Im in love with a scorpio. HELP@

I think he likes you, but some of us scorps want what we can't have....which probably explains all the declarations of love while you were still with your leo. After you broke things off with him, I think your scorp went cold because fantasy finally became reality and he might have gotten cold feet a little. I wouldn't worry though, I think he does like you because he is still calling you, reaching out to you, and reassuring you.

thanks babe..

I know no matter how much people say scops stings really bad but deep inside hes a soft guy... it doesnt help that im pisces...... I admit sometimes i really think too much...

I can see this from two different points of view. One, you dumped someone you were with for a long time because Scorpio was charming enough to sway your decision. If I were him, part of me would be thinking "Ok, well...she did it for me. Will she do the same thing TO me if someone else comes along with smoother game than I have?" That doubt would linger in my mind forever, and despite all the feelings I had for you, I'd probably try to back off and reevaluate both my feelings for you, and your behavior and character while making sure to keep you near.

Alternately, I could see him backing off out of uncertainty. Maybe you only like him because things were rocky in your last relationship and Scorp said everything you needed and wanted to hear, and gave you the attention you felt like you were lacking. Maybe it's not so much who he is, as much as what place he's filled for you, and maybe he feels like anyone could have said the right combination of things, and because of the state you were in, you would have fallen for it regardless. I mean, intellectually, I know that in the beginning, it's very easy to find a million small things in common with another person that make you feel inexplicably connected, but I also know that in the course of a relationship, those million things fade away, and change, and sometimes disappear altogether, and when the truth comes out, it can be a rude, ugly awakening. He may know the same thing, and may be approaching you with caution because of that, in combination with all of the other things that you've shown him about yourself through your actions.

Are you talking about Scorpios or Virgos? We don't disappear for years on end, only to show up and try and reclaim something, and you Virgos are more about the hot and cold than we are, for certain.

When I'm done with someone, I am done. I don't want them back after they've been around the block another 8 times, and I certainly don't want to rehash whatever it was that split us up in the first place.

@69virgo
haha i will try not to.

Posted by 69virgo

Posted by spaggiescorp
Are you talking about Scorpios or Virgos? We don't disappear for years on end, only to show up and try and reclaim something, and you Virgos are more about the hot and cold than we are, for certain.

When I'm done with someone, I am done. I don't want them back after they've been around the block another 8 times, and I certainly don't want to rehash whatever it was that split us up in the first place.

WHAT DID I SAY IN MY POST...I THINK IT'S PLAIN AS DAY..UNLESS YOU CAN'T READ?

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It's called being facetious, you fucking moron. LRN2RD. And get your signs right. Oh, wait. Let me say that in the manner in which your simple mind will be sure to grasp:

SARCASM...LEARN IT...YOU STUPID, LAME-GAMED, CHEAP-INTERNET-ROSE-OFFERING SHITBAG.

Move along now, kthxbye. Bitch.

Posted by joocyeee
@spaggiesscorp

The problems were there for a long time. I admit I could have gone on forever in the relationship with Leo if he didn't come along. But it wasn't entirely because of him that it happened. It wasn't because of "he was the more charming man". I did it because I realized that I could not just marry someone and not felt love anymore. Yes, Leo proposed. And yes scorp knew about it too. There is no way I can marry Leo. Love is not a matter of how long you've been together with the person.. I thought scorps would understand that cos that's what he told me. In the first place he knew something like things will happened, we talked about it often just a matter of "when". Because we strongly believes that we are soulmates and he gave up denying that we are not anymore. If this love couldn't pass the test of time, faith and trust, then I think scorps wouldn't want it too? I don't know? Part of me wants to believe and defend him and yet another part dont.

I told him my feelings when I was going through the break up. I said that I was selfish, I chose to be with the man I love. He said life is about choices and decisions and that I'm not selfish but brave enough to make a decision like that. Im wasn't thinking about Leo, even if this is not going to work out. It's just wasn't right to hold him back. He's thinking about commitment, marriage. I'm just not there yet....I just thought that scorps would be glad? Happy? That I finally made the decision and gave him the assurance that he needed? Just confused...

Anyway, thanks very much. It's good to hear from other people point of views 🙂

Bottom line: we can be kind of a pain in the ass, and a total handful, and the things we do sometimes don't make sense to anyone - even ourselves. If you really want him, give him some time, and keep at it. At best, he'll see your commitment and be delighted by it. At worst, you'll annoy him and he'll feel smothered, and then his feelings for you will probably become very, very clear. Either way, best of luck with it!

@spaggiescorp

Thank you very much for your comments. It helped for now =)

I'm gonna try stay positive and show him how commitment i can be.

Its just that i dont know what should I do, so I wont push him further away from me. Currently Im just trying to be strong and giving him alot of space. Not even messaging him that often anymore. I know hes been pretty worried about things im going through, even though im not okay I said I am. Just not to be an emotional baggage to him. He have tons on his plate already.

I'm trying to understand that. Its just that everyday he tells me hes tired, very tired. I cant help it but think "what have i done?" Okay probably isnt me... paranoid. Hah.. oh well!

@69virgo

thank you very much... =)

guys.. chill. thanks for all the comments anayway!

Google all of the zodia signs followed by the word 'man' and end with 'disappeared!' and it will lists a gazillion pages of info. Its a man thing. Not a sign thing. 😄