Do fellow Scorp girls find it impossible to deal with passivity? (cancer boy vent)

But like it in a twisted way? Woe is I —

I dated a cancer man for about 3 years. 2 years seriously.

It was a sweet heartfelt disaster.

I ultimately ended things with him because I could not deal with his refusal to speak up for himself or me, his constant pitiful excuses for everything he said he'd do and was too lazy to accomplish, and his very passive nature in general. Also, the intimacy lacked. He got very comfortable and I got very bored.

Anyway, If you let me grab the reigns I will definitely rear the bull. Thats ultimately what happened with us until I realized how unattractive and counter productive it was to both our happiness.

Am I a total bitch?

Kidding.

But has anyone had luck with a cancer-Scorp pairing? I heard they were good but...meh

Which sign brings us the most satisfaction? I find Libras to be a tad bit annoying, and it's either a complete yes or absolute no with pisces. I've been charmed by a Leo but I hear that is a very bad idea, haha. (But UGHHH)

I thought cancer would balance, he did sometimes (mostly anchored) But overall I'm feeling a little atypical. Need someone who can show me im not in control ??

Me-Scorp sun, Gem moon, Aries rising

Him- Cancer sun, Scorp moon, Virgo rising

You puzzle me lol

Oooooo I don't think I've ever formulated any kind of relationship with a Taurus hmm ??

Let the search begin haha

I don't like passivity in any sign. Diplomacy, yes, and some refinement that may give an air of ease, but not limp as you described.

I thought Cancer would be ideal as a match too, based on what I read about Scorpio and Cancer when I first learned about astrology. But in my life, so far, there has been only one Cancer sun man that I've been interested in. We never dated. I'm open to dating Cancer suns, but it hasn't been something that's happened - the attraction is rare. I attracted a Cancer sun at one point but I didn't feel the same way.

I have moon in Gem too, and I've dated a lot of Gem men, and also Sag men. Third most is Libra men. In all cases, the men have had water influences in their chart, often Scorpio.

Posted by Argo
I'm a second decan Cancer man that is certainly not passive. Current gf is a Scorpio. Have been with around 10 Scorpio women. Nearly all of them were deeply attracted to me and fell in love immediately.

You attract the energy you give off. Successful and handsome Cancer men like the finer things in life - that's all I have to say.

Pressed. ?

Posted by CopperDove
I don't like passivity in any sign. Diplomacy, yes, and some refinement that may give an air of ease, but not limp as you described.

I thought Cancer would be ideal as a match too, based on what I read about Scorpio and Cancer when I first learned about astrology. But in my life, so far, there has been only one Cancer sun man that I've been interested in. We never dated. I'm open to dating Cancer suns, but it hasn't been something that's happened - the attraction is rare. I attracted a Cancer sun at one point but I didn't feel the same way.

I have moon in Gem too, and I've dated a lot of Gem men, and also Sag men. Third most is Libra men. In all cases, the men have had water influences in their chart, often Scorpio.

Ah, the Sag. ☺️☺️

And yes, you are spot on!

I'm not passive I speak up for myself yes I'm a Cancer man.