help!

How often did you cancel plans with him? I mean put yourself in his shoes, if he's often busy whenever you wanna hang out wouldn't that make you upset too?

Like I hung out with him a lot. It was only a few days where I wasn't able to. And he would get really upset about it and not talk to me for days after...which I think is a bit petty.

Okay I don't understand why would he do this. I mean he's got problems? isn't it better to have someone supportive beside you thru rough times? sounds weird. Did anyone come back in his life from the past? and maybe you are not aware of it?

Posted by aquariusartist

Barely. It was on one weekend and maybe a couple of days

I let him know whenever I was busy

There was also a lot of times he tried calling me but I was always in the subway and the calls didn't go through. He did believe me.

He doesn't have a phone. He's a lot older then me and he's very old fashioned and doesn't care about having a phone. He will call from pay phones to get in touch with me and every time he has I always ended up missing the stupid call by accident or like I said in the subway or something. I can't even call him back if I missed it because of it being a pay phone. He understood the times when I missed it and I think he believed me but I think I may have tired him out from missing his calls?

Lol my 65-year old, old fashioned mom has a phone. I don't know how you guys can make this work if you can't even get a hold of each other.

Also, are you sure this guy isn't married?

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Posted by aquariusartist

Barely. It was on one weekend and maybe a couple of days

I let him know whenever I was busy

There was also a lot of times he tried calling me but I was always in the subway and the calls didn't go through. He did believe me.

He doesn't have a phone. He's a lot older then me and he's very old fashioned and doesn't care about having a phone. He will call from pay phones to get in touch with me and every time he has I always ended up missing the stupid call by accident or like I said in the subway or something. I can't even call him back if I missed it because of it being a pay phone. He understood the times when I missed it and I think he believed me but I think I may have tired him out from missing his calls?

Lol my 65-year old, old fashioned mom has a phone. I don't know how you guys can make this work if you can't even get a hold of each other.

Also, are you sure this guy isn't married?

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Lol I know. I tried giving him an old phone and he broke the battery. The battery died and never came back on. He's very, very old fashioned. He can tell time by not looking at the clock. He's like a cave man lol! Still love him though for it. He's definitely not married because he had to move in with his mom.

Posted by aquariusartist

His mother is really horrible to him, living with her now after he hasn't in like 20 years. Also other stories that are too long to explain right now.

I'm not sure. He has this friend that's a girl that they seem really close but he said they are just good friends...I'm not sure but maybe he has something with her? I can't see him doing something like that. It's a possibility...I think I look way better then her though lol. Not to sound mean but if anyone else saw they would know.

I know that he lost his job last week

He was totally different and happy when he had his job because he's been trying to get his life together. He was totally different. As soon as he lost his job, he hasnt been feeling well and seemed unhappy. I think maybe he just has a lot to handle right now?

Lot to handle right now and pushing someone loving away? sorry but sounds complete bs

Go ahead and tell him you want to talk to him and unload all your thoughts and doubts and tell him you want to work on the relationship and that you are not going anywhere unless he really wants to. Face to face, in person. Why won't you offer him to move in with you

Lot to handle right now and pushing someone loving away? sorry but sounds complete bs

Go ahead and tell him you want to talk to him and unload all your thoughts and doubts and tell him you want to work on the relationship and that you are not going anywhere unless he really wants to. Face to face, in person. Why won't you offer him to move in with you

I don't know how I can meet him in person if he hasn't answered my last email which was me saying my thoughts and telling him that ill always care and be there for him and that was the end.

I can't get him to move in with me because I live with a bunch of my family too, father head of the household so I have no say in who moves in, also there's no room either.

He's told me waaay before that he always starts over with things. Like he has thrown out a lot of stuff, starts a new career etc. And that email he said he wants to start over again.

I think he is crazy...

Posted by Arachnophobia

Payphones are for prisoners and people who don't want to leave a trace.

Yeah maybe I should stop liking him lol

An "old-fashioned" guy with no phone but has a computer since you guys communicate via email? Or does he go to a public library or an internet cafe?

Either way this dude is shady af. Stop trying to analyze shit and move on. Nobody's got time for this drama.

. they are emotional manipulators.



I've heard but I never had scorpio friends or a lover so I couldn't tell til I experienced it. And also why I'm on here asking for help

Posted by Dolluxxe

An "old-fashioned" guy with no phone but has a computer since you guys communicate via email? Or does he go to a public library or an internet cafe?

Either way this dude is shady af. Stop trying to analyze shit and move on. Nobody's got time for this drama.

He uses his mom's laptop lol. And the library sometimes if he has to do some work there.

He was shady when I first met him because of all of this but as I got to know him, I saw that he really is very old fashioned with everything else.

But I should probably not analyze like you said...he does seem crazy with the way he just makes sudden decisions and seems revengeful

Thank you everyone for the help!

Posted by aquariusartist

Lot to handle right now and pushing someone loving away? sorry but sounds complete bs

Go ahead and tell him you want to talk to him and unload all your thoughts and doubts and tell him you want to work on the relationship and that you are not going anywhere unless he really wants to. Face to face, in person. Why won't you offer him to move in with you

I don't know how I can meet him in person if he hasn't answered my last email which was me saying my thoughts and telling him that ill always care and be there for him and that was the end.

I can't get him to move in with me because I live with a bunch of my family too, father head of the household so I have no say in who moves in, also there's no room either.

He's told me waaay before that he always starts over with things. Like he has thrown out a lot of stuff, starts a new career etc. And that email he said he wants to start over again.

I think he is crazy...

I'm sorry but have to agree, he does sound insane. You can't get rid of people like that, you are a human, not an object. Wish him well then, I wouldn't want to be with someone who does that to me

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Posted by aquariusartist

Barely. It was on one weekend and maybe a couple of days

I let him know whenever I was busy

There was also a lot of times he tried calling me but I was always in the subway and the calls didn't go through. He did believe me.

He doesn't have a phone. He's a lot older then me and he's very old fashioned and doesn't care about having a phone. He will call from pay phones to get in touch with me and every time he has I always ended up missing the stupid call by accident or like I said in the subway or something. I can't even call him back if I missed it because of it being a pay phone. He understood the times when I missed it and I think he believed me but I think I may have tired him out from missing his calls?

Lol my 65-year old, old fashioned mom has a phone. I don't know how you guys can make this work if you can't even get a hold of each other.

Also, are you sure this guy isn't married?

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he has someone. Married or has a girlfriend at home. lol

and likes to keep you on the "side" piece, you know greedy. wants to have his cake and eat it too.

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Posted by Dolluxxe

An "old-fashioned" guy with no phone but has a computer since you guys communicate via email? Or does he go to a public library or an internet cafe?

Either way this dude is shady af. Stop trying to analyze shit and move on. Nobody's got time for this drama.

He uses his mom's laptop lol. And the library sometimes if he has to do some work there.

He was shady when I first met him because of all of this but as I got to know him, I saw that he really is very old fashioned with everything else.

But I should probably not analyze like you said...he does seem crazy with the way he just makes sudden decisions and seems revengeful

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what does it matter? If you DESIRE him... just get him!!! and do the dirrtttyyy deed...

😛

and later on ... you might get together. heehee.

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Posted by Arachnophobia

Payphones are for prisoners and people who don't want to leave a trace.

Yeah maybe I should stop liking him lol

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lmao

Posted by aquariusartist

Posted by Dolluxxe

An "old-fashioned" guy with no phone but has a computer since you guys communicate via email? Or does he go to a public library or an internet cafe?

Either way this dude is shady af. Stop trying to analyze shit and move on. Nobody's got time for this drama.

He uses his mom's laptop lol. And the library sometimes if he has to do some work there.

He was shady when I first met him because of all of this but as I got to know him, I saw that he really is very old fashioned with everything else.

But I should probably not analyze like you said...he does seem crazy with the way he just makes sudden decisions and seems revengeful

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He lives at home with his mother. Uses his mother's computer because he doesn't have his own one. He doesn't own a mobile phone. He's considerably older than you. Seems crazy. Makes sudden decisions. Seems vengeful.

What exactly is it you like about this person?

Don't waste your time. It's not a match. It's never going to go anywhere.