If you are a venus in scorpio how do you react if you were cheated on? Can you get over it?

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Venus in scorpio only please. I'm a Libra with her venus in scorpio who was cheated on by a Scorpio with his venus in sag for a whole year! He was on dating apps. He begged to come back and work things out, gave me his facebook password, his phone/text logs, took his sites down. I still hate him though but I still like to talk to him. When I remember though I hate him and resent him. Partly because he didn't care of the grief I was going through when he cheated. I had lost 2 loved ones (my first dog and a 21 yr old cousin) that year. Everytime I think of him cheating it makes me sick and the women who easily hooked up (he says no sex) make me sick too. Everytime I say I am done he calls and continues to call and text online and on the phone to talk to me again and says he loves me still but I don't think you can say you love someone while you cheated on them! He maintains that he loves me and said it daily the whole time he was cheating. How can a scorpio be so unfaithful and a huge liar? is it his venus in sag?
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Are you saying Venus in Sagittarius aren't faithful?
Well I think it doesn't do scorpio sun any favors if they have a venus in sag or venus in libra. Then again Leo dicaprio is a scorpio with venus in scorpio and he's a big playboy too so maybe it's scorpio sun. Jealous (wants to cheat but doesn't think it's ok if he's cheated on, manipulative, and lies a lot.)
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Well sag is a mutable fire right? So it also needs alot of pep in the bedroom.

Libra is a cardinal air right? So it also needs lots of balance needs find the right balance air plus water perhaps. Fire and air could create inferno passion but may fizzles out too.
Well thing is that he says his ex gf was his first and only. I'm a virgin (though have no problems taking naughty pictures or being naughty for him) we were long distance for a while. I know my venus in scorpio has made me less trusting of guys. I trusted him a lot and confided in him a lot. It's not easy for a ViS to do that! It was all shattered when he cheated and lost my trust. I don't think if I can gain it back though because I feel like I hate him sometimes and other times I feel I love him. Then I think of the bimbos he laid his hands on when I had grief and I hate him again.
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I'm pretty sure Venus in Scorpio can spot the signs clearly but of course if it ldr. You have to listen to your instinct and lot less on words spewing for venus in sag.

I get you are young so this will help you later in life when you meet guys who arent faithful. You will be able to tell signs by reading his facial tic or expressions, his tone through the phone.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I'm pretty sure Venus in Scorpio can spot the signs clearly but of course if it ldr. You have to listen to your instinct and lot less on words spewing for venus in sag.

I get you are young so this will help you later in life when you meet guys who arent faithful. You will be able to tell signs by reading his facial tic or expressions, his tone through the phone.
i'm not that young lol . I have been unlucky enough to have relationships with a venus in gemini and venus in sag so far. I did suspect of him cheating though. A few months after he started dating other women he got extremely drunk and kicked out of a club he and his friends had a birthday party in. He called me very drunk and sounded extremely sad when he asked why I didn't want to advance our relationship I told him then he started saying "fuck you!' to me over and over again til I hung up and he called 10x til I picked up and insulted me again then he called me again and told me he was lost lol. He is 30. So maybe he did have some remorse when he was cheating.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Yeah we are young in the heart sometimes. Haha forgive me.

I think I met a VIG omg talk about remember what you said a week ago and suddenly changed again a few weeks later. Venus in Scorpio will be able to tell nonsense.

1. Red flag.. Both not being able to hang with alcohol in the system.

2. How many woman exactly?

3. Were you together exclusively therefore cheated on you? Were you not able to keep up with VIG or Venus in Sag?

4. Were you friends then lovers despite you might of thought you could or couldn't trust him?
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Your Placements and his placements are the same as mine and my Libra's, though I'm the Scorp with Sag venus and he is the Libra with Scorp venus so we might be of some help to one another.

I don't think it's a scorpio in Venus, I think it is just a strong influence of scorpio in your chart, regardless of what planets. I personally would not be able to forgive and forget when it comes to cheating.

You might be able to tell yourself that if he proves himself, that things might go back to normal but truth is they never will. Even if he genuinely is remorseful and has no intentions of ever straying again, your mind will not allow you to forget. If it were a one night stand or a one off incident then maybe you could sum it up to a lesson for him and that maybe he would never do it again because he has felt the guilt. But he was cheating for a whole year, the guilt never fazed him. That says more about his character then the cheating itself.
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I feel like I am only talking to him because I want to make him feel like the absolute piece of shhhh he is! It's so contrary of how I was before when I loved him and had eyes only for him and was very sweet. Now I can't help putting him down and tell him how disgusting he was and how gross the 2 women he fooled around with were. I hate him for destroying my love and trust because I can no longer respect him so I can no longer love him. I have a Leo Mars so I have to look up to and be proud of the man I date but I also have a Venus in Scorpio conjunction with Venus in Uranus in my 7th house which makes me hard to settle down with 1 person but when I do I am totally committed. It is hard as hell to let go emotionally though