What do you hate most about your sign?

Hey scorpios, what is the one trait of your sign that you dislike the most.

Me personally, I don't like the fact jealousy/suspicion trait. It sucks. When someone makes me jealous, even a tad bit it changes my whole perception of them right away and everything that involves them. I even start reading into things that aren't really there.

It could be about anything...relationships, careers, friendship, family etc. and I usually tend to get jealous when someone gets anything great that I feel like they didn't deserve or shouldn't have gotten especially if they aren't a down to earth, humble, modest or a person with integrity.

Though I am happy for fantastic people who get great things happen to them just not with people who don't deserve it.

What about you all?

Posted by IAmMystified
Hey scorpios, what is the one trait of your sign that you dislike the most.

Me personally, I don't like the fact jealousy/suspicion trait. It sucks. When someone makes me jealous, even a tad bit it changes my whole perception of them right away and everything that involves them. I even start reading into things that aren't really there.

It could be about anything...relationships, careers, friendship, family etc. and I usually tend to get jealous when someone gets anything great that I feel like they didn't deserve or shouldn't have gotten especially if they aren't a down to earth, humble, modest or a person with integrity.

Though I am happy for fantastic people who get great things happen to them just not with people who don't deserve it.

What about you all?

Are you a sun scorp?

Posted by Rabbit
What do I hate most?

The Scorpio ability to attract whack-a-doodle women.

I think that's the norm for all people.

Whack a doodle people out number sane people 🙂

Posted by damagedcurls
My obsessive nature, and being jealous, god I hate being jealous!

Me too! I try so hard to just ignore the situation/person I'm jealous of and I can't shake it out of my system. The only way is to never be around the person.

I'm not a scorpio, but I appreciate Scorpio's total involvement, dedication and passion. The obsessive and jealous trait I think comes from a place of control... Sometimes in order to immerse yourself and enjoy it completely you need to let go of that control. I think a lot of scorpio have a problem letting go due to trust... And I can understand that. Learning to let go is def a process but in the end you'll be glad you did. Scorpio is a lovely sign. I love you guys! Xoxo

@jeanngrey

I have a tendency to do the same. Not for fear of being weak or a failure, I just don't wanna lose something I feel like I deserve.

At the bottom of it all, I believe I live a great life in terms of, I care about my family and my true friends. I care about humanity's overall well being. I'm honest, sometimes to a fault and I'm easy going.

Never shallow, never cruel, never violent...so I feel like people who are truly good people should get what they deserve in life.

But it seems like we finish last. I just don't like finishing last.

@Feistypieces

I'm not sure if its a control factor for me. I think its becuase I have too much hope for things working out in the end to the point where hope outweighs being "present".

@iammystified
I can understand that *hope.* I suffer a lot from depression... I'm one of those people who love hard. When I was younger I was very foolish, leaving love everywhere I went, and constantly I was crushed. I always hoped that if I gave a little love, maybe people would change. Maybe I could set an example for people. But time and time again people let me down. That hope started to wane and I was more unmotivated than ever, and very unwilling to love other people with the fear that I would be walked on, not taken seriously, or the absolute worst, hurt. I began to test every single person that walked into my life, putting them through the fire, and if they were still there at the end of the day, then I could say that they were trustworthy. But all this effort, For what? It drained me, constantly being suspicious, constantly measuring the give and take in every relationship. I was very obsessive in one or two relationships, and holding that grip so tight nearly killed the people I loved so much. I needed to learn to let go. I still have problems with it, and I'm learning that people will be people and I can't expect anything of them or I will be disappointed time and time again. It will be a cycle of hurt for me and I want out. Maybe that's why I say it comes from a place of control, but I know it's not the same for everyone.

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Posted by IAmMystified
Hey scorpios, what is the one trait of your sign that you dislike the most.

Me personally, I don't like the fact jealousy/suspicion trait. It sucks. When someone makes me jealous, even a tad bit it changes my whole perception of them right away and everything that involves them. I even start reading into things that aren't really there.

It could be about anything...relationships, careers, friendship, family etc. and I usually tend to get jealous when someone gets anything great that I feel like they didn't deserve or shouldn't have gotten especially if they aren't a down to earth, humble, modest or a person with integrity.

Though I am happy for fantastic people who get great things happen to them just not with people who don't deserve it.

What about you all?

Are you a sun scorp?

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Perhaps you missed it.

Is your sun in Scorpio?

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by IAmMystified
Hey scorpios, what is the one trait of your sign that you dislike the most.

Me personally, I don't like the fact jealousy/suspicion trait. It sucks. When someone makes me jealous, even a tad bit it changes my whole perception of them right away and everything that involves them. I even start reading into things that aren't really there.

It could be about anything...relationships, careers, friendship, family etc. and I usually tend to get jealous when someone gets anything great that I feel like they didn't deserve or shouldn't have gotten especially if they aren't a down to earth, humble, modest or a person with integrity.

Though I am happy for fantastic people who get great things happen to them just not with people who don't deserve it.

What about you all?

Are you a sun scorp?

Perhaps you missed it.

Is your sun in Scorpio?

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I thought she was a Capricorn-- Cap.

Posted by starlover
Scorpios biggest lesson is to let go of control

The irony is when you let go of control, everything goes to downhill from there.
I've seen it happen.
You cannot please everyone: on the one hand, they say Scorpios are constipated. On the other, they can't stand
the controlling nature.

This may be the year I finally let go.

Just remember this lesson: letting go of control means poopin' yer pants.

Sorry, but it had to be said.

"What do you hate most about your sign?"

Absolutely nothing...nada.

I hate the fact that fixate on negative things from my past or from people's pasts around me. Transgressions consume my mind when I don't want them too. They creep into my dreams. It's horrible.

Wha?? Hate?! I LOVE being a scorpio...its the OTHER signs in my chart that I hate 🙂

Posted by starlover
I didn't like the way i was so over dependent on having a man, a sex life, passion ~ i always thought if i went without i would never cope

I now like the way i don't need those things, but may one day, when the time is right, choose them but in a more balanced and not such an obsessional way

rarrrrr!

Libra moon?

You are right. I am soooo fixed. I have to learne to let go and just truly accept as is.

I mean here I am sick and I won't be able to hang out with friends tonight. I am annoyed at this. But yet I don't understand why I am. I mean I'll see them again.

Maybe instead I should be looking at possibilities and see it as me needing a break to just decompress.

But here I am bummed for being I'll.

Irony of it all.

Wow .... is it legal to say this on dxp, without incorporating the word "intensity"?

Posted by FrostAndBite
The only thing I really come close to hating about my sign are the blowhards who become obsessed with their scorpioness and wear it like armour.

My favorite Scorpios are silly, awkward, pithy, speak plainly(when they can articulate it) open about their flaws and absorb criticism appropriately.

Those who brag about their depth, mystery and sex appeal annoy me. It's like watching a woman marginalize herself to her most attractive body parts.

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+1

Posted by starlover
Another thing i don't like about Scorpio energy is the intensity of it, is too full on at times and now i am able to look at it from the other person's point of view, whereas before i couldn't

I know very few Scorpio people who have mastered this, the balance i mean

I actually love it, but I've been told I'm an emotional extremist. ~shrugs~

It could be labeled as "focused", too, or passionate. There's a lovely quiet quality about it, though. My passion or intensity is more at the surface and....hmmmm.....not quiet? I'm not a loud personality type, but I respond quickly, and it's easy to spot. My mom told me once that everything I'm feeling about something you'll see it on my face. I can't fake liking someone and talk about them behind their back because if I don't like them they'll know it instantly without me saying a word. So, the "intensity" thing isn't bad, at least not in my opinion. The energy of it is low key but noticeable.

Obsessive
Vengeful
Jealousy

Posted by starlover

Oooohh close mysti ~ loaded 7th and venus ruled moon ~~ TAuRuS! :~))

I asked becuase it says somewhere that Libra Moons crave partnership i.e. me and we feel out of sorts without one.

Posted by starlover
Another thing i don't like about Scorpio energy is the intensity of it, is too full on at times and now i am able to look at it from the other person's point of view, whereas before i couldn't

I know very few Scorpio people who have mastered this, the balance i mean

Yep I'm full on with everything.

Even my focus its soooooooooo full on I literally have the ability to tune everyone out compeletly. I've been called rude before LMAO.

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Posted by IAmMystified

Posted by starlover

Oooohh close mysti ~ loaded 7th and venus ruled moon ~~ TAuRuS! :~))

I asked becuase it says somewhere that Libra Moons crave partnership i.e. me and we feel out of sorts without one.

Yes i think there is some truth in that, although i also think we can get too caught up in the *other* and the ultimate lesson maybe to learn to stand on our own two feet rather than relying on other people

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Im quite independent but I guess I am a true Libra Moon. I do crave a "partner in crime" whether its a significant other, or a best friend, or a buddy. Someone I can count on I mean...they just don't HAVE to be around all the time.

I hate that I love few people a lot, and don't care about anyone else.

I wish I could be one of those people who have tons of friends.

Posted by starlover
😆

love it!

Posted by starlover
I am so fucked off with the *word* intensity at this stage...i wished a new word to be created so i don't have to read it again

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You're resilient; far more so than I am 🙂

And I agree.

Though none fit the bill in quite the same way (... the perfervidity of Scorpio? The piquancy?)--

For your perusal:

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arcane
ardent
astrological
austere
baffling
blazing
brilliant
burning
cabalistic
charged
committed
complex
concupiscent
covert
cryptic
curious
dark
deep
demanding
desirous
difficult
Draconian
drastic
dreadful
emotional
enigmatic
enigmatical
equivocal
erotic
esoteric
excruciating
explosive
exquisite
extreme
fearsome
ferocious
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hellacious
hidden
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impassioned
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incalculable
incandescent
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inexplicable
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keen
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occult
oracular
passional
passionate
perfervid
perplexing
piquant
profound
prurient
puzzling
radical
raw
rebellious
recondite
red-hot
rich
secretive
severe
sibylline
sober
solemn
somber
sphinxlike
spirited
spiritual
stark
steamy
strange
subjective
symbolic
transcendental
uncanny
unfathomable
unknowable*
unknown
unnatural
veiled

~

I Believe I'm Very intuitive and very solutions oriented but I have a hard time convincing others of that but once one person believes that them everyone else believes it but because I'm so spiteful about not believing me in the first place instead of helping then when ppl finally think I'm capable of giving solutions I get stubborn and refuse to cause they didn't believe in the beginning.

I hate when I get passive aggressive / spiteful like that but it irritates me how ppl never take me at my word. It's like I always have to prove myself.

It's like if I say I'm good at :

- giving advice
- fixing things
- sports
- analysis
- building things
- doing hair or beauty stuff

Or whatever the case may be. If I say I'm good at anything then BELIEVE ME.

I hate my ability to never forgive or forget. I have tried over and over. It's just not in my nature. I also hate when people think I'm mad or not telling the truth. My truth shocks people at times. I'm also very intuitive and I can smell BS a mile away!

@humbleknight agreed. Trust and acceptance are big things for me. If someone cannot take me at my word or doesn't believe me or believe IN me. Then it will fall apart right there because it changes my perception of you on the spot. Once I realize the other person doubts me, I'll always find myself trying to convince them of anything I tell them.

I don't ever want to go that route again. It's not a happy place.

What trait I don't like?

The server emotional reactions we endure. It takes a lot for a Scorpio to be affected but when we do I dislike the massive emotions that drive us where a part of us holds majority of the intensity back.
I'd rather use my words calmly to win my fights and if still threatened lace them with a touch of venom as a warning.

@Scorpy76
I think that yes, it's hard to let go to forgive and forget. Though on the bright side it's a really good trait for pattern recognition so we don't fall into the same trap or for us to place the offending party into our trust / don't trust bank, provided that we always give some rope (not too much) for them to earn our trust back. (personally, I hate being bought off, earning trust through actions has more of a chance.)

Lol I'm similar to star lover in the sense that I am love-aholic. I'm always getting myself into these problematic relationships that leave me feeling so so drained in the end. Then when I'm feeling really shitty in the end about the whole thing I'm expected to still hold myself together and keep my foot down about being done. My mind brings up all these things, the why's what ifs as if I want to salvage something that I know is not good.

I guess I can say that what I hate most about being a Scorp is not only my attachment levels but the reasons that I come with that lead me to be so attached in the first place. I've been told that I think too much, and I would say that I hate that, but most of the time I'm grateful that I can even think for myself. The only thing that makes the ability to "think" feel sour is a tendency to become too attached to the puzzle that I give my thoughts to.

I fall deeply in love with the crazies. I hate that. But I guess they are everywhere, right? Theres no escaping. Unless you stay alone. Which is what I have planned. Yes.

Lol I will have to try that! Hopefully I can one day be cured too

Posted by Montgomery

For your perusal:

abstruse
acerbic
alchemistic
arcane
ardent
astrological
austere
baffling
blazing
brilliant
burning
cabalistic
charged
committed
complex
concupiscent
covert
cryptic
curious
dark
deep
demanding
desirous
difficult
Draconian
drastic
dreadful
emotional
enigmatic
enigmatical
equivocal
erotic
esoteric
excruciating
explosive
exquisite
extreme
fearsome
ferocious
fervent
fervid
fierce
frightful
furtive
ghastly
glowing
grave
grim
heavy
heavy-duty
hellacious
hidden
hidebound
hot
hot-blooded
illimitable
immoderate
impassioned
impenetrable
incalculable
incandescent
incomprehensible
inexplicable
inscrutable
insoluble
intricate
keen
lascivious
libidinous
lustful
magical
maximal
mystical
mystifying
necromantic
obdurate
obscure
occult
oracular
passional
passionate
perfervid
perplexing
piquant
profound
prurient
puzzling
radical
raw
rebellious
recondite
red-hot
rich
secretive
severe
sibylline
sober
solemn
somber
sphinxlike
spirited
spiritual
stark
steamy
strange
subjective
symbolic
transcendental
uncanny
unfathomable
unknowable*
unknown
unnatural
veiled

~

lol..now that's a list!

I actually like "blazing"...beats the shit out of "intense"

Lol, that is a pretty great list. I definitely relate with most of it.....necromantic though? Like necrophilia? Ewww.

& @Star lover Oh those energy vampires. I'm training myself to learn how to deflect their predatory shit. I try to remind myself "they are their own responsibility." They don't need my energy. They need to get their own because I need my energy.

Posted by LetltB

lol..now that's a list!

I actually like "blazing"...beats the shit out of "intense"

Thesaurus made it simple.

And yes-- blazing suits. lol

Posted by WordBoxer279
Lol, that is a pretty great list. I definitely relate with most of it.....necromantic though? Like necrophilia? Ewww.

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heh

Nooo, not like necrophilia.

Necromantic:

- Black magic; sorcery.

- Magic qualities.

- given to or produced by or used in the art of conjuring up the dead.

As I have aged-not a damn thing. My best buddy a fellow Scorp and I worked the trenches in a Trauma center for years just us two on a unit. No one was more caring, strong and loyal. Love our sign.

My jealousy in a relationship. I'm not a Scorpio but I have a pretty solif Scorpio love nature. I get jealous and insecure. Suspicious, even frightful. But at the same time I think its because we are genuinely hurt when we invest so much into a relationship just to get shit back. Always looking to defend ourselves. Not easy being green (with envy). Ha!

I have to re-cant-it bothers me that OTHER signs don't see us for who we are. No one is more, just loving or caring. Pisses me off to see a Scorpian walked on, because someone doesn't below the mask.

only when I freak out and no one can stand.