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I need help. I have this cheap scorpio "friend" and i've been intimate with him for a year now. The intimate encounters are incredible. Im a taurus-gemini capricorn ascendant by the way. Anyways we used to practically live in the same town when we started a relationship around the time i was moving our relationship started becoming more distant and he wasnt available to see me as often as I would've liked. Well once i moved two towns away which is only a 20 minute drive away. i started seeing less and less of him now i only see him once every two- three weeks. Well i had a job coming up and u needed my nails done so i called him up told him about the new receptionist position and told him i needed money to get my nails done. His first response was he didnt have his car and then he proceeded to say "how am u supposed to type with your nails done". I blacked out i said first of all im taking a receptionist position which 0nly requires for me to answer phones. second even if i was taking a secretarial position my nails have been long my whole entire life so i've learned a long time ago how to manage an office position with my nails done. SO i got mad and hung up and tried to call back to chew him out on how he made me feel. he made me feel as though i was his child trying to run game in order to get my nails done. I often feel like he doesnt trust me so i got upset and was like well if u keep looking at me sideways like im grimey and im not u must be so i want my keys back and he told me i have to wait and if i keep calling him i wont hear from him for 6 months. he also said he never asked me for a key and i practically forced them in his hands and that was a lie because we discussed the whole key thing b4 i gave it to him and he said he wouldnt mind having it.FOr the record the only reason i gave him my key so he would believe me when i told him i was monogamous despite his promiscuity. then after this he said i should expect nothing from him he said if i want to act crazy he dont F--- with crazies and i dont exist f--- everything. this really hurt me a great deal because like i said i've dealt with this man for a year and i really care a great deal for him. is there a way for us to reconcile or do u think he is done with me?

yes u are right where were u when i was typing all this i need a paraphraser editor lol

lol but my heart is still aching over this situation cus i really miss him

DB is right; I would give him some space....

I?d probably start looking for another partner. DB is right when he said you may have overreacted with the nail thing. On the other hand, you probably thought that if he really cared about you, he would have helped you. Not because he thinks it?s right, but because YOU thought it was important to get your nails done for the occasion. My dear Mae, you're probably right and this is why you reacted that way, you felt neglected. If you can, do let him go. If you're too much in love with him, give him some room like DB said and see what happens in 4 to 5 weeks (yes, a lot of time to wait, but it'll controlling your anxiety may do you good too. I climb the walls with anxiety is situations like this).

I don't know...Nails are something that can wait until you have the money to get it yourself.They aren't "needed" so don't see why him questioning that would be an arguement starter to begin with honestly.Whats your money and car situation that made it not possible for you to keep up with seeing him?Then on the otherhand,the key thing sounds like its a control issue also....is there a possibility he uses those things to have an effect on you so he gets his way?The idea of the cheating part so "I need your key" is kinda psychotic then the "if you keep calling it'll be 6 months" part yanno...if the latter is the case,you don't want him back!It'll only get worse...

i know he really cared at one point he was so kind always took my feelings into consideration he spoiled me with his time until his friends made it clear to him that i was a distraction and was cramping his bachelor style .I also know he has had people use him in the past. For the record it was imperative to get my nails done i had five broken nails 3 on one hand two on the other and they werent broken evenly and prior to that i had a crystal wrap so for u ladies that has ever gotten ur nails done u can imagine how my nails looked. the designs were chipping off and the last time i was treated was a month ago and this job pops up a job where i wouldnt have to ask him for nathan and i needed my nails done. But what made me so upset is if he asked me for anything i do it no questions asked i would bend over backwards. In regards to the key i gave it to him he didnt request them but when i asked him if it will make him feel comfortable if i gave him a copy he said no. I knew he had a few trust issues since his ex cheated on him so that was my gesture to know that i was a honest chick and if he didnt believe me he could see for himself. Right before i left where i was living i bought him $ 100 worth of groceries. I would never try to use him he is like my best friend actually he's closer because we were intimate. This isnt our first fight but this is the first time where i didnt call him back at all i sent him one last text the next day that said thanks for the good times we shared just know u walked away from someone who cared for u a great deal I'll miss u. Usually i would have left him msgs pleading my case but this time i didnt he has hurt me with his arrogance too many times

when i asked him if he would feel uncomfortable he said no (a serious typo). I really think he is afraid of me so that is why he is distancing cus i think from the beginining he really had deep intense feelings for me so much that we spent almost everyday together and he often text and called me now its like he expects me not to think anything change where he doesnt even text me unless its to alert me that he wants to come see me. If i want to see him i just have to wait until he gets good and ready to make the trip.

OK,now that I know its not a psycho situation,write him a letter to tell him how you feel and I guess wait for a little while to see what happens.Some of the mean things he said could've been a "defense" method just to throw something back at you😉