Venus in Scorpio. how do you express ur emotion? Apart from sex?

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Venus in Scorpio How Love and Emotions Are Expressed

Venus in Scorpio expresses love through deep emotional connection, loyalty, and intense gestures. They prefer meaningful actions over words and appreciate honesty and passion. To them, feelings are best shown through trusted actions, unwavering commitment, and understanding. They value emotional depth and intensity in relationships beyond physical intimacy.

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How do you express love ? Words, action apart from sex? And how do you like feelings to be expressed to you. Whether that will be compliments, etc.. Basically how do you feel love the most!?

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Posted by blessyou
like a detached aquarius.. my sag ex had a venus in scorpio. there isnt a moment she doesnt think about sex unless shes with her younger siblings and allat

I'm a moon in Aquarius. Is it the same thing? I'm just a lot more words expressive. but yes can be detached.

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Posted by blessyou
like a detached aquarius.. my sag ex had a venus in scorpio. there isnt a moment she doesnt think about sex unless shes with her younger siblings and allat

That's quiet powerful for a female. So how did she express love to you? Only through sex? lol

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like a detached aquarius.. my sag ex had a venus in scorpio. there isnt a moment she doesnt think about sex unless shes with her younger siblings and allat

That's quiet powerful for a female. So how did she express love to you? Only through sex? lol

Pretty much but she was sharing herself. I wasn't the only one so I had to get outta there before I caught something.

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Sounds a little familiar. Sag sun doesn't handle energy as well.

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Posted by starlover
If you mean romantic love....i totally consume the person...very very affectionate and giving...i will be everything to the person, lover, friend, nurturer and more. I give gifts, write poetry and become a bit too distracting for them (so i am told)

Well, i used to be.....not sure i would give all that energy away again as it is quite exhausting. Would do it different next time

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Why would you do it any different?

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Ooo this is fun. I like to show emotion by talking to you (i actually chose you), opening up, telling jokes, being more free, and asking more questions about you to try to learn more about you. I usually like to separate my friends from others so we have our own little private spot. I unconsciously identify other people as "others".

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Posted by saweetz1988
How do you express love ? Words, action apart from sex? And how do you like feelings to be expressed to you. Whether that will be compliments, etc.. Basically how do you feel love the most!?

I express love through my body language, through my speech,or written word.

Oh, you like spaghetti? Ill cook it for you!

Want to get in shape? Lets go run!

Having family trouble, lets invite them out.

Nsed fime alone? Take it, or hide away with me.

I'm very focused on what they want and I deliver.

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Posted by Mohini

Posted by saweetz1988
How do you express love ? Words, action apart from sex? And how do you like feelings to be expressed to you. Whether that will be compliments, etc.. Basically how do you feel love the most!?

I express love through my body language, through my speech,or written word.

Oh, you like spaghetti? Ill cook it for you!

Want to get in shape? Lets go run!

Having family trouble, lets invite them out.

Nsed fime alone? Take it, or hide away with me.

I'm very focused on what they want and I deliver.

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Does that mean you like the person that love you express it the same way ?

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Posted by blessyou
like a detached aquarius.. my sag ex had a venus in scorpio. there isnt a moment she doesnt think about sex unless shes with her younger siblings and allat

I'm sag sun / Scorpio Venus.

Yes we think about sex a lot, but it's more the kind of intimate sexual experience with someone we love / completely obsessed with that we think about. Hot pssionate sex with someone who I want to explore their kind, body and soul with.

This is such a hard combination

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Posted by Mohini

Posted by saweetz1988
How do you express love ? Words, action apart from sex? And how do you like feelings to be expressed to you. Whether that will be compliments, etc.. Basically how do you feel love the most!?

I express love through my body language, through my speech,or written word.

Oh, you like spaghetti? Ill cook it for you!

Want to get in shape? Lets go run!

Having family trouble, lets invite them out.

Nsed fime alone? Take it, or hide away with me.

I'm very focused on what they want and I deliver.

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That describes how I express it too. I will take note of things they like and don't like, particularly with food because I like to cook for people I care about.

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Posted by saweetz1988
How do you express love ? Words, action apart from sex? And how do you like feelings to be expressed to you. Whether that will be compliments, etc.. Basically how do you feel love the most!?

To be honest I find it hard to express love. I tend to just be with he person, cuddling or stroking their hair, arm whatever. Just being present with and enjoying the stillness in the silence. I'm very nurturing, I'd do anything for them. Cool food when they were sick, go out of my way to make them happy, I tend to give too much without wanting anything in return.

Years ago me and my Aqua love, I built a trippy jungle den in my garden, hung tapestry, fairy lights everywhere and put a small couch and a projector. We watched documentaries all night, listened to music and talked endlessly. That was kinda my expression of my love to him and he really appreciated it 🙂

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Posted by Lilianni
Ooo this is fun. I like to show emotion by talking to you (i actually chose you), opening up, telling jokes, being more free, and asking more questions about you to try to learn more about you. I usually like to separate my friends from others so we have our own little private spot. I unconsciously identify other people as "others".

What's your moon sign?

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Posted by blessyou

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Posted by blessyou
like a detached aquarius.. my sag ex had a venus in scorpio. there isnt a moment she doesnt think about sex unless shes with her younger siblings and allat

Same thing with my Sag ex. He had Venus and Mars in Scorpio...nothing but sex and fantasies on his brain 24/7... Not that I'm much better sometimes but he literally wanted to talk about it, watch it or do it all.the.time.

I'm glad I'm not the only one. Thanks for bringing your exp to light.

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Yeb sex sex sex !🙂

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Posted by Sagg101

Posted by blessyou
like a detached aquarius.. my sag ex had a venus in scorpio. there isnt a moment she doesnt think about sex unless shes with her younger siblings and allat

I'm sag sun / Scorpio Venus.

Yes we think about sex a lot, but it's more the kind of intimate sexual experience with someone we love / completely obsessed with that we think about. Hot pssionate sex with someone who I want to explore their kind, body and soul with.

This is such a hard combination

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I feel that completely from him yet in words he says he has no feelings for no one. It kills me to be in the other end of it all... It's so consuming exploring mind body and soul together .. then the sag comes in n says! Hey I can't commit ! Horrible.

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Posted by Mohini

Posted by saweetz1988
How do you express love ? Words, action apart from sex? And how do you like feelings to be expressed to you. Whether that will be compliments, etc.. Basically how do you feel love the most!?

I express love through my body language, through my speech,or written word.

Oh, you like spaghetti? Ill cook it for you!

Want to get in shape? Lets go run!

Having family trouble, lets invite them out.

Nsed fime alone? Take it, or hide away with me.

I'm very focused on what they want and I deliver.

That describes how I express it too. I will take note of things they like and don't like, particularly with food because I like to cook for people I care about.

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Do u like them expressing their love to u the same way?

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Posted by Sagg101

Posted by saweetz1988
How do you express love ? Words, action apart from sex? And how do you like feelings to be expressed to you. Whether that will be compliments, etc.. Basically how do you feel love the most!?

To be honest I find it hard to express love. I tend to just be with he person, cuddling or stroking their hair, arm whatever. Just being present with and enjoying the stillness in the silence. I'm very nurturing, I'd do anything for them. Cool food when they were sick, go out of my way to make them happy, I tend to give too much without wanting anything in return.

Years ago me and my Aqua love, I built a trippy jungle den in my garden, hung tapestry, fairy lights everywhere and put a small couch and a projector. We watched documentaries all night, listened to music and talked endlessly. That was kinda my expression of my love to him and he really appreciated it 🙂

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So sweet ! Thank you for sharing

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Posted by saweetz1988

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Posted by Mohini

Posted by saweetz1988
How do you express love ? Words, action apart from sex? And how do you like feelings to be expressed to you. Whether that will be compliments, etc.. Basically how do you feel love the most!?

I express love through my body language, through my speech,or written word.

Oh, you like spaghetti? Ill cook it for you!

Want to get in shape? Lets go run!

Having family trouble, lets invite them out.

Nsed fime alone? Take it, or hide away with me.

I'm very focused on what they want and I deliver.

That describes how I express it too. I will take note of things they like and don't like, particularly with food because I like to cook for people I care about.

Do u like them expressing their love to u the same way?

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Yes, that's ideal, but I know that there are other good ways that people express it, so as long as I know that the person I care about is expressing it to me in a genuine way that is their natural style, I can appreciate it.

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Lilianni
Ooo this is fun. I like to show emotion by talking to you (i actually chose you), opening up, telling jokes, being more free, and asking more questions about you to try to learn more about you. I usually like to separate my friends from others so we have our own little private spot. I unconsciously identify other people as "others".

What's your moon sign?

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Aries

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Posted by Lilianni

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Lilianni
Ooo this is fun. I like to show emotion by talking to you (i actually chose you), opening up, telling jokes, being more free, and asking more questions about you to try to learn more about you. I usually like to separate my friends from others so we have our own little private spot. I unconsciously identify other people as "others".

What's your moon sign?

Aries

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Perhaps that's y u find it easier to open up?

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Lilianni

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Posted by Lilianni
Ooo this is fun. I like to show emotion by talking to you (i actually chose you), opening up, telling jokes, being more free, and asking more questions about you to try to learn more about you. I usually like to separate my friends from others so we have our own little private spot. I unconsciously identify other people as "others".

What's your moon sign?

Aries

Perhaps that's y u find it easier to open up?

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Oh no, i barely open up. im selective when i open up. if i chose you, ive seen something in you that makes me want to include you in my life

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Posted by Lilianni
Ooo this is fun. I like to show emotion by talking to you (i actually chose you), opening up, telling jokes, being more free, and asking more questions about you to try to learn more about you. I usually like to separate my friends from others so we have our own little private spot. I unconsciously identify other people as "others".

What's your moon sign?

Aries

Perhaps that's y u find it easier to open up?

Oh no, i barely open up. im selective when i open up. if i chose you, ive seen something in you that makes me want to include you in my life

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Yeah I see 🙂 this guy told me something he never told anyone before and expects me not to share his * secret * which I won't. I then asked him y he chose to tell me that when he doesn't trust anyone n he says for me to figure it out on my own.. later he tells me he has no feelings for no one his this planet lol so I'm so lost with him tbh.

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Posted by saweetz1988

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Posted by Lilianni
Ooo this is fun. I like to show emotion by talking to you (i actually chose you), opening up, telling jokes, being more free, and asking more questions about you to try to learn more about you. I usually like to separate my friends from others so we have our own little private spot. I unconsciously identify other people as "others".

What's your moon sign?

Aries

Perhaps that's y u find it easier to open up?

Oh no, i barely open up. im selective when i open up. if i chose you, ive seen something in you that makes me want to include you in my life

Yeah I see 🙂 this guy told me something he never told anyone before and expects me not to share his * secret * which I won't. I then asked him y he chose to tell me that when he doesn't trust anyone n he says for me to figure it out on my own.. later he tells me he has no feelings for no one his this planet lol so I'm so lost with him tbh.

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I honestly think it's a test. Just don't break it.

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Posted by LuckyLibra979
Passionate and sensual and physical. I pull back sometimes because sometimes its good to let your woman miss you but the only person who could handle, understand and almost crave that intensity was a libra woman with alotta water and the same venus so she understood and even poured hers own thicker

Its ok, we obsssed together

She has the same Venus in Scorpio!? How did that one end or u two still together?

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I have a Scorpio placements friends she's full of Scorpio including Venus! Best friend I ever had! I could see she would do anything for me! Very intense love n friendship. but this sag sun n Venus in Scorpio is different. Maybe it's that simple. He just doesn't love me. Oh well life goes on.

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My Venus in Scorpio is in the 6th house Virgo.

How do you express love ?
- I will try to show you as much as I can, I will also tell you. Doing things for you, caring for you just whatever it takes to make you happy. I give my all to you. Devote myself mind body and soul to you.

Words, action apart from sex?
-basically what I wrote above.

And how do you like feelings to be expressed to you.
- they should be expressed somewhere in between not too much that I feel you too clingy and phony but just enough that I don't have to wonder where you stand. I need to be confident about your feelings for me.

Whether that will be compliments, etc..
-compliments, but also I just love randomness you know. Little gifts like candy or a soda, a book. Sharing music with me. I appreciate the little things. Let me know you think about me and care about me to be able to think, hey she might like this.. Also I like to feel like you need me, talk to me about your shitty day , turn to me when you're down or sick or can't sleep. I love that..

Basically how do you feel love the most!?
-how do I feel loved? Um... when someone cares about me and does his best to make me happy. Appreciate me.. It takes alot for me to open up and give myself to you. And trust me, I don't do hardly anything for a man if I don't feel that spark. But, like the guy I fell in love with last I'd do anything for that man. My ex who came after I couldn't bring myself to do 5% of what I did for the other guy. Like I just wasn't physically and emotionally capable. Which sucks for them, but I'm just all or nothing when it comes to love. A man will know if I love him or not. I'll admit I've said that "luv u 2" or "ily" shit but that's phoney. I save my "I love you" for the right man and when it's pure, soul wrenching love that I'm ready to die for (but of course you'd hardly notice under my calm cool composure)

🙂
Sorry, it's hard to get me to stop talking once I get started let alone stay on subject
😛

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
My Venus in Scorpio is in the 6th house Virgo.

How do you express love ?
- I will try to show you as much as I can, I will also tell you. Doing things for you, caring for you just whatever it takes to make you happy. I give my all to you. Devote myself mind body and soul to you.

Words, action apart from sex?
-basically what I wrote above.

And how do you like feelings to be expressed to you.
- they should be expressed somewhere in between not too much that I feel you too clingy and phony but just enough that I don't have to wonder where you stand. I need to be confident about your feelings for me.

Whether that will be compliments, etc..
-compliments, but also I just love randomness you know. Little gifts like candy or a soda, a book. Sharing music with me. I appreciate the little things. Let me know you think about me and care about me to be able to think, hey she might like this.. Also I like to feel like you need me, talk to me about your shitty day , turn to me when you're down or sick or can't sleep. I love that..

Basically how do you feel love the most!?
-how do I feel loved? Um... when someone cares about me and does his best to make me happy. Appreciate me.. It takes alot for me to open up and give myself to you. And trust me, I don't do hardly anything for a man if I don't feel that spark. But, like the guy I fell in love with last I'd do anything for that man. My ex who came after I couldn't bring myself to do 5% of what I did for the other guy. Like I just wasn't physically and emotionally capable. Which sucks for them, but I'm just all or nothing when it comes to love. A man will know if I love him or not. I'll admit I've said that "luv u 2" or "ily" shit but that's phoney. I save my "I love you" for the right man and when it's pure, soul wrenching love that I'm ready to die for (but of course you'd hardly notice under my calm cool composure)

🙂
Sorry, it's hard to get me to stop talking once I get started let alone stay on subject
😛

I hope i find love one day ¢. Venus scorpio

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
My Venus in Scorpio is in the 6th house Virgo.

How do you express love ?
- I will try to show you as much as I can, I will also tell you. Doing things for you, caring for you just whatever it takes to make you happy. I give my all to you. Devote myself mind body and soul to you.

Words, action apart from sex?
-basically what I wrote above.

And how do you like feelings to be expressed to you.
- they should be expressed somewhere in between not too much that I feel you too clingy and phony but just enough that I don't have to wonder where you stand. I need to be confident about your feelings for me.

Whether that will be compliments, etc..
-compliments, but also I just love randomness you know. Little gifts like candy or a soda, a book. Sharing music with me. I appreciate the little things. Let me know you think about me and care about me to be able to think, hey she might like this.. Also I like to feel like you need me, talk to me about your shitty day , turn to me when you're down or sick or can't sleep. I love that..

Basically how do you feel love the most!?
-how do I feel loved? Um... when someone cares about me and does his best to make me happy. Appreciate me.. It takes alot for me to open up and give myself to you. And trust me, I don't do hardly anything for a man if I don't feel that spark. But, like the guy I fell in love with last I'd do anything for that man. My ex who came after I couldn't bring myself to do 5% of what I did for the other guy. Like I just wasn't physically and emotionally capable. Which sucks for them, but I'm just all or nothing when it comes to love. A man will know if I love him or not. I'll admit I've said that "luv u 2" or "ily" shit but that's phoney. I save my "I love you" for the right man and when it's pure, soul wrenching love that I'm ready to die for (but of course you'd hardly notice under my calm cool composure)

🙂
Sorry, it's hard to get me to stop talking once I get started let alone stay on subject
😛

Do you think the guy you love idk if your still together but if you're not and you're dating someone new would u drop everything 4 your ex and do 4 them and not the new person?

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Posted by LuckyLibra979
Passionate and sensual and physical. I pull back sometimes because sometimes its good to let your woman miss you but the only person who could handle, understand and almost crave that intensity was a libra woman with alotta water and the same venus so she understood and even poured hers own thicker

Its ok, we obsssed together

I agree...that's how I am. Intense and passionate...but I love the feeling of having some space so that the passion is felt again and again.

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Posted by lovely77
Do you think the guy you love idk if your still together but if you're not and you're dating someone new would u drop everything 4 your ex and do 4 them and not the new person?

Yes. I would drop everything for him in a heartbeat
I will never love another man as much as I love him.

And I pray this doesn't happen, nor do I wish it but... Should I marry another man, I would have an affair for him, or divorce. That's why I don't want to marry anyone else yet, I refuse to stay alone. So you see my dilemma

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame

Posted by lovely77
Do you think the guy you love idk if your still together but if you're not and you're dating someone new would u drop everything 4 your ex and do 4 them and not the new person?

Yes. I would drop everything for him in a heartbeat
I will never love another man as much as I love him.

And I pray this doesn't happen, nor do I wish it but... Should I marry another man, I would have an affair for him, or divorce. That's why I don't want to marry anyone else yet, I refuse to stay alone. So you see my dilemma

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How dramatic. How long since ur love n u been apart ? U dated someone new n for how long?

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Posted by OceanBoy88
I dated a Venus Scorp for a while. She was definitely intense and was very affectionate.She also was a sadist and masochist. Like she would punch me for something she deemed cute, pinched my stomach, and bite me randomly. Her words were very possessive when it involved me and she was very threatening to women I was near. Emotionally, her expression of love was through inflicting physical pain and attaching herself to me on the sofa

Wahahah what was her sun sign? And why did u two break up?