posted by pathfinder

What has yours done?

my besty is the scorpio
-i went out with her frenemy/former friend one night
-i consider this frenemy my friend
-she posted something hurtful on fb about somebody being two-faced
-i pm'd her telling her i hope she doesn't take it the wrong way
-she denies this asking me what i'm talking about
-she pointedly ignores me afterwards, comments, even questions at fb
-she organized sleepovers and i wasn't invited
-she posted stuff that hurt me like saying these are friends she loves the most and i'm not there
-she treated me like i'm invisible
-i have since kept off fb to take some rest from all the punishment

besty: sun scorp, moon cappy, saturn cappy
me: sun leo, moon virgo, saturn virgo

A friend who tries to control you by telling you to whom to talk to and with who you can or cannot hang out, is not a friend. Tell her that her enemy is not your enemy and if you choose to make her enemy also your enemy, there better be a very valid reason.

If your Scorpio friend feels insecure that you might be talking with her 'enemy' behind her back, just assure her you never talk behind her back. The problem lies in her. If she wants to be friends with you again, she has some apologizing to do.

^^this

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thank you guys for the perspective. i have too much virgo in me i keep analyzing and thinking where did i go wrong. it was probably the timing. they just had another fight at that time. so that's probably it. i may have hurt her feelings. i get that. but the retaliation i'm getting from her is like pushing me away because it's so hurtful. but i'm not one to give up easily on friendships, even more so my best friend. i'm not doing anything yet because i'm not sure what to do.

and this is not the first time it happened..me doing something directly which was not intended to hurt and then her giving it back to me on a larger scale. in the past, i had been the one to reach out. but she's the realest of my friends. never one to mince words. very protective and loving in good times. fun to be with.

i guess i'm afraid to reach out because i might receive even greater wrath or worse, a friendship
breakup. (knocks on wood)

i sound desperate, don't i. sigh

Posted by FUM
If I care for the person, I will tell.

But that will happen after a long period of wait, so return is not possible anymore. I will first work on detaching myself, and once I do, it will be for good.

Posted by FUM
If I care for the person, I will tell.

But that will happen after a long period of wait, so return is not possible anymore. I will first work on detaching myself, and once I do, it will be for good.

+1 Okey Dokey. Hokey pokey

Personally I just decide to cut off all contact with the person... They usually do not get a reason or notification. If they pester me I'll tell them what happened but that's it.