Gem girl struck by Scorp Guy...

i work with this gorgeous scorpio man. he is serious when it comes to work, but when he comes around me he lightens up and gives me his sexy smile. i saw him staring at me today, but when i looked back he turned away. he's shy, i know, and it only attracts me more to him. he even does little things for me like gets me coffee if he's getting himself one. he'll help me with my work and i dont even ask him to. he's just so to himself, but when he breaks out of that mode, i find that he comes around me and really no one else.

the girls at work tell me that he's into me, but he just doesnt know how to approach me. i hope it's true, because i feel the exact way. i am finding myself thinking about this mysterious guy more and more. i want to sit on his lap one day and give him a big kiss, thats the crazy girl in me, but my reserved nature would never allow such things. i cant get him out my mind though.

before my mind goes down that imaginative stage....what he'd be like in bed, marriage, kids... that whole whirlwind of wishful thinking needs to be tamed. we were doing a calendar, putting our names on it to mark our bdays at work one day, that's how i know he's a scorp.

i get along with this sign extremely well; my brother is scorp, uncles, and best friends are mainly scorps. i dont know this man well though, and im wondering how we would match up. can you please explain our charts?

MINE:

Rising Sign Gemini
Sun Gemini
Moon Taurus
Mercury Gemini
Venus Cancer
Mars Capricorn
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
N. Node Aries

HIS:

Rising Sign Aquarius
Sun Scorpio
Moon Virgo
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Capricorn
Mars Aquarius
Jupiter Capricorn
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Scorpio
N. Node Taurus

thanks 🙂

don't be fooled by the shy act. scorps are not shy. reserved perhaps. we sniff around people a lot before we make a move..just to test the water and prevent rejection (although we can tell from first eye contact if we'll get it on with you). sounds like he's into you. just wait and see what happens...don't become obvious...be yourself. we see through fake and if you're faking to impress, that's even worse cos you probably don't even know what impresses him and might have the opposite affect.

btw...calm down the gem excited puppy thing you guys do...big no, no.

scorps don't like to be with people who they feel draw the wrong kind of attention to themselves. we feel reflected discomfort very easily sometimes. i know it's ridiculous but i can't stand being in the company of someone who says the wrong thing at the wrong time..i distance myself immediately cos it makes me cringe as much as if i said it myself, lol.

having said that, when i really like someone, i become really clumsy and make a bit of an idiot of myself...i just find it embarrassing the other way around.

scorps tend to be hypocrits a lot of the time 😛

I'm a Gemini enamored with a Scorpio in Venus guy. He's actually a Libra (Oct 21) but he has so much Scorp in his chart that he acts a lot like a Scorp. We seem to get along really well also, even though typically Scorps and Gems aren't supposed to get along. I think it must be because of other placements in our charts. Can anyone tell me what our charts show?

ME

Sun - Gemini
Moon - Taurus
Mercury - Taurus
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Virgo
Jupiter - Gemini
Saturn - Pisces
Uranus - Virgo
Neptune - Scorpio
Pluto - Virgo
Ascendant - Libra


HIM

Sun - Libra
Moon - Sagittarius
Mercury - Libra
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Scorpio
Jupiter - Aries
Saturn - Aquarius
Uranus - Virgo
Neptune - Scorpio
Pluto - Virgo
Ascendant - Cancer

excuse me, maygirl. this is my thread. if you want your question answered how about starting your own? that's a bit rude....

i really dont listen to the girls at work. when it comes to meeting people, i prefer one on one, not 3rd party mouth pieces. i feel it in his gaze that he has some interest. scorps do know how to make the first move, i agree. and until he does, im going to be waiting...and watching. although i think something already has begun. (or maybe its wishful thinking)

today he brushed past me, smelling so damn good (he wears Diesel cologne. i know that smell anywhere as my uncle wears it all the time.) he flashed me one of his bright smiles before walking away. at noon, he went out for lunch and brought me back chinese. how did he know my favorite cuisine was chinese lol? mr. scorp said 'i know you were stuck in your work, so i thought to bring you back something. hope you enjoy.' as he gave me the bag, his hand brushed against mine and lingered. his eyes were burning into mine and then he excused himself and went back to his business.

*sigh* i should just put this out of my mine. office romances are a no no.

LOL @ Maygirl.

looks like there's some twin in-fighting going on! get out the mud bath!! 😛

gem: sounds like typical scorp flirtation and furthermore...he paid for your lunch? omg, i would have to really, really want someone to actually pay for something for them. scorp guys are like that though. they like to give little gifts. the one i was seeing bought me a weird wooden representation of adonis, complete with oversized boy bits..typical scorp, lol. it's still on display in my house even though he turned out to be a moody wotsit.

it's mainly the little brushes of the hand and just barely touching you as he walks past....that's what we girls do as well. and the way we smell is reeeeeeeally important to us. we like to smell good. yeah, he's into you i think 🙂

Scorp men shy? Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeell NO! lol!

Posted by GemEyes
excuse me, maygirl. this is my thread. if you want your question answered how about starting your own? that's a bit rude....

Excuse yourself. I didn't know everything had to be all about you. Enjoy.

GemEyes- Shy Scorps DO exist. I'm a Gem married to one. When we first met, he would do nice little things for me, but was scared to make any moves. A mutual friend had to tell me that he was interested. He finally asked me out to a concert, on Valentine's Day, and STILL couldn't call it a date. If I hadn't been the one to kiss him, who knows if we would ever have gotten together. Just keep appreciating the little things, and maybe he'll gain more confidence.

Oh yeah...but "shy" doesn't mean he doesn't know exactly what he wants. It just might take him a little more time to get there. If he wants you, he will figure out a way, I'm sure.

hi all. thank you to the serious posters.

this week has been interesting. zane, mr. scorp, has been finding ways to break the ice between us. i recently found out about his nick name, mouse. apparently he was born in 84 and that's his chinese symbol. we've been talking about our love of asian culture and our hobbies. it seems that right before we get too intimate into things, he excuses himself or pulls back. before we left work yesterday, 'Mouse' came up to me saying that he doesnt want make things uncomfortable at work, but he really does like me. he went on explaining that office romances are taboo, but he cant help what he feels. i gave him a small smile and told him that we are two adults and we should be responsible enough to know how to keep work and outside things seperate. he gave me one of his killer sexy grins and escorted me to my car.

before i got in, he pulled me to him all of a sudden and gave me a hug. he's just as strong as i imagined. he kissed me gently on the forehead and opened my car door for me. he stood there and waited until i got out of the lot.

today, i find flowers on my desk with a little note from him. 'From Z. Hope these give you a little sunshine on this rainy day.' there was a PS on the bottom of the note...'I would like to take you to dinner tonight.' i didnt see zane until lunch time today. he was still busy with clients but he turned and gave me a little wink and smile. i beeen thinking about his fine ass all day. he's starting to get under my skin, but i'm still going to play it cool. i want to see all there is to this guy.

i like that he is in quiet pursuit of me, for lack of better words. but is what he did a bit much? i'm feeling this man from the floor to the ceiling... but i want something real if we were to unite. am i a challenge for him, or does he genuinely like me? i know how guys like to run game on the females they havent gotten yet. i dont feel this from him... but that man is fine as hell and can have any woman he wants. im going to take my time and see how what this man is really about...

one thing to be aware of is that sometimes you can do or say something or the scorp can think something and they can completely about-face on you without prior warning. i know i've done this before. it's a bit judgemental but not necessarily a considered decision. it's can be something bad or something trivial....just carry on doing what you're doing 🙂

the weekend...i cant explain. friday night we went out to dinner. zane was a sweet gentleman. he is so knowledgable about a range of different things. he's funny and very charming. i tried hard to play aloof, but by the end of the night i was melting. this man is so smooth he nearly smoothed me right out of my underwear. but i didnt give in to my urges. after dinner we went for a drive and he showed me his 'quiet places' he'd like to go reflect at. he's 6'1 to my 5'2. powerful muscular frame, but he is so gentle. we got out and strolled around for a few. he picked me up and carried me across the sand. i couldnt fight my feelings anymore; when he put me down, i kissed him and we made out heavily. strange, since we're still relatively new to each other, but it felt comfortable. right even. saturday we held hands and cuddled.

we hung out all this weekend until sunday evening. we went dancing and drinking a little. mouse is light on his feet. he escorted me home and left me with one of the sweetest kisses. today at work, we smiled and he winked at me knowingly. we have agreed to keep what we do out of the office. i havent slept with him yet, but if things keep going well, that man is in for the ride of his life.

are there any signs i need to look for? sudden behavior change? moods? i've noticed how protective of me he has become already. not crazy obsessive, but when i am around him i feel as if he's branded me 'his' in his mind. i like it, but i dont want to settle just yet before i know what i face completely.

Omg! Im so excited for you! GemEyes! I have both a very similar chart to yours (I am a Gem too!), as does my Scorpio does to Mouse. Im so excited! Please give us updates. I just really want things to work out for you guys so I have something to look forward to mine too! UPDATES!!!!

this sounds like the beginning of something very beautfiul. GE, all should be fine if your 'evil twin' doesnt come out and scare him away. geminis are good for doing a 360 on a person, leaving the poor victim askign what happened. you should be fine with him as long as he doesnt engulf you in his intensity too soon. sexual attraction is very strong in this grouping, but beware of differences outside of the bedroom. it will seem like you two are from different planets unless proper time is taken to find out about one another on a deeper level. get past the eye candy and raging hormones to see the person that mouse is.

yeah...updates but spare the details if you don't mind. we scorps have vivid imaginations. we can fill in the blanks 😛

why are you still asking for signs? why are you asking any questions at all? just go with the flow and enjoy it.

don't be too taken in by the schmaltz though. the scorp i was seeing treated me like i was a goddess, as he should of course. few weeks later, he heard a rumour about me he didn't like and we are not seeing eachother any more. so scorp men are very capable of switching from full on wooing overload to being cold as a stone.

your only protection against that is to not fall for him too quickly. once you have sex with him, everything gets turbo charged on both sides and you have to not cling too tightly in case he suddenly cuts the rope.

Posted by TheScorpionKing
this sounds like the beginning of something very beautfiul. GE, all should be fine if your 'evil twin' doesnt come out and scare him away. geminis are good for doing a 360 on a person, leaving the poor victim askign what happened. you should be fine with him as long as he doesnt engulf you in his intensity too soon. sexual attraction is very strong in this grouping, but beware of differences outside of the bedroom. it will seem like you two are from different planets unless proper time is taken to find out about one another on a deeper level. get past the eye candy and raging hormones to see the person that mouse is.

yeah...and this too.

rigor is wise as hell. that is all.

Gem, you will never fully be his nor submit to him because its not in you to do so. you will accept all the good things this man does for you. you will even want to go as far as to sleep with him, but more so for your own pleasure. but when it's time to give him what he's seeking - committment, depth of relationship, and real love, you will get scared and retreat. you might pull what alot of gems do and resort to spiteful behavior, such as sudden stopping of contact, treating him cruelly, or even sleeping with someone else, to send scorp the message that he's gotten to close and you no longer have interest in him.

when it comes to having scorpio as a partner, alot of people like to get their toes wet. but when it's time to dive deep and experience the depth of their waters, people get scared and take off. truthfully, airy geminis could really give a crap less about emotional scorpio. it's too detached, selfish, and impatience for that. this pair always sounds lovely at first. but give it some time. you two wont be able to stand each other. he needs to keep his eyes out for your flightiness. because it is in you, gem. after you got what you wanted, your curiousity will be gone and your affections for mr. sucker will be too.

its been a mellow couple of days. we had deadlines to meet, so we all stayed a bit late on breaktime to finish up. for this the boss gave us extra time for lunch. mouse and i met up at a cafe and talked. we got on to why he was single. he told me he used to be a sex addict. he's been celibate for 3 years now. i didnt know how to feel about that at first, but seeing how he did not try anything with me i quickly relaxed. we all have or had things to conquer in life so i couldnt judge.

i expected him to no be so candid, but he came right out and told me. looking me dead in the eye. i asked him why he didnt try to hide it. zane said he's trying to get to know me and he wants me to know the real him. he cant build anything on a lie. i jokingly asked if that's what his plan was - to build something with me. he remained serious and said yes, be it a relationship or friendship. i respected that. i felt that he came to me honestly.

i asked how was it so easy for him to not go back to that habit of screwing various women. mouse explained that he had to change his views on sex and women. his father raised him and he was always around his various girlfriends. he grew up thinking having alot of sex with alot of women made him a man. he said doing that only made him feel emptier and like he was abusing something sacred. that's how he got into buddhism. he needed spiritual food and guidance. the more he began to exercise his mind and spirit instead of his hormones, the more control he gained over his problem.

we talked on until it was time for us to return to the office. "so that's why you havent been trying to sleep with me." i said. i took my hand softly and looked at me. "not only that. i vowed to save myself for my wife. that's the next and only woman im ever sleeping with again." i do admire the fact he had the strength to overcome, but im not going to lie. i am seriously turned on by him. at least i know that he is genuine in his actions towards me and is not trying to get me in bed. i dont know if my bad twin likes that though.

update -


the connection with mouse has been great. we have become close in this short time. his emotions have been stable and he has been an overall good guy. he is a gentleman, but i see hints of bad boy in him too. i dont think he's playing fair, however.

this weekend we were at his place. he made me an amazing home cooked meal. we danced and watched movies with him cuddling me on the couch. around half of the movie, zane just starts kissing me. he kissed me deeply like he never has before. i gave in to his touch and let him subdue me. he lied me on the couch and found his way underneath my clothes. i got him out of his shirt and eventually after much making out and touchy feely, i got his belt and pants undone. he forced my hands over my head and kissed down to my breasts. mouse pressed hard against me. that gorgeous specimen of a man felt very 'aroused' if you will. i wanted him to own it right then and there but instead of that he chose to stop.

he stopped! why? in the most heated of all moments why stop? scorpio men do you all do this?

mouse got up and excused himself. i asked him to stay, but he walked off in a hurry. when he came back, he had a shirt on and his pants were done. he said he was tired and needed rest, but i was welcome to sleep in the bedroom while he took the couch. he left me hot and bothered. it didnt feel too nice. work has been uncomfortable for the past few days. but today i get a text saying how sorry he was for his behavior. he brought up his celibacy, restating that he was saving himself for his wife. i havent responded to him yet. i feel that if he was so celibate, why did he start making out with me in the first place? half of me feels that he is playing games.

the other half of me feels, or hopes rather, that maybe to him i am wife material. he is always around me in some way, be it at work, or 'bumping' into me at random hang outs. he treats me so sweetly without motives. or maybe he does have deep hidden a motive. you never can tell with a scorpio. but by face value he doesnt appear to be after anything.

is this the game scorpio plays? make it seem like innocent doings to gain trust from others until they have them reeled in? then absolutely challenge that trust to see what the outcome will be? perhaps i am thinking too much into this.

i have never been this vexed by a man before. i must see the truth. maybe i am not his choosing for a wife because he does pull back from me. he is apologizing for his actions he did with me. we didnt have sex, but we were dangerously close. if there is need to apologize for it, it wasnt right to him in the first place. togolese women believe 'if there is any doubt in the man's mind, it's best to get behind.' i need to stop this before i may be hurt.