Hurt and Confused Scorpio (Male)

Hey, I'm so glad I found this place, but I would like to get right to my problem.

About 2 months ago I met a Gemini woman, and we hit it off wonderfully. We had coffee a couple of times and eventually started officially dating about 3 weeks after we first met. Things were great for the first month and a half or so, the sex is INCREDIBLE and she is so stimulating, I am constantly amazed by her, I just LOVE being around her and I am head over heels for her, and she feels the same way about me.

Recently however in about the last 3 weeks we hit some rough spots. After she told me that she loved me I started getting this feeling like I was losing her, but I couldn't explain it and thought that maybe it was just me so I held it in and tried to ignore it, eventually however it just came out and I told her exactly how I felt. This seemed to scare her beyond belief to say the least, and she did NOT want to discuss our relationship at all with me. Instead she just wanted to leave things the way they were and not talk about it, just "go with the flow".

She ended up splitting with me, and then we got back together and then I split up with her because I feel like she's always just brushing my feelings aside, she won't let me show any concern or care for her at all, and above all I feel like she just won't let me in and I HATE it. I feel so devoted to her, but I am so confused by her.

Can it really work between Scorpios and Gemini's? Any Advice? I love this woman so much, I really have given myself completely to her as is typical of me when I find someone that I REALLY REALLY like which is VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY RARE! I just feel like I'm being kept at arms length, and all I want is for her to let me in.

Help

She's a little scared.

When's your birthday sheresh and when is hers?

"When's your birthday sheresh and when is hers?"

My birthday is November 13th, hers is June 14th

Hmmm scorp and gem. I don't know about scorp male and gem girl. I do know that scorp girl and gem guy was an exciting relationship but very young at the time and huge communication boundaries.

I'm a Gemini. My bf...daughter's father is a Scorpio and I am a Gemini.

November 20th,and mine is June 19th.





She's scared.

We been together 3 years.

Not all gems are like that 2 sides.

I got a Taurus Moon too and so does my Scorpio.

You have to wait until she's comfortable expressing and showing that kind of love. We usually run like hell if someone feels that way so quickly (our quickly and your quickly are very different). I mean, puppy love/lust/infatuation isn't the same thing as devoted love. IF we aren't ready, that scares the crap out of us. If you can pull back what you show and express and wait. Once/if your gem falls in love, we can handle your passions and embrace them. BUt until she feels that way as well, whew, that's alot to dump on us. That changes all the dynamics of the relationship.