I need help !!

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LibraSid
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Posted by venusianbull
This is going to come off sounding harsh, but you're MARRIED. Go talk to your man and hash out that your emotional needs aren't being met.



^^ Winner!!!



Remember when you said:

I, (you), take you (your husband), to be my lawfully wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.


You guys need to talk.
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iminlove
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15 Years

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thanks guys . u l r right ..i guess the rough patches have made me go crazy !!! i have given aall this a thought and next time i see this scorpio guy i gotta tell him that i could no more do this ..he could b just a firend and draw a line just thr ..but i guess i wud not even mind sqauring off with him completly ...i cant do this to my husband not fair on me just for plessure !!!i m already feeling terrible for the things i have done ..
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venusianbull
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Lady, giving in would be the path of least resistance. It would only be courting pain and could very well be the end of your marriage. The trust would be obliterated. Not just gone, but a twisted hulk. If you feel he is too much of a temptation, just snap it off right there. That would be the best way.
And pleasure..attack your man. That's where it's at, right there. Take him by the hand and wreck him.
And quit beating yourself up *nudging with horns*. Best of luck to you. 🙂