Female Scorpio Psyche

Im a Cancerian male that is deeply in love with a Scorpio. However, I dont know her as much as I would like too.
Her words do sting a bit. But in her cold heart does lie a warm smile 🙂
I met her a few months back and it was really hard to make an approach, an up till now I have seen no progress or evident response in our subsequent conversations.

I would like to ask help from Scorpio women: what do you think (and do) when you are approached by a guy who is a stranger (but you recognize him from somewhere common e.g. School bus)?

Do you freak out? Do you give it a shot? Do you test us?

Your answers might help me know her better or I might find them in common to her.
Thanks 😄

If there is no progress...then do move first. Why are you keep asking but don't act first. This is all

assumptions. lol.

Scorpio women are tough. Once you deliver the words then expect a quick response either no or yes...

if answer is **maybe** then there's still hope... lol.

@Impulsv And you yet help me once again, thanks. Im trying to understand as well the emotions that surge when you are approached by a man. In which cases would you refuse? (besides already being married, having bf/gf etc)?. Do you show obvious interest? Or you like to be pryed open?
Still there are easier approaches like people being in the same class or something, however, we are not even in the same grade! And Im not really a meet n?? greet every woman I see. And well, as a Cancer I have tons of insecurities I try to surmount, but coming out of my shell is not as easy as it sounds. Thanks Darling.

@Whatu Your reply does offend me a bit, as well as it is quite a general answer.
1st. I tried to approach her in a sincere manner, trying not to panic, and being as honest as possible. + I always, always, have asked her if she has time to talk or if i can sit besides her, the least thing i want to do is annoy her. (so far she has never denied my presence)
2nd. Believe me when I say I do not take love lightly. Im very reserved, and I take time before choosing who to love. I font use it in my day to day vocabulary. Believe me, I really do love her 😄
She is nice, cute, smart, passionate, considerate, wise and outrageously majestic. She is not a superficial person. When I had my chances I did my best to embrace her essence, mind, soul and heart. When I say it, I mean it.
Yes.. determination..I had it, I lost it, and I have it again! Thanks

@M143 I always did the "progress". She once sat next to me in the bus and said nothing! I had to start the convo or I would've gone mad! I like to think before I act, helps me keep controlled and calm 🙂I don't want to scare her being impulsive of lying, so I think carefully what to say.Well, when we spoke she was always direct. Problem is, Im not, what I say has water under it. I also have to change that, for her atleast. Well yeah, assumptions mixed with my intuition, BUT, hopefully backed up by experiences. I try to be as unbiased as I can, not to get imaginative, to raise too much my expectations. Thank you.

*I remember this time I was walking in the hallway, and I saw her sat down on the floor. We made eye contact and she immediately looked to the floor. Thats a good sign, right?

JoeyKRV,


*I remember this time I was walking in the hallway, and I saw her sat down on the floor. We made eye contact and she immediately looked to the floor. Thats a good sign, right?

No, she is not responding, more cautious...this scorpio is a shy type. Scorpio woman when you looked at

her and she likes you... she will *wink* to keep you going and throwing you hint that she is interested. lol. eye contact doesn't scare us.. lol. we will give you an intense look and hot..argh.

JoeyKRV,

Give her flower...she will like it. red rose...just 1. lol

then when you are around her.. be gentle in your approach. Don't come too strong.

Less words and more actions will make her feel comfortable with you.

Yes... we don't talk. Scorpio # 1 trait. Mystery. silence...

Remember, don't come too strong. Make her smile and laugh...soon she will open up.

@Whatu Forget the offended part, after all, I appreciate your help.
I am very aware that I glorify those who I feel attracted to. It just happens and I cant control it (though it is a sign that I really want to be with her, giving me determination).
Well, Im glad her sitting besides me was a good sign 😄
You are right, it shows lack of confidence. I ask cause I get nervous. Ill do that and see how it goes.

*The last time I talked to her in the bus, she slept. She said she was tired

@M153 She is too shy, really really shy, never seen a person so shy! (Not even myself)
Well maybe I could talk to her in a less closed space. It is hard to identify those "winks" cause when we talked in the bus (always the bus) we never really did eye contact. I feel nervous cause I am too close.
I do my best to control myself when talking. Due to the short time I got to talk to her, I cant really show much but honesty and interest.
I once gave her a stuffed animal, and her smile was too childly (innocent). But yeah, I guess I could give her a flower.

@TwirlingStrawberry I know she is a human being. But we Cancerians follow our intuition when we know we found someone unique, different, special.
In my past relationships I did my best to judge what I did wrong, What I did right and what I can handle and cant. If I get high expectations about her and end up being "simple" it is my, and only my, fault.
Please understand I don't throw it uselessly.

I guess it depends on how much I have already been aware of him. If its some guy that I see on the school bus or in passing and I haven't done anything to initiate conversation or wave hello or provide any indication that I have any interest in communicating with him.

Then its a lost cause LOL.