For all the women worried about a Scorpio Man

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VirgSunScorpMoon
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and questioning if he is still interested or doing a push-pull game or ignoring or disappearing or whatever it is they are doing that leaves you perplexed or feeling less than - or both. Remember this. You are the woman! You are the exquisite beautiful creature called WOMAN. Never let a Scorpio man or any other make you doubt this fact.

YOU ARE THE WOMAN, if they want you they will work for it!

Until then, treetrunk them in the bloody face!!!!
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Posted by VirgSunScorpMoon
and questioning if he is still interested or doing a push-pull game or ignoring or disappearing or whatever it is they are doing that leaves you perplexed or feeling less than - or both. Remember this. You are the woman! You are the exquisite beautiful creature called WOMAN. Never let a Scorpio man or any other make you doubt this fact.

YOU ARE THE WOMAN, if they want you they will work for it!

Until then, treetrunk them in the bloody face!!!!
This message brought to you by the new and improved feminist movement with demands, entitlement issues, selfishness and the me, me, me -
woe is me, I got snubbed by a Scorpio male club.
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Posted by VirgSunScorpMoon
Nope, he lives life free as do I. Don't know if any one remembers what healthy relationships look like. You might want to quit dragging your knuckles and come out of the cave.
Well I for one know what healthy is. It's feminists like you that are throwing the wrench into the mix causing men to take second and third looks to make sure good women ARE INDEED good women. Who can blame them?

I'm guessing you landed yourself a needy leo?
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Posted by VirgSunScorpMoon
It's not entitlement it is self worth, BIG difference. When someone comes online to wonder about what someone else is feeling or doing - incessantly - it is wrong and I feel bad for them. This is not a message that pertains to you in any fashion so why do you care?
Look up the difference of both. Women who have self worth don't have to scream across the mountain tops with their chests puffed out like a man while pointing at themselves.

Anyone who depends on communication via text, online etc. then whines about it, and people like you feel bad for them has lost a grip on reality
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Posted by VirgSunScorpMoon
and questioning if he is still interested or doing a push-pull game or ignoring or disappearing or whatever it is they are doing that leaves you perplexed or feeling less than - or both. Remember this. You are the woman! You are the exquisite beautiful creature called WOMAN. Never let a Scorpio man or any other make you doubt this fact.

YOU ARE THE WOMAN, if they want you they will work for it!

Until then, treetrunk them in the bloody face!!!!


dafuq is your problem?
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Posted by VirgSunScorpMoon
and questioning if he is still interested or doing a push-pull game or ignoring or disappearing or whatever it is they are doing that leaves you perplexed or feeling less than - or both. Remember this. You are the woman! You are the exquisite beautiful creature called WOMAN. Never let a Scorpio man or any other make you doubt this fact.

YOU ARE THE WOMAN, if they want you they will work for it!

Until then, treetrunk them in the bloody face!!!!
This message brought to you by the new and improved feminist movement with demands, entitlement issues, selfishness and the me, me, me -
woe is me, I got snubbed by a Scorpio male club.
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lol agreed
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Posted by starlover
I am a Scorp woman....always applied this philosophy in all my r.ships

Never got cheated on or dumped


It is the only way to be if you want respect and worship lol 😛
how can you be so sure you havent been cheated on? Every woman who says she's NEVER been cheated doesnt know she was cheated on lol You had to have been cheated on, at least once....impossible....The hottest chicks in the world have been cheated on..
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Posted by VirgSunScorpMoon
Nope, he lives life free as do I. Don't know if any one remembers what healthy relationships look like. You might want to quit dragging your knuckles and come out of the cave.
Well I for one know what healthy is. It's feminists like you that are throwing the wrench into the mix causing men to take second and third looks to make sure good women ARE INDEED good women. Who can blame them?

I'm guessing you landed yourself a needy leo?
You are the most insane feminist on DXP.
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Said the boy from the Virgo forum who has a need to show pics of his penis on his iphone for women who want to see it. lol...
....and the boy who was sad because his Pisces came home from vacation with a bruise on her inner thigh and deemed her cheating.

Don't lie...everyone here knows what I think about feminists...YOU included. 😉
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Posted by VirgSunScorpMoon
and questioning if he is still interested or doing a push-pull game or ignoring or disappearing or whatever it is they are doing that leaves you perplexed or feeling less than - or both. Remember this. You are the woman! You are the exquisite beautiful creature called WOMAN. Never let a Scorpio man or any other make you doubt this fact.

YOU ARE THE WOMAN, if they want you they will work for it!

Until then, treetrunk them in the bloody face!!!!
Of course it's never the woman's fault right?

Automatically since he's a Scorpio it's his fault....yeah makes sense
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Posted by VirgSunScorpMoon
and questioning if he is still interested or doing a push-pull game or ignoring or disappearing or whatever it is they are doing that leaves you perplexed or feeling less than - or both. Remember this. You are the woman! You are the exquisite beautiful creature called WOMAN. Never let a Scorpio man or any other make you doubt this fact.

YOU ARE THE WOMAN, if they want you they will work for it!

Until then, treetrunk them in the bloody face!!!!
Octoberbaby makes better PSA.

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It's ridiculously that every time a woman tells another woman to have more self worth and self respect ignorant selfish men who date women with low self esteem come here and try to make it seem like the women shouldn't. Just because you're insecure you want the woman to forget herself worth to boost your ego and let you play with her head.

I think it's a wonderful thread and women who know their worth shouldn't date cowardly men who just use them. It is not entitlement it's self esteem. We all know men have fragile egos but instead of agreeing with the OP statement you decide to talk out your ass because just maybe it's your guilty conscious to use women with no self esteem.

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Posted by VirgSunScorpMoon
and questioning if he is still interested or doing a push-pull game or ignoring or disappearing or whatever it is they are doing that leaves you perplexed or feeling less than - or both. Remember this. You are the woman! You are the exquisite beautiful creature called WOMAN. Never let a Scorpio man or any other make you doubt this fact.

YOU ARE THE WOMAN, if they want you they will work for it!

Until then, treetrunk them in the bloody face!!!!
Octoberbaby makes better PSA.

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Lol 🙂
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Posted by Rabbit
It's a nice sentiment, but it does disservice to the possibility of having a healthy relationship.

It ignores the fact that these men may just not see you as worth the time/effort. You're not entitled to 100% of men liking you or respecting you.

And you're certainly NOT entitled to an increased level of respect from men simply because you are a woman.


This.
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Posted by VirgSunScorpMoon
and questioning if he is still interested or doing a push-pull game or ignoring or disappearing or whatever it is they are doing that leaves you perplexed or feeling less than - or both. Remember this. You are the woman! You are the exquisite beautiful creature called WOMAN. Never let a Scorpio man or any other make you doubt this fact.

YOU ARE THE WOMAN, if they want you they will work for it!

Until then, treetrunk them in the bloody face!!!!
Octoberbaby makes better PSA.
Lol 🙂
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😄 Hey Susnshine, didn't know you were in this thread lol.
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I was generalizing I didn't say a name. ^^^^^

FYI none of us get paid here for posting threads like these so this is strictly advice on women to stop settling for less then they deserve. There are a lot of women on here who take a lot of crap from shitty men who should take notes. Even you see posts on here about women not being sure where they stand with cowardly men who don't dweeb their time. To any woman the right man will come along who is meant for them they don't have to put up with crap or settle for mind games.

If this doesn't apply to you then great.
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People don't come on here for advice anyway they just come to vent. Those who have given advice I bet it would work if they actually apply it but they don't. There is a difference from talking from the ego and talking from a place of love and compassion. The OP obviously applied her own advice to her life and his happy. She is sharing good information. It's not like she is saying let the guy treat her like crap but to remember that she has value and deserves the very best.

Yes rabbit DESERVE!! No one deserves to be in a miserable unhealthy relationship.

Different strokes for different folks those advice books or what ever may have not helped you but it can help others. What works for you may not work for someone else and vice versa.
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& if the man or woman doesn't view someone that is worthy then they shouldn't be involved. They can cut the head games and just say they are not compatable. You must be equally yoked in order for a relationship to work.

If you think self worth is entitlement issues then you must be a settler and don't view yourself as worthy. You can have what ever you want and you deserve what ever you want.
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Posted by Octoberbaby91

If you think self worth is entitlement issues then you must be a settler and don't view yourself as worthy. You can have what ever you want and you deserve what ever you want.
Where did I write that? C'mon now, don't spin shit here. When someone says "I deserve ___________ "(whatever), to a man it screams entitlement.

I don't settle, because I DO know my self worth which has NOTHING to do with demands or entitlement.


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Less than they deserve?

Who is the arbiter of what they "deserve"?

What you think you "deserve" may not be what the rest of society thinks you "deserve".


Women (and men) should look at themselves first before they go off thinking life's not giving them what they "deserve".
It's that entitlement issue again.
SMH


It all started with giving out trophies for "participation"...
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If you think self worth is entitlement issues then you must be a settler and don't view yourself as worthy. You can have what ever you want and you deserve what ever you want.
Where did I write that? C'mon now, don't spin shit here. When someone says "I deserve ___________ "(whatever), to a man it screams entitlement.

I don't settle, because I DO know my self worth which has NOTHING to do with demands or entitlement.


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You turned this post into something negative when OP was coming from a place of love and compassion. Your perception made it entitlement issues. I am aware of our negative traits of being pessimistic versus optimistic. You are clearly being a pessimist.
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Posted by VirgSunScorpMoon
and questioning if he is still interested or doing a push-pull game or ignoring or disappearing or whatever it is they are doing that leaves you perplexed or feeling less than - or both. Remember this. You are the woman! You are the exquisite beautiful creature called WOMAN. Never let a Scorpio man or any other make you doubt this fact.

YOU ARE THE WOMAN, if they want you they will work for it!

Until then, treetrunk them in the bloody face!!!!
Ahhh yes...
Philosophy of the spoiled brat.

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Thanks Octoberbaby 91. I'm kind of having fun watching the venom and presumption fly here.

Name calling is sad. Assuming you know something about someone over the internet is hilarious.

Just here for the ladies, again, I stick by my post.

Perhaps it comes off as entitled and spoiled to some but IDGAF, It is not my job to make everyone or anyone happy. I see women on here talking about physical and verbal abuse and asking questions about what they should do. They should run and never doubt their self-worth or what they DESERVE.



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Posted by ellle
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Omggggg. Sometimes I forget what a clusterfuck of self defense DXP is. Like damn, where's that projection thread? Besides It wouldn't be the Scorpio board without passive aggressive sarcastic quips.

As a *woman* who has many *woman* friends, most of the uplifting sisterhood self esteem is bullshit. I have friends I love and could tell all day long till I was not only blue in the face, but dead probably, to love themselves and yada yada. But they never do until they finally tire of living a life less than what they're capable of. If anyone should know, it's Scorpios, no one truly transforms until they desire to do so themselves.

The whole sisterhood concept only really works when strong women band together in fight for something of actual impact and value. One woman's self esteem and relationship problems don't really qualify for that.
I agree with this.

It has gotten so fucking ridiculous I see it as just another passive aggressive way for women to shame other women.
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This. That what makes thread like this a joke. "Pick your self esteem out of the garbage and ps, love yourself".

Okay....
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I just think It’s so easy to say this when you’re not the one with feelings for the other person like the women that come on here, whether they are looking for validation or a solution (outsiders opinion). I swear when I’m going through something with the man I love/really like the last person I’m going to talk to is someone that’s going to tell me “fuck him”. Reason being is because Girrrrlll, if they had pills at CVS that made your feelings go away that easy when a man acts up I’d chug them down in a heartbeat. It’s just not that simple. That’s not reality when you have real feelings and time invested in a person, unless it wasn’t real to begin with. True you cannot control a man, or MAKE him want to change by playing games, acting in a way that’s not your genuine self; all of that is garbage and if we are talking about Scorpio men in particular I don’t think it works on them ANYWAY, they read through everything and will most likely laugh at a woman that try to toy with them or game them. I wouldn’t let one walk over me, but I wouldn’t play with him either. Don’t have time for the backlash behind it. To the women that’s crying, confused or upset, I say morph back into who you were when the Scorp/or guy in general first met you. That is the real you before you decided you cared whether he likes your or not, before decided his opinion on your ass, face, choice of clothes matter, that my dear is who he fell for. Nothing wrong with coming here to vent or get validation, but keep in mind these people don’t know you or your mate and can only offer so much, the rest you have to do on ya own. That’s how my mindset is when I came here. lol
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Posted by BlackMamba
i always get hit on by the nasty scorpio guy that's slept with over 100 women. Why me. Do i look like a garbage receptacle?
Lol. if your physically attractive with a certain level of feminity about you, like if your the girly girl type that might be whats driving them up your alley. Oh and your turning them down? oh sheesh, your asking for it. These guys NEVER get turned down, at least they hate it, you instantly become a challenge lol