Detoxing him

Ok maybe it's just me but he sounds like a sociopath. And #4 on that list also makes it seem like you are addicted to an unhealthy relationship. You are absolutely being used yet you allow it. A man will treat you the way YOU ALLOW HIM TO. This is mainly your fault. Should accept that you are in a toxic whirlwind with this guy and seriously STOP SLEEPING WITH HIM. I don't feel anything for you because the finger points to you right now. He even told you to your face that he doesn't feel for you. You don't respect yourself so he won't either.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Hmm... you wanted closure yet you slept with him with an expectation of him loving you?

IKR. Im like ooookay.

It probably would've never worked out for yall anyway. Especially since you're hooked on a Taurus guy as well.

Too much, didn't read.

But I'm assuming you're just venting and you're moving onward and upward?

I must admit that it is my fault to blame if anything . He does not FEEL for anything in general. He does not feel love or anything for anyone . I love sex as much as any guy does so I am not regretting sleeping with him. 1) we already had sex before . 2) at least one good thing came out from the whole situation. 3) I love sex more than he does or any guys. This is a new beginning and a new me. The reason for this thread was to say thank you to those who have helped me along the way with this man . My previous name was sweetz1988. 🙂 all over and done ! I will never let him in my life ever again.??!! Done deal!! We all know how they are like when it comes to their exes but I actually hate him now! So never again !!!

Posted by Aine
Too much, didn't read.

But I'm assuming you're just venting and you're moving onward and upward?

correct🙂

Posted by candyapples88
It probably would've never worked out for yall anyway. Especially since you're hooked on a Taurus guy as well.

Smdh.

I always find it interesting when someone goes off about how much of a loser or how horrible their ex was, yet this wasn't an issue the years they were with them. (Yeah, yeah, you never called him a "loser", got it....I am generalizing about all these d*mn threads and a few posts). I am not suggesting the man didn't have many issues, but let's be real. If the man was such a problem and you stayed with him, what does that say about you? That's what people fail to recognize. This is your opportunity to take note and figure out why you were willing to put up with bullsh*t (and still did to the bitter end btw) and not about what he lacks in character . His flaws weren't an issue when you were with him, in fact, you were making excuses for the man, yet here were are with this:

Posted by SunTauVenGem
...He does not FEEL for anything in general. He does not feel love or anything for anyone ...

Doesn't this contradict the OP ("He love 3 people in his life...")? Just because this did not turn out the way you wanted (which was clear to you on several occasions btw, but you chose to ignore it) doesn't mean he is incapable of love.

And so it begins.....*insert pitchforks and torches* "the spawn of Satan never had a heart..."

If this was about "thanking everyone" for the support/help they offered, then simply do that. Keep it moving. No need for the mini bash thread....

Ah f*ck this, rant/

one of the 3 people he loves..! ..whether what he said to me was true or not....I do not care anymore...It was a stab in the back knowing the last 3 months i was nothing but his main support ...It is over and done..I have learnt from my mistake and i only have myself to blame here.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by candyapples88
It probably would've never worked out for yall anyway. Especially since you're hooked on a Taurus guy as well.

Smdh.

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.. in all honesty , i liked a taurus guy who hurt me ..so I decided to give my scorpion a chance..and the whole situation turned into a nightmare ! bulls are slow movers and i had no patient...now i'm back to square one with my bull as well ! * sigh*

Posted by MellyMel909
Phoenix:


Thank you for this ^^^^^!!!!!

Now. How do I make this my profile pic?

No idea M&Ms. Sorry.

Posted by PhoenixRising
I always find it interesting when someone goes off about how much of a loser or how horrible their ex was, yet this wasn't an issue the years they were with them. (Yeah, yeah, you never called him a "loser", got it....I am generalizing about all these d*mn threads and a few posts). I am not suggesting the man didn't have many issues, but let's be real. If the man was such a problem and you stayed with him, what does that say about you? That's what people fail to recognize. This is your opportunity to take note and figure out why you were willing to put up with bullsh*t (and still did to the bitter end btw) and not about what he lacks in character . His flaws weren't an issue when you were with him, in fact, you were making excuses for the man, yet here were are with this:

Posted by SunTauVenGem
...He does not FEEL for anything in general. He does not feel love or anything for anyone ...

Doesn't this contradict the OP ("He love 3 people in his life...")? Just because this did not turn out the way you wanted (which was clear to you on several occasions btw, but you chose to ignore it) doesn't mean he is incapable of love.

And so it begins.....*insert pitchforks and torches* "the spawn of Satan never had a heart..."

If this was about "thanking everyone" for the support/help they offered, then simply do that. Keep it moving. No need for the mini bash thread....

Ah f*ck this, rant/

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Very, very true PR. And a deserved rant. Sometimes we are the slowest learners and/ or eternal optimists (not sure which yet...). I'm guilty of that myself in the past. However I'm learning to see the red flags a whole lot sooner and get my arse out of there when I do. NO SECOND CHANCES! Life is way too short to be all doe eyed over someone who is just using you for an ego boost!
But like I said, some of us flunked this class.

Hopefully the OP is just getting it out of her system (not through sex- seriously! stop sleeping with him, I don't care how much of a horn dog you are!) and will TRULY move on soon!

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by MellyMel909
Phoenix:


Thank you for this ^^^^^!!!!!

Now. How do I make this my profile pic?

No idea M&Ms. Sorry.

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Absolutely hilarious 🙂

Posted by candyapples88
Especially since you're hooked on a Taurus guy as well.

I had told you a million times that you are not committed to him even though you have been saying it repeatedly till you become blue in the face.

The scorpio sensed it too.