How assertive does Scorp gal wants?

Definitely Alpha male.

you have to sort of "take the lead" with me...cuz i'm too shy to do it. and, well, if we're both timid, then we get nowhere.

Well here's my chance to ask: don't scorps always chase what they want?

"Well here's my chance to ask: don't scorps always chase what they want?"

Well the modus operandi (for the men especially) tends to be...he's too shy to talk to you so he stands in the corner and stares you up like a stalker...but actually you're his prey.

You feel the stare, get all giddy and excited...run over to talk to him. So you end up initiating the process. Then when in his mind he's received the green light at some point during the mating dance, he goes all psycho on you and chases you.

That's pretty much when NOTHING can hold them back.

Well, you have to admire that amount of strategy! And without even having to buy you a drink, lol.

"Well here's my chance to ask: don't scorps always chase what they want?"

Yep. Relentlessly until they get it.

like to ask you wonderful scorp gals here..
how assertive u like your man be? or.. a pursuer be?

wow!!! thanks man!! thanks everyone for the replies 😄
really helps!!

anyway in some ways, how actually can alpha males be define?
& i tend to take the lead, if she's timid or confused.. but usually when she's strong.. i won't mind giving the lead to her.. haha

virgogotme "Sexy magnets we scorps are 😉" yes this scorp of mine, does uses that and hooked me 😄, glad i can be witty & am humorous in reality.

anyway glad she had a sag moon & librian Venus 😄

it takes a lot to get my attention so you have to do it in style , once you've got my attention you need to get in the driver's seat and take the lead, you have to make my head spin, always have to take the initiative and show me that you are strong and that nothing can stand in the way!!!!!!!!!there also have to be a balance, once we decided that we are in a relationship you shouldn't come across as too strong as i am very emotional, so you have to combine that strength with romantic gestures and most imporatntly don't use words, we listen to actions more!!!

I don't think that typical Scorpio girls will tolerate any kind of dominance or possessiveness > they do what they wanna do and feel that its their birthright to be possessive and not the other way around, its that don't ask them questions you know? If she want's to go somewheres or associate with some people that you don't know about she will do it anyway regardless of what you think. I think that typical Scorpios also uhhhh I forgot what to say damn Scorpio lizards girls or boys are just low lifes.

dear Joe Stickler, i really don't think it is healthy for a relationship that any of the partners will have such an approach/behaviour "they do what they wanna do and feel that its their birthright to be possessive and not the other way around, its that don't ask them questions you know", and i am very possessive and jealous and i thank God that my cancer guy is doing a great job in not triggerring any of those "bad" feelings by letting me know where he is and what he is doing 24/7(that is only when he is at work as we live together), and by not making me jealous, and i must say it is viceversa......i guess we are a bit old fashioned but it works brilliantly!!!also whatever we do it is because we respect each other, we love each other and we have great communication!!!!

I've had two long standing relationships with scorp females and neither of them like my being too macho. Anything too manly, macho or guy-like offended them and in fact both were subtle man-bashers. For example, if a dude who was ripped took off his shirt and one of these scorp chicks saw it as a show off move (well, duh) they'd say something snide like "Ohh, what a man?" That said, my point is merely to inform you all or remind you as the case may be that the kind of man a female is attracted to is not a matter of just her sun sign. In fact, physical attraction is more about her mars sign. The sun rules romance and love while mars is more about good ole bumpin and grindin, or at least one would hope! Both the above-described scorps had mars in scorpio. Mars is all guy but pluto is the great assassin. Thus masculinity in terms of mars in scorpio is a love/hate thing, either over-done or under-done, over-desired, under-desired. Need I say more!!! A scorp lady with a fire mars would be more ok with a cruder, more alpha type guy. You know the types, the jocks, the beer drinkers, the farters, etc. I now am engaged to another mars in scorp lady only this time we have the sun in distant aquarius with mars in powerful and possessive scorpio. It probably all the pluto and mars aspects in my chart which make mars in scorp ladies attempt to take me hostage! Mars in aries chicks seem to come after me too. And frankly, I'd say there a little more fun since they tend to like guys to be just that, guys.