Heart stomped on by Scorpio!

I meet this scorp man through a good friend of mine. She didn't know him well, so I didn't know alot about him apart from him being single and that he worked alot. I felt attracted to him and asked my friend to invite him to my place for dinner the next time he came over. He came for dinner, I seduced him and he stayed the night. The next night we went out to the movies, he stayed another night. I wanted him to stay too. He was in the process of moving somewhere else to live, so I asked him if he wanted to move in. He did. All was well. He brought me many gifts, mainly sex toys I hadn't even asked for and he also brought many household items, because mine were to old, or I felt he thought my stuff wasn't good enough. I didn't moan about it, but it kinda made me feel like a kid, I am 32. He told me how awesome I was bla bla bla. He told me about his ex's, how they had cheated, stolen and burnt him. Funnily enough, he still kept contact with them. In fact, thats when the trouble began for me. I didn't like the fact that he still had all 5 of his ex's phone numbers. He said that they ring him, and it was just to say hi, or do some business. I found it hard to swallow, and quickly became suspicious of his intentions. I admit, I was also jealous. He also started working later and later and when he came home, he wanted to go to sleep, so I was'nt even getting much sex at all. Its as if the honeymoon was over, in a matter of weeks. He was also arranging all kinds of trips and holidays for us. But it wasn't just us, it included his friends, and I just couldn't understand why he didn't want to be alone with me. I think it might have been something from his past—? I even meet his folks at xmas and he'd meet mine. He started being to secretive with his cell phone, this aroused my suspicsions again, and I had to check it out. One of his ex's had rung. I did'nt say anything to him about it, but the resentment started to build up and I asked him, had he gotten any calls from his ex lately? He said NO. Thats when my trust for him went out the door. There may not have been anything going on, but the fact that he lied to me was enough to upset the applecart. It got worst and eventually I told him to leave. He turned the whole episode around on me, saying I was paranoid, and I'd persicuted him, and he'd done nothing wrong. I thought he would try and stay, but he just packed all his stuff up, including the stuff he brought for the house, and left. He even went to leave all the gifts I had brought him for his birthday a xmas behind, but I insisted he take them, because I really meant to give them. It hurt me heaps the way he acted, I really wanted him to at least try and make up with me, but he just stormed off. We are still keeping in touch and seeing each other, but are no longer a couple. He said, he didn't know what he wanted, and I ask him how he feels he always sez I DONT KNOW. Well I know what I want from a relationship, and its definately not a man who continues to have relations with his ex, and cops out on telling how he feels. I am still in love with this guy, but I dont know if he still feels the same about me. I can't help thinking he tells me lies, because he doesn't want to hurt my feelings, but I wish he would just be straight up with me, so WE or I can move on.

Anyone know where I'm coming from?
Pisces Lady.

Sounds like your are ex number 6. I pitty the poor thing who has to deal with him the next time. Don't you see how he has managed to keep 5 other women hanging—? gee, I DON"T KNOW. I wonder how he does it! lol. You may want to think about how many people you want to be in a relationship with if you continue to see this guy. Sounds like he is building up a harem. I know it sounds blunt, but hey I'm a scorp and this one is just sooo easy to see. Step back and take a look and you will see what I mean. Sex on the first night, sex, and then he's moved in... take your time girl. Men who are worth having in your life are worth getting to KNOW. I've been where you are and I've made the same decisions. It's never much fun and usually leaves you feeling like such a twit. Get away from this guy now before you feel any worse. Anything you get from this point on is your fault because now you know his game.
S

Sounds like my ex scorpio. Ball player by any chance?

Yuck! My mother warned me about guys like that!

I know EXACTLY where you are coming from. I'm a pisces lady too who dated a scorpio for almost four years and he sounds just as trifling as your ex!!

I dont know what to tell you. Im a Scorpio and this whole thing sounds out of character. Scorpios fall too hard to split their emotions like that.Were one on one with the depth of the ocean, sometimes to our own demise. This guy must have had some other issues or these other women fulfilled aspects of his life that he didnt posess on his own. Sounds like childhood issues with his mother have impeded on his adult life.

NO, i'm not a ball player. I wanted you to see very clearly that this guy IS playing you and all those others. It may feel better if you hear this with a bunch of frilly 'warm fuzzy' stuff but, what you really need is to SEE. You are a human being and this guy has treated you like a posession, or worse like part of a collection. It hurts because you treated him like a HUMAN BEING. Like he was 'one of a kind'. You deserve better and he apparently doesn't know how to behave or treat others. I can say stuff like this because i NEVER expect to be treated any differently that I treat another person. And in the past I have been decieved so many times, and it has caused me A LOT of pain. You would think it would harden my heart, yet I still have to be vigilant and not assume everyone knows how to treat others. I would much rather be told by someone that is genuinely concerned about me that I am making a mistake, than have someone I love and trust take my heart and crush it in front of me. I am genuinely concerned for you. What you described about this guy is just plain MEAN. This has nothing to do with Scorpio, some people are just jerks no matter what sign they are. Please, realize that this guy has issues that can cause you a great deal of pain.
S.

Thanks for all your sympathy. I think i will give this guy a miss! although i still have heaps of feelings for the guy, I know I can do alot better.

Well personally I think its playing with danger to become sexually involved so soon..unless you are very clear about the boundaries. That sex is just sex and you are not in a relationship.

Or if you are in a relationship, that you are exclusive. But this kind of relationship does not happen from a one-night stand. You offered yourself to him right off the bat..hell yeah he is going to buy what you are selling.

Why did you expect to be treated any better? People don't appreciate what comes easy.
And there is clearly a type of Scorpio man that is very lowly developed who fits the character type you mentioned. I know a married Scorpio man who sleeps around with all these gals, and yes uses his cellphone rather frequently.

Its easy for him, even though they know he is married because he is so sexy and charming. Hence the flaw I see in scorpio men who have not gone beyond the crawling stage. Very magnetic to the ladies, charming..and capable of lying, hiding true feelings and leading doublelives. Its only the higher ones who devote their lives to making one mate happy in all ways, is my opinion based on too much direct experience.

I saw him last night for the first time in weeks. I told him exactly what I wanted from him (total commitment) or just go away all together and stop torturing me/us. He seemed to be getting off on this proposal, and wanted sex right then. I made him hot, and then through cold water on it by not giving in to his sexual desires, not to mention my own. I think scorp likes a challenge and me telling him to go away, makes him want me more— What a sicko - I can not deal with these emotional mind games and I have far to much love to offer someone who's deserving it, rather than squandering it on someone who actually likes to see me suffer emotionally. The ball is in my court now - SO.... we shall see aye!

Scorpio men can be "impossible" to understand. I, myself, WON'T have sex with a Scorpio who doesn't respect me!