Has your scorpio secretiveness ruined any relati

*relationships?
There are some scorps who are not that secretive but to the one's that are.
I know I am. And it's never planned or anything, it's just sometimes there are things that I do not want to share [YET]. No way anyone's gonna know all my secrets, we all have things we'll never tell. Not opening up to people can be a big problem. But anyways...

Has it?
Do/did you feel you had a right to your secrets or "not opening up"?
Do/did you view the person as a quitter [or did you]?
Do/did you blame yourself?

Well...not a scorp, but can definitely relate.

Has it?....not necessarily ruined but definitely strained.
Do/did you feel you had a right to your secrets or "not opening up"?...I do
Do/did you view the person as a quitter [or did you]?...I did, but I knew I didnt have the right under the circumstances.
Do/did you blame yourself?...Yes, under the circumstances.

Boy I can relate. I feel alot of friendships have not been formed because I am secretive. And it just isn't about being secretive either, I tend to not reach out to people.

I hate having my 'business' disclosed. So therefore, I don't tell much about myself until I know for sure I want the other person to know me on a personal level. And yes, I do think it's my right to not unveil who I am. I believe we all have a right to be whoever we are. I don't blame myself so much as I tend to believe that it is more 'compatability'. And it isn't just the romantic relationships, it's all relationships.