help!?!

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libragirl37
@libragirl37
12 Years

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I was dating a scorpio guy and I feel really hard for him and he did too. Saturday he was supposed to come over after he got off. I planned a really nice night and then at the last minut he said he was going home to sleep. I understood but I was sas. Sometimes when I'm sad I turn it to anger and that's what I did. He said he was done and that that attitude doesn't fly with him. We were texting back and forth on yesterday and he came over to return my stuff that I had left at his house. I had planned on. Telling him sorry in person but I froze up and he left as soon as he walked away I fell to the ground and started crying. He drove the opposite way when leaving so he didn't pass me when leaving. I texted him and tried calling him saying I was sorry and feel horrible about the way I acted and asking if we could try and make it work because I can change that. I haven't heard anything from him so I know he's ignoring me but I'm having a very hard time accepting its over. I love him so much and he's my best friend. I feel like a piece of me is now missing! I always thought that just ment someone was really sad but I really feel it. I feel like he is the one and I don't want to give up. I've never been happier in my life then when were together. I cant give up on someone I feel so strongly about. Any advice on what to do? Please help
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DMV
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15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

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damn girl, you got crazy written all over you. 😛. seriously though, whats your moon sign? sounds like he has your right where he wants to, groveling and ready to do what ever he wants. he needs to get to the core essence of what is you. he needs to know how you will react in any situation.

do not contact him anymore. go about your business and act like he doesnt even exist. contacting him more seems like the right thing to do, but it isnt. just fall back and wait.

also, defriend his ass on facebook immediately.
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15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

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Posted by exoskeleton
lol, she's trying to reconcile. unfriending him would just give him the wrong idea. 😛



im thinking with my warped emotions. i say to defriend him because he'd rather talk through fb than to her directly and her checking his fb over and over again is going to make her obsessive. and vice versa.

my scorp would do the same lameo things. post on fb instead of being direct. so i decided that i would take away that medium. if he had something on his mind he would then reach out to me instead of reaching out on fb.
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beautifulsoul74
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13 Years5,000+ Posts

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@OP

If you understood then why the reaction? Why get angry. It's apparent that you didn't understand. Most men would react the way he did because its a huge red flag. Especially with it being pretty early. Plans can be remade. Keep this in mind, both of you have the power to shape the relationship the way both of you want. Next time, adjust and don't overreact.