female orgasm

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/feature/helpwithorgasms.htm

i dunno what happened..but i found this article and i thought it may help some of the men who are having a hard time bringing their partner to fulfillment...

all of her posts are gone. i dont see them

im new to DXP. is that what happens when you block someone?

oh wowzers

Posted by DapperDon
Yes, a total shame. But this could also be a part of a plan for something.

spoken like a true scorpio

the first time i squirted, i felt like i was peeing....but it wasnt pee....

i used to date a pisces and he could feel every time i squirted on him.

he would tell me every time and it would just make me want to cum again....

i think its pyschological for me..i can be dry as the desert sometimes...i gotta be into it.

Posted by 69virgo
The big "O"is what keeps women cumming back for more..😉....that's what happens in alot of fwb relationships...you get a woman who hasn't never had an orgasm that gets with a guy that makes her Cum and feel all warm inside..😛 that's it she hooked..LOL

oh u turn a guy out and he wants to wife you

Posted by exoskeleton

Posted by 69virgo
@elle...dumb remark...I asked you a simple question and you couldn't even answer that..so since your the only woman in the world who hasn't never been in a relationship with two men at one time..they probably would choose the guy that's doing it for them in the bedroom..

virgo, elle's point to begin with is that a woman needs to know how to make herself orgasm so she can tell a man how to make her orgasm. you want to believe that a woman who has never had an orgasm will just magically have one with a more experienced man, but that is not usually the case.

maybe you don't realize how often women fake it.

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lmao, they never do 🙂

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Posted by 69virgo
@elle...dumb remark...I asked you a simple question and you couldn't even answer that..so since your the only woman in the world who hasn't never been in a relationship with two men at one time..they probably would choose the guy that's doing it for them in the bedroom..

virgo, elle's point to begin with is that a woman needs to know how to make herself orgasm so she can tell a man how to make her orgasm. you want to believe that a woman who has never had an orgasm will just magically have one with a more experienced man, but that is not usually the case.

maybe you don't realize how often women fake it.

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This is so true Elle and Exo. There are way too many men that don't realize women fake orgasms. They do. How do I know this? Because I have and I talk to my friends that have. There is actually a pretty high percentage like 70-80% that can't orgasm through intercourse alone. They need clitoral stimulation or some of these other things to do it for them. I definitely agree that women need to experiment with themselves to see what works for them. I think men need to be more open to toys along with the intercourse as well but so many men get their feelings hurt when a woman needs more than just them to help her peak and that is just sad. 😢 It has nothing to do with the man's performance in most cases as you just read the percentage but it has to do with the way women are set up.

http://photobucket.com/images/woman% 20machine% 20man% 20machine" target="_blank">

i love that picture!!!!

thats true in alot of arenas and not just sex.

i have a mars in virgo and i aim to please in the bedroom and when i dont my ego is bruised!

so i hear where your coming from 69virgo. but its a sad reality that everyone is not going to like how i out my thang down. but that HARDLY happens. so i definitly see where your coming from.

Posted by 69virgo
Well I can't speak for all the men out there but I been pleasing my wife for 22yrs so there argue with that..😉

thats awesome. but there were times where things got stale. thats only natural. but then again were only seeing one side of the story.

Posted by 69virgo
Well I can't speak for all the men out there but I been pleasing my wife for 22yrs so there argue with that..😉

Every woman is different. What works for your wife may not work for everyone 🙂

And as Exo said, you should most definitely know how to please her after all of that time together.

I'm willing to bet that in a subtle way she has coached you how to do what you do a little better as well.

Posted by ellessque
69, nobody is arguing with you. *smh*

blue, *checking for the next flight out* 😛

...anyways, this is my observation....why do men appear so threatened when talking about womens sexuality?

it baffles me. you'd think they would want to be all up in our face wanting to know all the secrets.

if there was a man in here telling me something I could use for later, I would be sitting here with popcorn and a notebook. (damn I miss BG 😛)

I know girl! I so agree and really enjoy hearing from men on how to please them! If I were a man then I would surely want to hear from the women so I could have one up on the other men...lol.
I just can't believe BG has been banned! What's up with that— He would definitely have some good stuff to contribute and he would 'listen' and not get offended.

lol @bring beer

There is great thrill and passion in giving,seeing and feeling the satisfaction of a woman.
It is a passion in of itself.
The pleasure of giving and recieving satisfaction is blissful and can only come thru discipline,knowledge and good practice.

Or maybe there is natural talent in it too

Posted by bluemoon2
Btw, the question was...

Have any of you women ever been to a womyn's festival? 🙂

Just asking out of curiosity. It's not meant for women to get on the defense about how they love a man's dick or anything. I understand it already...

If I am not welcome to express myself here, I'll just leave and go express myself somewhere else.

I think we are all free to express ourselves and I don't think aPP meant anything by saying what her preference is. I looked up the festival and it seems really cool. I actually thought seriously about being with women last year b/c I was such a man hater at the time. I have always found some women attractive but I just don't know if I could actually go through with anything sexually as I have never even kissed a woman. I would love going to something like that though b/c I truly love women and I think great things happen with huge groups of women as it creates such a powerful presence and atmosphere. I think women would also feel freer to express your true selves without as many restraints in an all women gathering like that.
🙂

Posted by KingPeri
DXP is extremely losing its value quite fast...I refuse to share my wisdom...

i agree out of all the sites ive bene one, this one is by far the must vulgar but also active.

While I didn't read the majority of this, I have to agree with the ones saying that you need to know your body before a man does. I know how to make myself orgasm; some guys just really don't. I've learned that a lot of guys can't finger a girl for shit. They think that you just need to jackhammer your fingers into a girl's vagina and she'll get off. Maybe some can, but it's just uncomfortable if the guy keeps changing the tempo, pressure, ect.

I haven't squirted yet, but it's been something I've wanted to do for ages. I'd love to be able to achieve it. Ugggh... lucky bitches who can squirt.

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Posted by Candeh15
While I didn't read the majority of this, I have to agree with the ones saying that you need to know your body before a man does. I know how to make myself orgasm; some guys just really don't. I've learned that a lot of guys can't finger a girl for shit. They think that you just need to jackhammer your fingers into a girl's vagina and she'll get off. Maybe some can, but it's just uncomfortable if the guy keeps changing the tempo, pressure, ect.

I haven't squirted yet, but it's been something I've wanted to do for ages. I'd love to be able to achieve it. Ugggh... lucky bitches who can squirt.

DMV gave an interesting suggestion that produces squirting. she said to have multiple orgasms by continuously stimulating the clit after each one, no breaks, even if it's sensitive. she said you'd lose control, LOL. i still have to try it.

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I've actually heard of this somewhere; it was like, even if you have an orgasm, don't stop. Keep goign and something is bound to happen. I have a hard time doing this because my body is like, "STOP, TOO SENSITIVE, NEED A BREAK." but I should try it.

Posted by ellessque

Posted by Candeh15

Posted by exoskeleton

Posted by Candeh15
While I didn't read the majority of this, I have to agree with the ones saying that you need to know your body before a man does. I know how to make myself orgasm; some guys just really don't. I've learned that a lot of guys can't finger a girl for shit. They think that you just need to jackhammer your fingers into a girl's vagina and she'll get off. Maybe some can, but it's just uncomfortable if the guy keeps changing the tempo, pressure, ect.

I haven't squirted yet, but it's been something I've wanted to do for ages. I'd love to be able to achieve it. Ugggh... lucky bitches who can squirt.

DMV gave an interesting suggestion that produces squirting. she said to have multiple orgasms by continuously stimulating the clit after each one, no breaks, even if it's sensitive. she said you'd lose control, LOL. i still have to try it.

I've actually heard of this somewhere; it was like, even if you have an orgasm, don't stop. Keep goign and something is bound to happen. I have a hard time doing this because my body is like, "STOP, TOO SENSITIVE, NEED A BREAK." but I should try it.

release, don't squeeze right beforehand. seriously. your natural reflex is to squeeze like your doing a kegel....but do the opposite. release and it will happen.

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lol something I'm still working on, too. It is hard to control that since it's a natural and involuntary reflex.

Blue Moon
You saw me standing alone

Posted by ellessque
okay....off to watch the good wife. will has got to be a cap, he's so divine.

Its a repeat! Damn it all to hell! I seriously cannot get enough of that show. I swear every now and then I have to pause the damn DVR and I just shake my head and say (out loud like the jackass I am) "Could this show BE any better?"

Posted by ScorpioDreamer
I say just tie me up and do with me what you want. I want to be a sex slave! Whip me and fuck me. Someone who completely dominates me and takes control would be the ultimate fantasy for me!

HOLY CRAP! Did NOT see that coming! lol (Me too) 😉

Although for me while I want that control coming from him, I still want him to be gentle...in command...but still gentle. Although, a little hair tug might be nice. 😄

Hell no, girl! Embrace it! I applaud you!

Posted by bluemoon2
Externalizing emotions in private is one thing. I would emphasize privacy is a very big thing and I do not like my privacy violated whatsoever.

That means you came to the wrong place...considering what our Scorpio nature is.

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Posted by 69virgo
Bluemoon have you or your girlfriend ever been with a man?

No. I don't do men period.

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I know a guy who'll have sex with you at that time.
Also his gf will too, I'm sure. She's a Pisces.

Posted by 69virgo

Posted by KingPeri
DXP is extremely losing its value quite fast...I refuse to share my wisdom...

If you make a statement like this....stick wit it chore boy..lol

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bam

Posted by Stpatrickspisces

Posted by exoskeleton

Posted by 69virgo
@elle...dumb remark...I asked you a simple question and you couldn't even answer that..so since your the only woman in the world who hasn't never been in a relationship with two men at one time..they probably would choose the guy that's doing it for them in the bedroom..

virgo, elle's point to begin with is that a woman needs to know how to make herself orgasm so she can tell a man how to make her orgasm. you want to believe that a woman who has never had an orgasm will just magically have one with a more experienced man, but that is not usually the case.

maybe you don't realize how often women fake it.

This is so true Elle and Exo. There are way too many men that don't realize women fake orgasms. They do. How do I know this? Because I have and I talk to my friends that have. There is actually a pretty high percentage like 70-80% that can't orgasm through intercourse alone. They need clitoral stimulation or some of these other things to do it for them. I definitely agree that women need to experiment with themselves to see what works for them. I think men need to be more open to toys along with the intercourse as well but so many men get their feelings hurt when a woman needs more than just them to help her peak and that is just sad. 😢 It has nothing to do with the man's performance in most cases as you just read the percentage but it has to do with the way women are set up.

http://photobucket.com/images/woman% 20machine% 20man% 20machine" target="_blank">

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lol True Story