i'm an aries and i met this scorpio male. we hung out for about a few weeks very lovey dovey and then i left for a trip and he sent me an email saying he just got out of a relationship and he wanted to take things slow. i said no problem i'm not in any rush. when i came back, we hung out got close and i soon learned that one of my friends knows his ex because i commented meeting my friend that night and he commented oh yeah i know him. i was shocked!!! then he proceeded to say there's always two sides of a story. i asked him what his story was and he never really commented. very strange. from what i gathered his gf cheated on him (maybe) i'm not sure he's very vague. he's a very jealous guy. i ended up not meeting my friend that night because he had other stuff to attend to and stayed the night with the scorpio. after a few days later i texted him and said we need to talk. he wanted to talk that day, but when i called him he would not pick up the phone. he said text it. WTF are we 10? so i emailed him and told him one thing, but i wanted to talk to him in person of other things. the one thing was i like him and he wrote me back and said he appreciated it. i came over and had dinner with him and told him that if we were to start a relationship i have to be happy and i will not ride a rollercoaster ride like i did in my past relationship. i also did a big no no and told me there's certain things he reminded me of my ex and he commented that wow that was a big turn down. the reason i said that is i want both of us to be happy. we have a power struggle and he always mention that he is afraid of me and that guys are the head, but girls are the neck and can control it. he then proceeded to ask about his ex, bc he couldn't forgive. you don't heal or start loving again unless you forgive. he walked out and i think he started to tear. he came back and was moody and we fell asleep. i always told him and couldn't do the deed unless i loved someone and that morning we did. we then went volunteering together and all was fine. he wanted me to come out one night afterwards and i was tired so we had a movie night the following. he called me the next week, but i fell asleep. i then proceeded to call him, then texted, and then got worried bc he didn't call me back. he had identity theft happen to him when we last talked. well then i sent him a text each day and without no response.
