I'm a Pisces lady trying to win back my scorpio ma

I'm new to this, just wanting some input. I'm 24, my now ex scorpio boyfriend in 30. He has his own house, works really hard for his things. But has basically been fucked over by every girl he's ever dated.

We've known each other 5 months, and have been together 3 months.

I recently just got out of a very emotionally and mentally abusive relationship 6 months ago. I wasn't planning on dating or seeing anyone for a long time cause I was so scared of it happening again.
I was at a friends house who was good friends with my ex. We met through mutual friends I guess and I wasnt interested in him at all, and then one day at the end of January I realized I was really attracted to him. We ended up Cuddling on the couch and he asked if he could kiss me good night, so i said yes. And it stopped at that he didnt try to do anything or nothing.So I asked our mutual friend if he had said anything about me or was interested cause he seemed interested but never asked for my number. Then our friend gave him my number and he texted me the next day. We ended up talking non stop. We went for dinner that night...we hung out all the time I couldn't not be by my phone he was always texting me! He always said morning and good night. He started sleeping at my apartment every night, then he invited me to his house and then he asked me to always stay the night. So I did. For a month straight I doubt we barely every stayed at our own places. And we never slept apart. He always had to be beside me. So a month went by he hadn't even said I love you, and he asked me to move in. He was going to kick his room mate out and we were going to live there. (His roomie never pays rent,is always telling him what to do with HIS house and putting him down he drinks ALOT and smokes weed and never respectful to guests.) Well I debated giving up my apartment but told my roomie I was moving In with him june 1st if not sooner, so she could find a new room mate. We'll the day after I've arranged all this I go to my ex s house and his roomie and him were drinking and his room mate is talking about putting pool table in the living room and big screen TV up. So I thought" oh,he didn't tell him I'm moving in and he's out.." well his roomie goes to the bathroom and he comes over and says "babe I'm so excited for you to move in I can't wait!! But I hope you won't mind I couldn't kick dwain out but hopefully once you move in hell just leave!" Well to Mr that was wish washy... his roomie isn't friendly

I walk in the house now (not living there yet) and he can't even say hi!! So we got back together! Everything was fine but now he didn't think moving in was good because what if I just leave in 2 months or something I tried to assure him that I would not!but he didn't believe me. It wasn't a week later that he's ended it wth me again because I needed to move in with him...my roomie found a room mate we were arguing and he pulled away and got angry. I wanted to know if he ever ment it when he wanted me to move in...whyd he even ask if he was just going to change his mind. ( he's 30,he's never lived wth a girlfriend. I'm the ONLY one he's asked to move in EVER) of course I got excited. And was excited. And then all his doubts I questioned why. He freaked he said he'd rather be single...hell just work sleep eat it's easier you don't get hurt that way. And it's better to hurt now then later. And he ignored me for a week... I finally called him a week later and he agreed to talk. We talked and we both thought we were good! Until Friday when I was going out with my roommate and he threw things like oh you look gorgeous guys are going to be all over you. Your so beautiful. We had sex before I went out! (Our sex was always amazing and happened often) (we had been back together and working on things for 6 days already and we hadn't had sex since the morning we broke up! So like a week and a bit it was killer.)) I went out with my roomie and all these messages of doubt start pouring in from him. Like I could have anyone I wanted why am I with him. He loves me so much and wants to do whatever it takes to make it work,he doesn't want to loose me ever again.im such a great person and best girlfriend ever. He's never been with anyone like me,or felt this way about anyone. I assure him I don't want to ever be away from him again,what we have is the real deal. He says he wants a future with me and nothing g will change that.and that he didnt want to drink anymore cause he feels it starts shit between us..the calls at 530 am to talk about if I really want to be with him or not. And if I don't tell him now. Again reassure him he's the only man I want. He comes over the next day after work we goto my sister and brother in laws. He said he wasn't going g to drink. ..then he starts drinking...I got upset about a comment he made to my brother in law. Go inside. And then I passed out! Well he wants to know the next morning g what he did what's wrong what'd he do wrong.i said no

nothing g I was drunk. But he won't let it go. So I ask him to drop it we get to my house he had to go home and shower do he kisses me bye says I love you. And says he'll be 20 minutes. We'll an Hour later I get worried he's usually good with time..so I text him and he says he was talking g to my sister to see why I was mad!! Well she goes and tells him I told her I was mad because he was going to goto work Sunday with my brother in law?? So then he says he's not coming over now. And that he was pissed off now. So I ask why..no reply. Ask why again no reply. So I drove to his house and he was pissed! He said I lied?? And told me to go do whatever I wanted. And closed his door. I have anxiety...I didn't know what go do whatever ment. We're over? ? Or you need space. I panicked I texted him 50/70times in 5 hours...and called 15 times. He finally replied and said he told me he needed a ouple of hours.i asked are we having an argument or is he throw g in the towel. He said argument. I wanted to talk face to face for 20 minutes - he didn't. Do I questioned how do we work on things when there's no compromise happening. That's when I get a message breaking up with me telling me were not working on things properly and probably won't cause we're different t people. And I'm not a bad person. But he won't be calling or texting me anymore. He's sorry take care.i haven't heard from him since. I have no clue what happened.

I've met family he's never introduced anyone else to, I've met his god kids who none of his other 4 girlfriend ds have met. We had a deep connection.... idk what it is exactly but I can never get him off my mind. And he was so exited for me to move saying well put this there ad this there. And then didn't have balls to kick his roomie out so we could be a actual couple...

Your ascendant, and him?

Let him go please. Move forward in your life and find someone that makes you feel special.

I want to know why do scorpio act like this and shut people out.

Like he was the clingy one and wanted to hang out,move in and evrything then pulled back

Wow. I actually read all of that---grabbed some snacks half way to get me through, but I read it. Even the d*mn title was too long to fit....smh. Not sure what the question is either.

It was pretty much a done deal from here:

Posted by beanie02

So a month went by and he hadn't even said I love you, and he asked me to move in.

I've never been a believer in "love has no time frame", but even if I did you truly couldn't have thought this was a good idea and you'd truly ride off into the sunset. You should cut your losses. If the "50-70 text in 5 hours and 15 calls" didn't do it, not too much more to do.

Posted by beanie02
I want to know why do scorpio act like this and shut people out.

"Scorpios" don't act like that. He did and he was...well flaky, or something else entirely, I'm guessing the latter. The very fact that he couldn't even ask you for your number might have been the first indication of how this would unfold. It's something small, but it was the first thing that made me say, okay this is going to be a whole lot of nothing with a side of insecurity. May just be how my mind works.

Then when he ask you to move in and pulls he whole "hopefully when you move in he'll just leave"... That should have been you're "time to get a hold of my senses" moment, yet...you stuck around. His reason for asking you to move in even sounds like he saw you as a better financial option than his roommate and not because of "love". It's unfortuante you lost your apartment, but a life lesson I suppose?

I'd be more worried about finding a place to live instead of focusing why "Scorpios" shut people out.

Sorry I should have been more clear. I do have my apartment back my room mate and I worked things out and so I stayed.

He didn't ask me to move in because he wanted to kick his room mate out. He didn't need his room mate to live there it was just extra money and he never even paid rent on time anyways so it doesn't make sense.

He didn't ask me to move in because he wanted to kick his room mate out. He didn't need his room mate to live there it was just extra money and he never even paid rent on time anyways so it doesn't make sense.

He didn't ask me to move in because he wanted to kick his room mate out. He didn't need his room mate to live there it was just extra money and he never even paid rent on time anyways so it doesn't make sense.

ha beanie - no don't win him back. don't try. He will resist more. Let him decide.

what happen to ex lovers nowadays? lol.

My ex taur disguising his fb page and sent me a request to be his friend... hahahaha. now he's snooping

my fb page - I knew this... but I'm not this type who's going to bite the bone he's throwing.

He's a 30 yr old man that has a lazy bum living with him using him. On top f that he has baggage and commitment issues that explains why you are the only woman to meet friends and family. Don't feel special about being one and only for a man who has deep rooted relationship issues. You both do and both need to be single.

You should've stopped contacting him after the moving in situation. How many times does the universe have to shake you up until you get rid of him? He is no good for you stop getting into toxic relationships.

You guys moved very first and anything that is worth keeping is slow burning.

Posted by Reincarnation
Your question is how to get him back.

Manipulate him.

Text him how lonely and sad you are. That you really want to be with him and only him; that you are so happy in his presence; how much you love him etc. - even if you don't mean it. Crocodile tears. Just heavy Pisces-type stuff.

He'll crawl back.

I concur with Reincarnation. Don't forget the sexy underwear and the thin white shirt and mini skirt...the oh, I'm so upset I can't button my shirt- dishoveled look. He'll be looking forward to the make up sex. If he's so mad...rub his groin. I love the simplicity of Scorpio men.

I must say...I love Pisces, but they do lie about everything. You'll have to make him truly love you in order to put up with it. You must also control your lies for at least 4-5 years or he drop you each time. Even if he buys you a car and makes the payments on it, he will have the car repossessed if you mess with him too much.

Honey, you better hurry up before he throws all your stuff out.

BTW, his friend can't pay the rent because your BF is smoking all his weed. Tell your BF to get his own license.

SMH.....................................

Why are you chasing after a man who you do not know? This isn't a case of being a Pisces it is case of you being too young to understand men. Let this one go. And move on with your life. Men who want to be with you will treat you correctly and be with you. Moving in is not a good move. This man does not have himself together and it is not up to you to fix that. He doesn't want you. He doesn't like you. He is using you. Stop being used and get out there and have fun with others. He will come back and you don't take him back let him know he's not what you need in your life. And cut him off. You deserve better...

Posted by 88aka
Or go on a trip and come back with a nice bruise on your thigh. 😉

HA!! LOL This female fish is a trouble-maker