Dear Scorpio Women: Date Ideas?

Finally after 3 weeks, my elusive Scorpio lady is up for a 2nd date tonight! I've read great advice from Fairy and Scorpio Chic about making her feel special, taking your time, letting her take it to the next level when she's ready.

I would like you input on...

1) What the 2nd date really means to you, what you personally expect from your potential man at this stage. You see, most of my relationships in the past have started off way too quickly, with the actual "dates" coming later, and eventually it ending in disaster around the dreaded 6-month mark because we didn't spend the time to really lay a strong foundation in despite caring deeply for eachother.

2) General date ideas (we live in a big city). Which dates did you Scorpio women like the most? Do Scorpios like to go out a lot like us Leos or do they prefer something more intimate? I personally would like to rent a movie and curl up with her on the couch. Not sure if it's too soon for that. I know we met on a dating site a year ago and had a 1st date then, and we ended up making out hardcore on her couch, but then she blew off what was supposed to be our 2nd date and I got the silent treatment.