Any gud cm out frm bein a b*ch wth a scorpio man?

We've been 'dating' for few months now, as usual, and typically as every scorpio man, he came on strong then backed out once i responded, nevermind the details, but regarding scorpio's obsession with being in control, about the outings among other, how should i react when he always wants to see me in his terms, as in what suits his time. I dont wana be the nice girl and see him when HE wants. If i postpone because i dont want to be all in again, he realizes im playing his game and is vindictive enough to make me pay the very next time we make plans.

I dont wana play games, how should i be a *****——

Girls who dated scorpio men, pleaaaaaase share ur details about the tactics you followed and how they worked??

Scorpio men? What makes u chase a girl? Is nice a turn off to you? Not 'a challenge' anymore? 😛

unfortuantely, using tactics that are unnatural are not going to work...you are either born to handle a scorpio or you arent.

you have to be yourself, do what you do naturally, be genuine. hes going to see right through your so called tactics and laugh at you. you cant change your chemistry or natal makeup; so why try to change and be something that you arent just to "land" a scorpio male. be careful for what you wish for...

just be honest. he will respect you for it.

dman, like 20 posts! i only meant to post it 10 times.

I hear you DMV, im very much like sagis when it comes to being being direct and honest. am a gemini. He is libra rising and i have mars neptune and saturn in scorpio. I never really told him what i feel about him, my actions have, not my words though, its tough to say it when hes so distant and careful at times. He tests me the whole time and if i pull back its only because i dont wana be hurt just like he does whenever he wants to protect himself.

Last thing that have happened, he told me hel contact me next week once hes back from his business trip, he didnt contact me coz i beat him to it after 5 days, he told me he missed me too but if off t another business trip in 2 days, hopefully the last, and that hel see me once hes back, i told him u cudve made time to see me this week if u wanted to, but he never replied.

Typical me would see him once he tells me to, but maybe i shudnt be the nice girl anymore? i will just tell him i have plans or just wana stay home once he contacts me?

Dont know why things shud be so complicated and confusing 😢

drop him now he's doing a move known to all scorpios that bends your reality around him in a stressful relationship and where you become more of his puppet than actual lover don't be that person lelaa you're to good for that ! (btw I'm a scorpio I've done it before and I am not evil)

loyally vengeful is right...you can become a bitch but hes going to become and even bigger bitch...and the cycle keeps repeating till HE says stop...

if hes mistreating you, tell him. if you dont want to sit around and wait for him to call...DONT. im sure you have a life that youve been neglecting because your becoming a bit obsessed with him....so concentrate on you for awhile..smile and enjoy life.

*this all comes from personal experience...ive been dating a scorpio men in an unconvential relationship for a year.

Posted by exoskeleton
tactics...
he'll see through them, unless you're a scorpio also. then it gets interesting.

Oh YES!!! very interesting....

he will be calling you to say that "you are good at what you do" and then you respond "i know"

Posted by leelaa

Typical me would see him once he tells me to, but maybe i shudnt be the nice girl anymore? i will just tell him i have plans or just wana stay home once he contacts me?

Dont know why things shud be so complicated and confusing 😢

things are confusing to you because...hes going to do whatever he wants to do regardless of what you want...hes a fixed sign.

things r confusing because your style of dating or courtship differs from his entirely. and your planning to do things that youve never done. things that will not come naturally.

all in all, he is smarter than you. he even reads your mind. so if you switch up and do something else, he will know exactly why and hit you were it hurts...

scorpio men are crazy and you have to be just as crazy to be with one. i mean that in a loving way. they are a handfull, but if you know what your doing...he should equally be thinking of you like that as well. it will be a mutual turn on

^^^^ sounds like a courtship dance real scorpions do ... sounds fun
and dmv is right about the read mind part (omg I'm missing my baby why did she have to go awaaayyyy 😭 )

Posted by exoskeleton
LOL. me and my scorp used to play games with each other all the time. if he acted distant, i panicked, so i'd mirror him, and he'd panic. we both would get each other so worried and then we realized neither of us were going anywhere and we'd always come back to each other.

though the games are still fun, especially when we argue and wanna withhold sex and just get each other hornier.

aint that the truth...it is hilarious to see them go into panic mode. total loss of control.

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Posted by leelaa

Typical me would see him once he tells me to, but maybe i shudnt be the nice girl anymore? i will just tell him i have plans or just wana stay home once he contacts me?

Dont know why things shud be so complicated and confusing 😢

things are confusing to you because...hes going to do whatever he wants to do regardless of what you want...hes a fixed sign.

things r confusing because your style of dating or courtship differs from his entirely. and your planning to do things that youve never done. things that will not come naturally.

all in all, he is smarter than you. he even reads your mind. so if you switch up and do something else, he will know exactly why and hit you were it hurts...

scorpio men are crazy and you have to be just as crazy to be with one. i mean that in a loving way. they are a handfull, but if you know what your doing...he should equally be thinking of you like that as well. it will be a mutual turn on

exactly.

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So if i mirror him hel panic or hel see right thru it? i think its time to mirror him, i DO WANT to confront him like u say D, and just be honest, but i wanna mirror him for now, i got dignity u know, if he cares enough hel try again

Posted by exoskeleton
LOL. me and my scorp used to play games with each other all the time. if he acted distant, i panicked, so i'd mirror him, and he'd panic. we both would get each other so worried and then we realized neither of us were going anywhere and we'd always come back to each other.

though the games are still fun, especially when we argue and wanna withhold sex and just get each other hornier.

You;re so right here LOLOL!!!

I postponed a date once coz he delayed it for 2 hours, he knew how to hurt me big time the very next day it was so clear it was pay back time, he told me he did other plans when WE had plans! He knows thats immpolite and he knows how much i respect dates or being punctual and all that, he did it just despite me, what did i do? told him to enjoy his plans and pass by for coffee once hes done, told me hel let me know and call me but he ever did!!

few days later i tease him text him n tell him im still home waiting for u to pass by or let me know, that for me to conact him again is something, so i guess ur something' he called and laughed and told me 'im so smart and that he is glad to know 'the SOMETHING!' and that he really is proud of me and proud to me etc etc

hes normal now, but returned to town for a week then nw left to another business trip without seeing me and told me he will when he gets back, its not nice to ignore a msg when someone tells u 'u cudve made time if u wanted to'

So what to do, play, give up, or confront?

meant to quote u DVP!

i think your missing the point...dont play the game....be yourself. your emotions and what you want to do should come naturally.

Posted by DMV
i think your missing the point...dont play the game....be yourself. your emotions and what you want to do should come naturally.

Hmm, ok then, il see him, confront hi, (ouch but how) ... and we'll see what happens :S

lol, what do you mean ouch??

dont be scurred....hes a teddy bear 😉

Posted by DMV
lol, what do you mean ouch??

dont be scurred....hes a teddy bear 😉

haha i love u sagi girls ur righhhhhhht, theyre such teady bears thats why am still sticking around, hes so loc=ving and caring and venerable and sensitive!

Lol those scorps are stinkers. Yes they will see right through you. I can't help it if the scorp I like makes me more confident/flirt and want to play the games right back. Must be my other signs in scorp.
Really they can smell fear...you just gotta show them you can stand up to em. I've been doing it for 21 years with my father. I think I can take a young scorpio 😉

Oh gawd, why even bother with a scorp? Been there. Done that. Not worth the trouble. In fact, they are highly deceptive and THAT is why they are 'cautious' It's ALWAYS about THEM SELF and what they can get from YOU. Crap, it might just be worth it if the WERE GOOD in BED like aaaaaaaall the books say? PAHLEEZ!

Talk about lights out, behind closed doors, same time every night......so friggin predictable and THAT's supposed to be good? Forget about nailing them on the hood of a car, in the hallway, (actually, that's when you'll catch them 'off-guard' and THAT scares 'em...you just might be more comfortable and adventurous in that department than...omg, the SCORP)

Games? It's not games. They do what they want...when they want. It's selfish. I wish I could say that they were that smart. They just aren't!!!

These fellas just aren't meant to be happy. Ever! As soon as they MIGHT BE a wall comes down...and BOOM, CHAOS......it's just who they are.....until they grow UP and it's DRAMA/TRAUMA QUEENS/KINGS until then. It's an ADDICTION that must be fed for these folks.

Since there are a lot of dumb dumbs out there who believe SCORPS INTENT is honorable, they may never grow up. Remember if there is ANY KIND OF GAIN, political, social, economical, a dumb dumb puppet arm decoration, they'll take you as far as you will let them. In the meantime, you fools have a man/woman who is sleeping with whomever for whatever reason. They are NOT FAITHFUL (but want you to be...the less you know about LIFE? The better they are, right?)

Oh, and children....they are very controlling...to the point of suffocating any creative individuality......

Just my insight from my own personal experience. Don't be dillusional and buy into that baloney about 'mystery' and 'sex' gods. The only mystery (secretive) is that they don't tell all cuz they want all and use underhanded tactics to get all)...

Posted by bullseyeannie

Oh, and children....they are very controlling...to the point of suffocating any creative individuality......

I agree with this part. If you marry a scorpio prepare not only to have him keep tabs on your children (hacking their computers, spying on them in their rooms, actually going out of their way to follow the kids when they go on outtings) they will also keep tabs on you and will often call you even when you're just thinking about calling them. They are the ultimate detectives and damn near close to psychic. Careful with these ones. Sounds like Edward from Twilight (reads your mind, watches you sleep, knows where you're at)

''Sounds like Edward from Twilight (reads your mind, watches you sleep, knows where you're at)

Posted by leelaa
''Sounds like Edward from Twilight (reads your mind, watches you sleep, knows where you're at)

edward was definitely a scorpio

Hmmm interesting question, shes as passionate and secretive as a water or earth sign! But she doesnt strike me as any of these signs! Maybe an aqua with a scorpio moon? Or actually another scorpio?!?

Hmm Maybe, she does have the passion and the stubbornness of a taurus, but she is def not as social and talkative, nor has the temper of a taurus!

hahahha! I thought so too, but then i thought, bella is a strong girl, very determined and she knows what she wants, she is def not a pisces, pisces are followers and indecisive, cancers are wouldn't hurt their families or friends and act selflessly, not this girl tho. I would say scorpio sagi moon!

!! I hear you! 😉))

I'd say Bella is an Aries - impulsive, stubborn and with a naivete/sensitivity akin to Aries - the infants of the zodiac lol!
I only saw the first movie (yawns) but it was fun in certain parts, sometimes disturbingly so, especially with all the 'awws' and 'ahhs' from the mesmerised devotees.
Maybe with a Cancer Venus or Moon...
I don't know about Edward-Scorpio but I can see some Aqua in him as well - a mix perhaps?
The obsessive and the rebellious...

bella has to be either a cancer or a pisces

ok heres a question for u, is my scorpio simply just not interested??

We were supposed to meet up 2 weeks ago, and when i initiated, he postponed it till the next week, since he had to leave for a business trip etc, i was hurt so i told him he cudve made time for me that week if he wanted to, received no response form him!! Few days later he send me a vanacy post, since he knows im going thru tough times with my current job, since then its been 3 weeks now and he still didnt ask me out, is he throwing hints at me that hes just not interested? since he didnt reply to that ''u cudve made time for me this week if u wanted to" text? And is giving false promises re outings—

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Posted by leelaa

Typical me would see him once he tells me to, but maybe i shudnt be the nice girl anymore? i will just tell him i have plans or just wana stay home once he contacts me?

Dont know why things shud be so complicated and confusing 😢

things are confusing to you because...hes going to do whatever he wants to do regardless of what you want...hes a fixed sign.

things r confusing because your style of dating or courtship differs from his entirely. and your planning to do things that youve never done. things that will not come naturally.

all in all, he is smarter than you. he even reads your mind. so if you switch up and do something else, he will know exactly why and hit you were it hurts...

scorpio men are crazy and you have to be just as crazy to be with one. i mean that in a loving way. they are a handfull, but if you know what your doing...he should equally be thinking of you like that as well. it will be a mutual turn on

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I've been going through a few of your posts after you replied to mine...you are smart chicki!

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Posted by DMV
bella has to be either a cancer or a pisces

I'm going for Cancer.

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The book mentions 13 Sep which makes her....background music...a Virgo!

Posted by leelaa
ok heres a question for u, is my scorpio simply just not interested??

We were supposed to meet up 2 weeks ago, and when i initiated, he postponed it till the next week, since he had to leave for a business trip etc, i was hurt so i told him he cudve made time for me that week if he wanted to, received no response form him!! Few days later he send me a vanacy post, since he knows im going thru tough times with my current job, since then its been 3 weeks now and he still didnt ask me out, is he throwing hints at me that hes just not interested? since he didnt reply to that ''u cudve made time for me this week if u wanted to" text? And is giving false promises re outings—

A scorpio will never admit he is wrong. He will try and go on as though nothing happened (ie the vacancy post). If he wanted to get with you, he would've by now. He thinks you'll be there whenever he's ready. He'll do this a lot more if you let him right at the start.
I know I seem harsh, but this is from experience. You gotta give it to him good if you want him to treat you with respect.

Posted by leelaa
Any gud cm out frm bein a b*ch wth a scorpio man?

Yes, if you're lucky, he will slap you in the mouth so hard that you'll no longer feel like being a bitch
and your whole life will improve because you'll start to be happy all the time.

If you are very UNlucky, you will someday move in with him. And a while later, you will come home from work, looking forward to a nice warm bath and to take out your frustrations on your Scorpio, only to find an envelope taped to your apt door and your key does not open the door.

In the envelope will be a note and another key. The note tells you that the key is for the rental truck in the parking lot and all your stuff is in it and the relationship is over and that the truck is paid up until midnight the next night, after which, if you don't return it or pay for another day on your own, the rental company will report it stolen, and when found, you would go to jail for Grand Theft Auto. He will tell you the warning is because he is a nice guy, but knows you are a complete f**ktard with no sense of reality who would otherwise think you could just keep the truck for two weeks on his dime.

You will then pound on the door to let him have a piece of your mind. The new tenant will answer the door and refuse your entry and threaten to call the police if you don't leave. When you call the Scorpio ( you won't just text, you're angry ) you get a "we're sorry, the cellular number you are trying to reach is no longer in service" treatment.

...and if anyone thought you were a bitch BEFORE that. .... haha....they aint seen nothin yet

Of course there's plenty you get out of dating us... there's life lessons, spankings, lol all types of stuff - don't let these ladies discourage you.

mmm i like the spankings 😛