Put on the sex brakes will ya.....

I attract scorpio men. I have two on my case. One is an ex, i'm not really interested in him, and the other is new. I can see the ex trying to jump into bed right away but this new Scorpio really thinks it is going to happen with out any time or effort. It is so funny.

The new scorpio has made a few spaced attempts over the course of one month to get me over his house. Finally i told him you will not even be seeing my face again unless he tries another approach. He then says he really likes me and wants to hang out with me. Ha and LOL! I have decided to not answer any of his calls anymore as a means to get him see i am not going for bs. he needs to ask me out on a real date. he is 32! I have never seen anything like this before in my life.

Do i have to spell it out for Scorp men? My past experience is that scorp men know how to wine and dine a woman. what the heck is going on here?

LOL!! Love the title of your thread.

32 and wants you to just come over to his house and hang? Ughhh he needs to take you out..

I love this. Good for you for demanding respect as a minimum requirement for one to be graced with your company. If he's worth a moment of your time, he'll realize that means quality and a chance for a real true classy woman to come into his life.

I've only been involved with one Scorpion for relationship. He waited for awhile - abnormal for me but I wanted to try a serious relationship. At first he wasn't seeming to be okay with that but after awhile he fell for my personality and soul. I hope this Scorpio wises up soon. It sounds like he'd be missing out on something spectacular.

hahaha!! i love this. thing is i don't think scorp men have a clue they're being so obvious at all. i think they actually assume that's what's in your mind too, without even bothering to ask the question!!

that's what made me laugh when this scorp i was seeing said he no longer wanted to be associated with me....i told him he wasn't associated with me in the first place as we'd never managed to leave his apartment to venture out in public!!!!

bless their little cotton socks. they are convinced they are irresistable.

It really is funny. My ex saw that his approach was not working and then said he would go out and get sushi ,which he knows is my favorite food, after i turned down his 'come visit my house' invite. They can keep it up if they want to but I will not budge on this one. Smh. It is cute to watch the weekly text game attempts. I am going to tell both of them about themselves real soon.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
bless their little cotton socks.

Oh my this quite possibly the most delightful quip I've ever heard, besides the time I said 'It's special to me, not window licking special, though' and proceeded to simulate licking a window while driving.

sheathedclaws: and i just love the way you 'talk'...i'm guessing you have an american accent but your expression is very quaint british...kinda old fashioned...waaaay cute 🙂

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that's what made me laugh when this scorp i was seeing said he no longer wanted to be associated with me....i told him he wasn't associated with me in the first place as we'd never managed to leave his apartment to venture out in public!!!!

OMG - I've never been with a Scorpio female
but are you free this weekend? lol

You seem like THE IDEAL woman. lol

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Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s

that's what made me laugh when this scorp i was seeing said he no longer wanted to be associated with me....i told him he wasn't associated with me in the first place as we'd never managed to leave his apartment to venture out in public!!!!

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OMG - I've never been with a Scorpio female
but are you free this weekend? lol

You seem like THE IDEAL woman. lol

LOL...it did take him over 2 years to get me into his apartment though 😉

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s

bless their little cotton socks. they are convinced they are irresistable.

i will savour this sentence for a long long time ! its scope does not lack the potential for unbiased and universal application ,in terms of what men consider them to be !

you're talking about the guys right? scorp chicks don't ruin intimacy...we enhance it. think you might have a point about the boys though tbh. i don't agree on the better sex though...and i am in a position to contrast and compare. not saying aries are crap by any stretch but they're not 'better' than scorps, they just have a different sex style .

and ultimately, it's the sexual chemistry between both parties that defines the quality of the sex.

you dont have to have sex with someone because you are in their house. you act as if you have no say in the matter. it seems to me that you dont really want to do anything with him, but not because of what you perceive as a want of sex.

westside: it's more that if a guy asks you around to his house instead of what we would consider a traditional 'date' involving doing something like going for a meal or whatever..then he's only asking you round there for the one reason? if you accept such an invite, it's definitely implicit that you'll let him fuck you and if you don't, he'll be pissed cos he'll think you're teasing him.

whereas if i invite a man to my house, he's there to fix something lol.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
sheathedclaws: and i just love the way you 'talk'...i'm guessing you have an american accent but your expression is very quaint british...kinda old fashioned...waaaay cute 🙂

This was the best post to see after a long Friday at the clinic!! 😄

Unfortunately, I'm not so endearing with a soft accent of this. Luckily it's only slight, because it's definitely not very lovely ;D

are you from boston sheathed? i looove that accent. very 'tea party' lol.

you remind me of an english actress kelly brooke? i imagine you to have a similar style to her...very feminine with a twist of 50s glamour. if you don't know here, check out google images and you'll see what i mean.

mind you kelly's not known for her intellect so that's where the similarity ends 🙂

Maybe he just wants to be friends?

🙂

Heheh, I'm a state down from the state Boston is in - Rhode Island (we're the smallest state)! We have an accent like Boston without the harshness in tone 🙂 I visit Boston quite often - up around Harvard University the vibe of the neighborhoods are amazing. Many places to explore with museums and pubs (they go hand in hand, right? 😉 )!

I googled her and got a face full of boobies 😛 hahah!! But her style is very similar to mine, yes! I'm incredibly girly and love all things pinup and Jackie O 😉 I like classic feminine touches with a 'rough around the edges' hint (I have/had piercings that I've hidden/can hide, and my hair is a very dark color that is red violet in natural/outdoor light.

You're very adept with sensing people and their quirks, you wonderful Scorpion 😉

Seriously, how does Kelly Brooks keep her curves while that small?! I'm definitely jealous.

Posted by westside
you dont have to have sex with someone because you are in their house. you act as if you have no say in the matter. it seems to me that you dont really want to do anything with him, but not because of what you perceive as a want of sex.

true. nevertheless, i left of the details indicating why i knew he wanted to try of the drawers. large place with living room and he wanted to watch movies in his bed. it was already after dark. he only had on shorts. *side eye* come one. humor me, would ya

Posted by hardbone
Maybe he just wants to be friends?

🙂

well he will be in luck because that is all he is going to be.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
westside: it's more that if a guy asks you around to his house instead of what we would consider a traditional 'date' involving doing something like going for a meal or whatever..then he's only asking you round there for the one reason? if you accept such an invite, it's definitely implicit that you'll let him fuck you and if you don't, he'll be pissed cos he'll think you're teasing him.

EXACTLY!!!!

2nd that exactly. And 3rd it. Circle it with a damn red pen.

UPDATE:

So I openly told him (my ex) what i was thinking. Long story short, we explained ourselves to one another and he wants to have dinner etc.

I will see how the ex bf thing goes and leave the new one alone.

Good luck dear! Gto hear you two are being open with one another.