How Do You Know?

If a Scorpio man is in love with you how will he ACT (because he is cautious and keeps his feelings hidden)? I've heard that actions speak louder than words with them.

i try not to initiate until the other person makes a move... i keep my feelings hidden...

Spoken like a true Scopio.

Why are they such chickens??

I hate all the BS. If you want something, then ask for it. Nobody likes rejection, but it isn't going to kill you!!!

From a true admirer of the species!

Spoken like a true Scorpio.

Why are they such chickens??

I hate all the BS. If you want something, then ask for it. Nobody likes rejection, but it isn't going to kill you!!!

From a true admirer of the species!

I just wanna ask something though. Dont scorpios lose interest in someone if they show them attention? Isnt it a case of 'the games up, i know you like me so why should i bother'? What if the other person never makes a move?
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you will just stay friends if you don't make a move because he/she won't make it unless you make him/her feel comfortable to talk a bout it.... dance around the bush with him/her. make him talk. just say you like him/her in a subtle way. like "i like hanging out with you alot..." stuff like that. its not necessarily saying that you like him/her.
Shoot i confessed what i feel for my exgirlfriend that way.

I have just found that in the past, once they have you they dont want you anymore. I could be wrong?! Isnt it all the challenge with scorpio though?

Dont they always want the one they cant have?

i-sun, just saw other board. sorry!!! ill leave you alone...

wha?...(clueless with what you said)

I was just saying that the posts on the other board answered my question. Ive also felt that scorps always want what they cant have and if they know you like them they wont want you anymore. Maybe i am mistaking this for caution. What i was asking was "is it the challenge factor with scorpios that make them want someone?"
I dunno, was just curious.
I read your post (about your saggy girfriend), people have given you some good advice!
You may feel vulnerable cos you have opened yourself up to her. Emotional disclosure is an investment, it is something you build on. Who wants to start all that intimacy stuff all over again with someone else?
You may have to decide whether or not you want to hang around with her anymore.
Good luck.

That was suppposed to be Sagy (as in sagittarius), not saggy!

If a Scorpio man is in love with you how will he ACT (because he is cautious and keeps his feelings hidden)? I've heard that actions speak louder than words with them.

yes he will be very cautious. he will appear calm and aloof about everything, but he watches and observes you... play the pull and go off game with him..it will get him into the trap..so he will not confess anything till you show how much you are interested in him. but dun give him everything that you've got at one go! he'll get bored of you! make him jealous a lil bit (not too much), so he will then realise how much he wants you. he's hard to gun down, but once he is, its all good! but dun let him control ur life! good luck my dear friend!

Thanks for your advice but I do not know what the pull and go game is. Could you explain that to me? Thanks.

Me too! I want to know how you play that game!!

be a little bit of a tease. Show some interest and back away, then again, and blah blah blah. This is a dangerous game to play...scorpio can sense this. If yu can be at all genuine about it I would do it, otherwise don't. As a scorp I used to think head games were fun, I always won. I don't play anymore,I ignore the sense on purpose. I would crush you if you did this to me.Scorps ar truth seekers, if you can't do this because it is "you" you are gonna loose.

Thanks, being a scorpio myself, and my man a scorpio too, I don't think this would work for me.... I'm definitely a truth seeker and I don't do games well, but you've satisfied my curiosity. Thanks.

Oops! didn't mean to horn-in on the initial post-persons territory..... I'll let her respond to your advice and I'll back out.... sorry!

I'm a Virgo girl who insists on being my usual, everyday self. Scorpios hate pretenders, and warm up to people who are REAL!

Don't worry about horning in. I like to hear a multitude of advice. Don't think I can do the game, though. I just wanted to know how you can tell if a Scorpio is in love with you without words.

make your move to a scorpio and he/she will make his/her move as well

My scorpio "fling" has been watching me on the sidelines, then we both went out for the first time...just us. And he told me he had strong feelings for me, he came close to giving all his game away. Sort of freaked me out. I am usually the emotional one who spills. I suppose this is good? or is he playing games with me to get the upper hand??I am not sure how to take him. I am an aries.

I am a scorp female married to an aries male. Just the opposite of you two. The first time we went out (15 yrs ago)he totally went for it and I held back. Keep pushing for it - if you want it.

yes a scorp will hold back to let the rest do all the work after a certain length of time, this is not anything more than just to see if the other party is responding(they dun wanna get hurt-am i right scorps?)...so go for it and do all the work. keep on teasing but don't go overboard..thats the pull and go game(like someone else said earlier)..scorps love being teased sexually and add a bit of mystery to..go grrls!

just admit to a scorp