How jealous is a scorpio MALE?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Unregistered on Monday, November 5, 2001 and has 13 replies.

Are Scorpio Men Jealous and Possessive?

Most people describe Scorpio men as jealous, but not always in obvious ways. Instead of reacting loudly, they tend to watch, test, or pull back while trying to figure out what’s going on. This can come across as controlling or intense, especially when trust feels uncertain.

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@Unregistered
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What sign, in your experience, is the most jealous and possessive one?
How jealous is a scorpio MALE and how does he express his jealousy?
Thank you in advance for answering my question.

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@Unregistered
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hi dear, i have lots of experience with scoprios. they do not show you they are jealous, they will however make you feel bad enough for distrubing their ego. in my relationships with scorps, i was acutally the one that got fricked out, because everytime someone occasionally was flirting with me, my scorp made sure he did the same to other chick. it's very offending, and they do know how to hurt you. watch out. on the other side they are very sensitive and vulnerable themselves. i just got out of relationship with a second scorpio a month ago and it still hurts me. good luck

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@Sister_Moon
21 Years

Yes...I would agree that Scorpions do not readily show jealousy...nor do they forget the feelings you have caused!! (Even though they didn't let you know about it!!)

They protect themselves covertly and reach out to sting when they feel necessary...

Good Luck!
Star

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@Scorpio Babe
21 Years

Hi,
I agree with Star...Scorpion men won't express their jealousy in the typical (bar fight) sorta' way! They hold it in until they need to release it- and usually at that point you have no clue as to where the problem came from!
Of course this is a generalization and not all Scorpion men have this trait...but I have found it in most Scorpios (men and women) that I have known.
Good Luck to you!
-Scorpio Babe

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@ronda22
21 Years

Yes. Scorpios tend to be jealous alot. Trust me, I am a scorpio. We want all the attention to be just focused on us especially in relationships. We are very nice, outgoing, friendly and very romantic people. But when people do something to make us mad, then we hold grudges for a long period of time. As far as relationships go, when we fall in love with somebody, that's it. We don't want nobody else. We want a lot of attention and affection and we do the same for our partners/ spouse as well. I am not speaking for all scorpios, but that's how some of them are. I am a scorpio female. I hope i helped you out.

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i'm a scorpio gurl, so just now that even though i'm not a MALE i know what i'm talking about. scorpios get very jealous especially when another person is flirting with their object of affection right in their face. they won't show that they are jealous, but will in a way or another try to get back at their crush most likely in an indirect form. it rally hurts a scorpio inlove to see someone else with that special someone. and they won't forget a thing, they will always react. so be tender with your scorp it will also com eback and be unforgotten. they are very fair. Don't get your scorp too jealous or it can be distructive to both people.
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@Anna
21 Years

Well I know first hand the jealousy of the Scorpio male. I was married to one for three years. I'm a very outgoing person. My job requires that I interact with people of various social backgrounds both male & female. We'll my jealous Scorpio husband could not handle the (male) part of this equation & insisted that I get another job. Of course that response was met with a, "You don lost yo mind!"
Anyway, don't let it get you down. What you must do if just shower the Scorpio with gooo-globs of affection so they can get over the brief moment they though was inappropriate and do so quickly. The sooner you rain down affection on them the sooner they put the inicident on the back burner.
But take note, because the Scorpio's are and I guarantee that in the heat of an arguement you will hear about this.
Lovingly say that you peeped their jealously and that's why you love them because they don't miss a beat when it comes to the opposite sex.

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@Unregistered
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Scorpio IS the most jealous of all birth signs - both male AND female. I'm a Virgo woman with some Scorpio traits - especially jealousy - it comes from my Scorpio grandmother! How to deal? It's not enough to tell a Scorpio you would never do anything to hurt them - you have to prove yourself by showing that. NEVER lie, keep secrets, cheat on them (that's the WORST thing you can do) or give them ANY reason to believe you would break promises to them. You can say: "Your jealousy is destroying our relationship and I can't marry a man (or woman) who doesn't trust me." MOST Scorpios will listen.

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@Unregistered
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I am a Scorpio woman, who has only had serious relationships with Scorpio men. Believe me, I know and understand my own kind, they do the same for me in return.
Some people tend to trigger the jealousy button more than others. As long as someone is feeling really secure in the relationship, it shouldn't come out as much. How good a job are you doing to nourish that level of security? Don't sluff it all off on the other person, maybe its you!

Personally, I think it is very rude to even "look" at other people when you are seriously involved, or to flirt w/others, etc. To some that would seem overly possesive and controlling. Got news for yah, maybe you are just not a good match for a traditional scorpio mate.
Everyone has their quirks, this is ours.
I have been with people that I didn't feel one ounce of jealousy over--because I did not have any deep feelings for them. Jealousy is a protective reaction to a percieved rival. Some do go over the top and you know they have other issues.
I love my scorpio man's jealousy, that is why he is with me now instead of a woman that could not understand him.

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@Unregistered
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Scorpio is suppose to being in control. Being jealous is being out of control. It is giving the power over to the person he is trying to contol. To be dominate is to be in control. To be jealous is being out of contol.

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@Unregistered
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I've been with my Scorpio man for about six months now. Although he has never overtly expressed his jealousy, he recently told me something that about a month after we began dating, we were both partying at the same night club, and he actually sent an acquaintance over to me to attempt to get my number. This was his way of testing how I felt about him (after only 1 month of dating!!!) I learned a valuable lesson...as cool as they may seem on the exterior, Scorpios always know what's going on and they NEVER forget!