How long would it take for a Scorp Sun/Venus to...

get over a 7 year relationship/marriage to a Pisces woman u call ur soulmate? Would u try to come back? U still tell her friends that u love her from the bottom of ur heart...yet u rarely call, and almost never come to see her. U did however tell her friend that u have people watching her. what's the deal? why be so shady? instead of just saying.."hey, let's work it out?"

Obviously he still cares or else he wouldnt have people looking out for and asking about you. Sounds like he is under some extreme pressure and has escaped to his scorpio man cave. I know its hard to deal with, I do. But if he didnt care, he wouldnt look out for you.

If he was trying to move on he'd have been focusing on something else on not putting all his efforts towards you. 7 yrs is a long time, but if he feels there is something that would make it not work he may just choose to move on.

It'll take a long time on his part tho

Posted by happykitsune
If he was trying to move on he'd have been focusing on something else on not putting all his efforts towards you. 7 yrs is a long time, but if he feels there is something that would make it not work he may just choose to move on.

It'll take a long time on his part tho

He did call on Thanksgiving and told me that he still wants the marriage, and he'll come and see me to talk about this in a few weeks. He still has yet to show up. I'm taking care of 2 boys all by myself. He could at least take them for a couple days. I'm so stressed, and I feel really tricked into this marriage.

Posted by DazedScorp
FOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORRRRREEEEEEEEEEVVVVVVEEEEEERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

WOW!!! That's a long time....GOOD! ;}

Tricked how?

Posted by BigGirlPanties
Obviously he still cares or else he wouldnt have people looking out for and asking about you. Sounds like he is under some extreme pressure and has escaped to his scorpio man cave. I know its hard to deal with, I do. But if he didnt care, he wouldnt look out for you.

Do you ever get the feeling that a Scorpio is all talk? They are known liars. Except, early Friday morning after Thanksgiving around 3am, I was sleeping and was woken up by the sound of my husbands car outside my window. By the time I realized what was happening and got up to check, the car was gone. And it was that night that my friend ran into him and that's when he said all that stuff. my friend made a promise to him that she would not tell me she ran into him. He didn't want me to know.

Posted by BigGirlPanties
Tricked how?

If he would have shown this tendency while we were dating, I would have never married him. He pretty much faked it.

No, you cant judge all scorpios based on one. How did he lie? His asking her to keep his confidence doesnt make him a liar. She broke his confidence, so what would that make her?

Sounds like he was thinking of you when he drove to your home at 3am. He just didnt want you to know...he didnt want to be seen as vulnerable.

Posted by bella70777

Posted by BigGirlPanties
Tricked how?

If he would have shown this tendency while we were dating, I would have never married him. He pretty much faked it.

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With total respect, how could he show you something that was going to happen 7 years later? You make him sound so sinister and devious, like he planned this all out to get you to marry him and then bam! 7 years later he would show you who he really is. Has he abused you? What else has he done for you to think this evilness of him?

I havent read your past threads, but what is your part in the break up?

Posted by BigGirlPanties
No, you cant judge all scorpios based on one. How did he lie? His asking her to keep his confidence doesnt make him a liar. She broke his confidence, so what would that make her?

Sounds like he was thinking of you when he drove to your home at 3am. He just didnt want you to know...he didnt want to be seen as vulnerable.

They lie about very small things. Like when he called me, he said he was in Washington. Then my friend ran into him. I always catch him in his lies.(we live in so. cal) like, stuff like that. he really should know by now, i always find out.

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Posted by bella70777

Posted by BigGirlPanties
Tricked how?

If he would have shown this tendency while we were dating, I would have never married him. He pretty much faked it.

With total respect, how could he show you something that was going to happen 7 years later? You make him sound so sinister and devious, like he planned this all out to get you to marry him and then bam! 7 years later he would show you who he really is. Has he abused you? What else has he done for you to think this evilness of him?

I havent read your past threads, but what is your part in the break up?

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We also separated 3 years ago for 7 months. when responsibility becomes too much...he needs a break. where's my break? he just leaves me and the kids and through heartache, i'm taking care of it all. this time around ..it really was all him.