Confusion or overly sensitive

i might be way too sensitive today or this is a real thing: i've been feeling kind of left out of my bf life in some matters. like we're together almost every night and function as a couple, cooking together and all. he comes to me for an advice, i know what's going, i met his business associates, his dad and some friends. what's bothering me is that sometimes he can be totally selfish and not take me to hang with his friends on weekends or even asks if i want to go, and doesn't show on facebook that he's in relationship and his my space says he's single, he plans his future apt move etc. we've been a couple for about a year by now, none of us is getting younger and feel like we should be taking the next step. i want to be assertive and find the right time to talk about the future but don't want to seem pushy or desperate about it. he talks about how he wants to raise his children and then he says that he's never getting married. it's like i'm in his life but then i'm not. it's confusing and i'm loosing my patience.
ps: i'm perfectly fine with boys night out, he has his life and i have mine. there is no clinginess on my part. yes, i'm getting a little insecure at this point

i know you, P-angel will have a very direct response and blame me for everything so save yourself some trouble and don't respond🙂

"he wants to raise his children and then he says that he's never getting married."

Ariesgirl, he probably means what he stated above. He wants kids but not marriage. You should clear that up with him. If it isn't fine with you then you should move on. Very hard if possible at all to change a scorpio's beleif or preference. He probably isn't ready to move in or get married. It has only been a year.

rather than trying to figure out how he feels - i think you need to figure out how YOU feel. that way, you will do whatever is best for you and concerns your happiness. don't try and interpret him through what he says cos as shakespeare said there are people who are like 'a feather for every wind that blows'.

that's othello btw. marvellous dahhhhling.

pretentious?

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