Hoping a Scorpio man will forgive and understand

I had been dating a Scorpio male for a few months. My moon happens to be in Scorpio, but I am a Sagittarius. He happens to have a moon in Leo. He and I both brought some issues to this. He was deeply hurt by his ex-wife, and his kids are out of state so he only had them during the holidays (will be back in the summer). As for me, I just discovered that I have hormonal issues caused deep anxiety one week a month.

We have very similar backgrounds, interests, etc. I really appreciated how he seemed okay with my independence, and he appreciated my sweetness. However with my anxiety episodes I'm sure I came across as very needy, and they coincided with moments that he needed time to himself. The last one was a few weeks ago. It is like you??re a difference person during an anxiety attack. He said that he thought we were having too many of these conversations (this is before I realized the cause of what I was dealing with). He said that we should move forward as friends which disappointed me but I understood at the moment. I said that I would let him decide how and when to contact me.

Anyway after this I asked a relative what was going on with me because I didn't understand it myself. After a couple of doctors visits, I now have help for this. Feeling bad for everything, I sent the Scorpio guy an apology explaining what was going on with me and how I was doing something about it. I asked that he reconsider us going out even though I didn't expect him to forget the weird episodes just to consider the normal fun times.

I ran into him a few days later (we work in the same building). He commented on my red dress, and after some small talk I asked if he received my apology. He said —we??ll have to talk about that sometime.??

Obviously I want to talk to him, and I hate that my anxiety moments drove him away. Does anyone have any advice how to handle this or what to expect?

Aww, don't worry. He loves himself more than you ever could🙂

I think there is still some attractive based on his comment about the dress and the way he was looking at me. I think he may be a natural flirt, but he still sort of lit up a little it seemed.

In the moment of the last anxiety hormonal episode when I was questioning him on the phone, he said that we should step back at be friends. The way he talked that night he had wanted to still go out, but after my texts and putting so much on him he thought I needed to much and there had been a few of those converstaions. I'm actually the opposite of needy expect when I have the anxiety attacks each month then it is like the sky is falling before anything has even happened. It is a lot of someone on the receiving end to deal with and not take personally which is why I apologized when I figured out what I've been doing. I'm going to be taking medication along with the life style changes this month to hopefully combat this.

He hasn't initiated a talk regarding the apology/my issue yet though which makes me wonder about his interest. I know I shouldn't push for the talk, but it is so hard. Maybe he just needs some time and wants to see if I am too needy (i.e if I break down and push for a talk) or maybe he has lost interest and is avoiding the talk. Gee, I sound insecure right now. Just need to know how to be towards him now to be interested but not TOO interested so he will remember why he was interested in me in the first place.