Help! I don't know what to do !?!?

Like many of us, I fell in love with a magnetic, alluring, sexy, secretive, emotionally closed down scorpio man. After all the typical communication break downs, emotional wall erection and enough drama to fuel a Mexican soap opera, he disappeared on me, leaving me heart broken and lifeless.

After 3 months of sad filled emptiness I took the advice of so many personal friends and loving DXP friends here and climbed my way out of the abyss by practicing detachment, letting go, de-obsessing and moving on. I stopped trying to reach out to him when his only reply was silence. I decided to not try to dissect why he did what he did and start looking at why *I* did what *I* did.

Now today, I have regained my self esteem, improved my self-respect, shed all the shame of attaching myself to a hopeless person who hurt me, I feel 95% better and have my sense of self back and can see the light of a future with someone else. Help!!!!! What do I do now that I am happy, joyous and free from the scorpio addiction?

Please advise.

First, put some pants on. Shut down your computer and go out and enjoy life. Take a walk, meet new people, go dancing.

I will put my pants on for nobody.

Panties all the way!

Buy some fireworks and do the no pants dance while celebrating.

If you don't know what the no pants dance is... it's the little wiggle you do when you go try on pants... except there are no pants..

SOOOO proud of you, Ms. Beautiful!! 🙂

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Buy some fireworks and do the no pants dance while celebrating.

If you don't know what the no pants dance is... it's the little wiggle you do when you go try on pants... except there are no pants..

SOOOO proud of you, Ms. Beautiful!! 🙂

But she needs pants to keep her legs from burning. Those fireworks burn like Hades.

Posted by sheathedclaws
Buy some fireworks and do the no pants dance while celebrating.

If you don't know what the no pants dance is... it's the little wiggle you do when you go try on pants... except there are no pants..

SOOOO proud of you, Ms. Beautiful!! 🙂

I can shake. I can shimmy. I can wiggle my waggle too.

Thanks, friend 🙂

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Posted by sheathedclaws
Buy some fireworks and do the no pants dance while celebrating.

If you don't know what the no pants dance is... it's the little wiggle you do when you go try on pants... except there are no pants..

SOOOO proud of you, Ms. Beautiful!! 🙂

But she needs pants to keep her legs from burning. Those fireworks burn like Hades.

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I have invisible repellant to protect from burns. It's my love juice 😉

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Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by sheathedclaws
Buy some fireworks and do the no pants dance while celebrating.

If you don't know what the no pants dance is... it's the little wiggle you do when you go try on pants... except there are no pants..

SOOOO proud of you, Ms. Beautiful!! 🙂

But she needs pants to keep her legs from burning. Those fireworks burn like Hades.

I have invisible repellant to protect from burns. It's my love juice 😉

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Heheh - love juice!

I call it my 'nectar' 😉 Sweet, refreshing, and always hits the spot 😉

Oh my, pardon my French..

🙂 You deserve some retail therapy or a present or something. Get a puppy 😄 Aw, puppies

Dang, CowP, your math has given me a headache. I have to take off my panties and have a lay down after all that percentage stuff.

Whats your address so I can mail them to ya 😉

Is that her real ass (real pic of herself)? Wow. Girl, u dont need pants, u dont even need panties- u should be allowed to walk the streets naked. If i were u i would walk around with a mirror attached to my behind. Back on topic..u've done good for yourself and got things under control, enjoy your new found freedom for and focus on other positive things in your life, like that ass of yours..ahem. Personally, i dont think life is all about dating- ur a loving person, share that with other people in your life, your son or other people who need and deserve your love (visiting terminally ill children in hospitals, etc). The thing with scorpio moon is that, u might think ur fine and start a new relationship- 1 wrong move from your new partner and u find yourself back to square one. All the things u thought were solved come crashing back. Just enjoy now and let God worry about that perfect relationship with some guy. He will surely come when u least expect it. Goodluck