Initiating contact?

Hey there!!

I met a Scorpio online. Hes very sensitive having divulged some personal kind of moody-sensitive things about his past. I was a little turned off (being a Virgo, Im not used to sharing so much so quickly) so we kind of fell out of contact for a couple of weeks.

I thought of him last week so I wrote him. He gave me his number. He is an awesome communicator once I get things rolling but I just wanted to know from other Scorpios, is it better to initiate contact? If you all are interested in someone, do you prefer to be the aggressive one or the one that is pursued? I dont want to end up looking stupid but I think he is an interesting person who I'd like to get to know better but I dont want to seem like some dumb girl that keeps writing and texting and who's potentially annoying him.

Any advice? What do you all look for in a potential?

Scorpio and Virgo is potential right there.

Why I 'divulge' personal data is to get yours. I usually start talking about myself first so the other person feels comfortable enough to start his/her story. Although... don't misunderstand his 'divulging'. You will get only as much you may require to know.

It's pretty natural between Virgo and Scorpio. Go for it.

Posted by FUM
Scorpio and Virgo is potential right there.

Why I 'divulge' personal data is to get yours. I usually start talking about myself first so the other person feels comfortable enough to start his/her story. Although... don't misunderstand his 'divulging'. You will get only as much you may require to know.

It's pretty natural between Virgo and Scorpio. Go for it.

Hmm thanks for the advice. I naturally get along well or pretty decent with scorps but I just didnt want to seem overbearing or desperate for attention by emailing/texting him. Even though he responds pretty quickly with lengthy responses.

Thanks F.

You're welcome 🙂

good luck.

oh.. wanted to add. About the 'overbearing', that's natural as well. We tend to believe we can be overbearing, but with Virgo I realized it just blends well. I think we may be even more overbearing than your kind. So don't worry being yourself.

Scorpios divulge about their live?? HELL YES they do!, but they only do this with the people they feel 'really' comfortable with,although scorpios guys are usually secretive, calm and cool in their nature. I am a scorpio guy and let me tell you i think this guy really likes you. one of the most common problem about scorpios is that when they become in passion, they fail to hide it. let me tell you something he won't get bored with your emails/texts actually he would love to get response in return to what he shares with you, he would actually feel disappointed quickly if you acted 'stand-offish' against him, as he is very sensitive.

what i want to say just act normally and keep writing to him, and stay direct!! as he really HATES SHUFFLE!!good luck