The lengths a scorpio will go in the name...

...of "revenge".

There is this scorpio man I know. Let's call him Jack. Jack's ego is the size of the globe. I was so sure he had something in Leo...but alas, looking at his chart, he's got nothing in Leo. He's a true metrosexual and everything is...well...all about him. He's got charisma and draws women like bees to honey. Naturally. He's a scorpio.

So, Jack was in a 5 year relationship with...let's call her Jill. I recently found out that Jill is a Taurus. At some point during the relationship, Jill wanted to settle down...as all bulls do...get married, have kids, etc. Jack was too busy enjoying life and being all uncertain. Jill finally gave up and decided to move on. Then Jack.....................panicked.

Jill met someone else and left Jack. Jack went into a rage. He started sleeping with anything in a skirt but he just couldn't shake Jill. He even started dating someone else at some point last year, but then kept texting and calling Jill. She treated him as a friend and even told him when she was having problems in her new relationship. Jack then asked Jill to go on holiday with him over xmas. And what about his girlfriend, I hear you ask? What girlfriend was Jack's response.

Jack was ecstatic to have Jill back and she even moved in with him for a while when her other relationship broke down. Then......Jill reconciled with her partner and once again...left Jack. Jack was livid. He, being the computer genius that he is, hacked into her facebook account just so he could see the messages Jill was receiving from her partner. He even wanted to post explicit pictures he had of her just to hurt her. He then went on to hack into her email account and change her password so she couldnt get in. He said that if he ever saw that man of hers, he'd kill him.

Why all the effort, one would ask? He was/is hurting so bad he wants her to feel something close to what he's feeling. But he can't. Because Jill moved on a long time ago. She shut down emotionally from him, when she decided to leave him the first time. So even though she was physically around or answering his phone calls, he will never have her back in the way he craves. (I guess never say never...but at this point it looks like never. I mean, once a bull is done, she's pretty much done).

Jack went on a date 2 nights ago. As much as he's "hating" Jill, all he could do while on his date was compare this woman to Jill. He's completely obsessed with Jill...still deeply in love with her.

Fine line between love and hate, hey ?

"i would be making a POINT of being seen having a fan-treetrunking-tastic time and save the emotional stuff for when i'm on my own.

Oh..he does. This is where all the other girls come in. The ones he meets on skiing holidays, adventure holidays, etc. But they dont mean anything to him. He just wants her.

Apparently he felt awful last night because he missed her so much. He's planning on emigrating to Australia but no amount of distance will stop him from feeling how he does about her. He'll probably call her while he's there.

I feel sorry for him. He sooooo missed the boat. Probably doesnt help that she's a Charlize Theron lookalike.

hi jill!

LOL...scorpio_rising I'm not "Jill". Indeed I'm in the middle of my own scorpio drama but not THAT kind of drama.

if jill was over jack, then why would she move in with him for comfort and then dump him as soon as she worked things out with someone else? that sounds pretty thoughtless and heartless of jill to me, to do that to a man that she knew had feelings for her. if i was jack, i'd be more than just a little upset too. except, instead of going psychotic and threatening to kill the next person that jill dates, i would simply wait for the circle of karma to complete itself, as it always does.

sounds like jill hates to be alone.

"if jill was over jack, then why would she move in with him for comfort and then dump him as soon as she worked things out with someone else?"

Because Jack offered support as a "friend". But then again...maybe she had her own agenda

"that sounds pretty thoughtless and heartless of jill to me, to do that to a man that she knew had feelings for her."

But that's the point. She doesnt know. He tells everyone but her. That is the way of the scorpio man.

"sounds like jill hates to be alone."

Dont most people?

Irish I'm a taurus. I'm not expecting nor asking him to change. We've been through this back and forth too many times. It's gotten old now.

We've known each other since we were kids. Therein lies the problem. Too much history. I'm his best friend and he knows I'll always be that...but I think I've come to the end of the road (LOL...I loved that song)

There is a way to get over people, but it is difficult and most people are too weak and pussed out to do it.

Newbie that scorp sounds like the scorp I know who is no longer my freind at all!

"Newbie that scorp sounds like the scorp I know who is no longer my freind at all!"

Let's just be clear on one thing. He's not my scorp...lol. He's someone I know.

"i don't know about other scorp girls but i would HATE for someone that dumped me to find out that i gave a crap - wouldn't you? i would be making a POINT of being seen having a fan-fucking-tastic time and save the emotional stuff for when i'm on my own."

Right there with ya Roxi.

in the end:

Jack fell down and broke his crown...

Jill came tumbling after.

***"i don't know about other scorp girls but i would HATE for someone that dumped me to find out that i gave a crap - wouldn't you? i would be making a POINT of being seen having a fan-treetrunking-tastic time and save the emotional stuff for when i'm on my own."***

I wouldn't know, I have never been dumped. But scorp men are some vengeful bastards (some).

scorpion_rising 4/8/2008 1:26:40 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx

"There is a way to get over people, but it is difficult and most people are too weak and pussed out to do it."

This.

M, you are hype. lol

All I want to know is....

WHAT HAPPENED TO THE PAIL OF WATER—!!!

^^^ it's TWUE !!!

Update on Jack and Jill

So....Jill left Jack for the umpteenth time and left Jack all angry and wanting revenge. He slept around and then would go to work in the morning whining about how he missed Jill. Seems like no woman he's dated comes close to her. So while he was hating on her....he was also loving on her. If a guy said that Jill was pretty, he'd go ?yeah, that's cuz you haven't seen her without makeup?.

Anyhow....fast forward a couple of months and he's still trying to plot his way back into her life...calling her even though she was with someone else. All the time when they were together and she was asking him to settle down, get married and have kids, he was running around on his travels and acting like he was doing her a favour by being with her.

Soooo...cuz he's close to her family, he decided to keep tabs on her. And on his latest mission for info, he found out that Jill was pregnant with her current partner's child. Um....uh...yeah. He's devastated as hell....in fact....he's destroyed. He's now decided to DEFINITELY move to Australia.

Of course we all know he's still gonna be calling Jill.

So.....to all scorp males who like to play silly games...the moral of the story is, dont play them with a bull...LOL.

Anyway, in all seriousness, play your games but then....when you lose the best thing that ever happened to you, just ask yourself....was it really worth it?

Yeah...she probably was...but who knows...I only know his side of the story so it would be interesting to find out what hers was. It just sux for him though.

Arian...I think it would probably have some of the elements of taurus/scorp in it...mixed with aries/libra.

I dont think it would be full-blown taurus/scorp.

Yeah ferdy...I seem to have the same effect on scorps...I attract them left, right and centre...nowadays I run if I notice a guy staring at me from a corner...

There was a year I left Jason...the year before he proposed. I had to literally run from 2 scorps hot on my heels. Uuugh. That opposition effect is seriously powerful.

LOL. Yeah...I had this friend in college she was datign this guy that she wanted me to meet...so I was all...sure, why not. So I got to meet him and this was when I hadnt heard from Jason in months cuz he wanted us to be "friends" cuz I was 3 hours away from him.

Anyway...cut to gf's bf. He was tall and good looking, etc. She told me he was into astrology so I'm like cool. I wasnt into it at that point. Somewhere while we were all talking it sorta slipped that I was a taurus. I swear to God if that bf had antennae...they would have literally stood erect!!!

He looked at me and went "I'm a scorpio. You know what they say about taurus and scorpio right?" I was like..."No, why dont you tell me?"

Then he goes..."well...they're supposed to be good together"

I had a Jason flashback at that moment...visualising the fighting...flying objects...etc then went....sure...whatever.

Anyway, he ended up breaking up with my college friend and then a year later he bumped into me and handed me his number. I didnt bother to call...but..yeah...he was a hottie. I already had too much scorp drama to deal with.

"I tell ya, I won't even invite another Scorpio into my life. Nope. I don't like to suffer too much!"

Trust me hon, it's not even about inviting them. They just sorta find their way.

give me the short version.

thank you kindly, miss sb. 🙂

that's what i wanted.

Great, just what Aus needs...Another scorpio male that's running away from his problems instead of dealing with them lol!!

Please oh please Newbie, do me a favour and tell him to stick to the east coast. Thank you 🙂

jack and jill went up the hill