Crab and Scorpion lady...

I sailed down here to Mexico last year and met an older lady, a Scorpio. She is sort of a hippie, gypsy chick, but I really like her!! We do well then everything goes bad over nothing? I'm so frustrated. I think she is great lady and yes there have been some real sparks, then bad fallouts over nothing. I decided I'm madly in love with her. But her sharp tounge and words are making it difficult.

Now we seem to disagree all the time. I can see some real compatibility, but I think I just need to walk away? I know I have to stand my ground, but I'm questioning this?

It is obvious by her harsh words there is some level of attachment/attraction; she says things to me people don't say to their friends, yet hard to swallow. While she won't admit to it, she does more than care. I have been there for her, helped and been very open with my feelings of attachment and attraction toward her.

We pulled the plug?

Should I walk or talk here?

From the sailing vessel "Shoot the Moon" --> Somewhere in Pacific Mexico!!

Yeah, me and Roxi have abodes in Espana!! 🙂

Rox..im in Scotland just now..just back from a 10-day trip to Madrid, my house and San Sebastian..it was great!!

Head back for good on the 26th though, so fingers crossed its still warm 🙂

You also have to consider that this is a matter of perception, meaning, she may not think she's being mean. Cancer men are very sensitive and instead of telling her that you're hurt by something she said I am guessing you just run back into your shell. So it's possible she doesn't realize that she's hurt your feelings. My experience with the one cancer man I've dated is that the indirectness doesn't work for me. It's confusing and frustrating and she may be feeling that and being the scorp that she is.....

My advice, think about your behavior. Have you been straightforward, does she really know how you feel or have you just dropped clues that she was supposed to pick up on. If you really care about this woman and don't want to continue on this roller coaster, you need to man up and tell her exactly how you feel and what you want. If she continues to be mean then you will need to walk away. Once you do, if she was into to you she'll come back. I think 🙂

Good Luck

Yes I hate it when the man is indecisive. You have to be frank with her. If she is into you, you will know. We are not scared to let the one we love, know that it is him. In fact I am so brutally honest to my man and he loves it 🙂 and he is also the same with me. I respect him all the more because of it. I can love only if I respect the person ----must be due to both venus and mars being in Capricorn

Pisces, Taurus, Cancer...no definitely not for me...

Capricorn yes...I get on with almost every one I meet and Virgo as long as they have some fire in their chart somewhere...

My most compatible have been either a fellow Scorpio or a fire sign..

Thanks everybody- We still remain "unplugged", however she has made some contact, but not an overwhelming show of "sorry" or "let's try again". Neither of us are the type to run off with somebody else right away... Maybe this is a cooling off period, but I'm solid here and she will have to step up to the plate. I might cave and try if I saw some real show of forgiveness and togetherness.

Otherwise, the world is big place, anchors aweigh! I'm not going to fuss around with this too much more. I'm ready to shove off, its just all these dang hurricanes (literally and figuritively).

Sexyscorp19 - I think you have really good insight, but in characteristic Scorpio form you don't mince words!! Ha HA!! I like a strong woman!

I've never paid much attention to all this astrology stuff. I worked as an engineer for 20 years and always dealt with facts. I have a little more time now and find this stuff fascinating. I've not had my chart done, but the reading I've done on the basic zodiac signs is interesting and very correct (usually).

I also find it interesting there are a lot more posts and writings in certain signs than others? Why? There is a lot more action on the Scorpio message board than many others like Cancer?


M😆ave

Roxi-

I enjoyed your sense of humor and play! Well done!! Thanks!! Won't make Spain anytime soon, but who knows where I'll wash up!! Ha HA!!

Sounds like you folks are pretty young and big world travellers... I still struggle with the basic Espanol, but I can get around. I'm really just a dumb gringo pirate here, Yahaaa!

Swords Crossed!

M😆ave

Be blessed.

Ok- After her barrage of E-mail I felt like Hiroshima, 1945. E-mail sucks some times? I called bullshit on everthing and invited her out for a pizza, a simple gesture. She said "cool" and we kept it light. We are touch and go, may never get back to where we were, but better than a few days ago?

Man you Scorp chicks are a pain in the ass!! --> Thanks tho

M😆ave