Interesting.

Kinda mind blown at the moment, thus I wanted to post this up somewhere and facebook has too many mutual friends. So I saw the libsco a couple weeks ago now, he wants fwb. Not sure how to do that without getting attached. Was about to just say hell with it we can be friends only or more than that only. Then last night I was talking to a virgo friend of mine about it, told him I know I can get obsessive and dont want to be. Told him im looking for distraction, so that doesnt happen, bc I dont think I can honestly just stop...call me hypersexual if you must, but I do need sex. Scorpios, I guess youd understand. told him ive been flirting with the aqua again, for this reason. And then my virgo friend..who I thought was only ever going to be a friend, also started flirting with me. At any rate, told all three of them im just looking for friends, with affection, and sex, without commitment or exclusivity. And all three were ok with it, hell two of them know eachother and the third probably knows them too but idk. Just mind blown how I went from one to three in a night, AND esp the virgo. Hes 10 yrs older than me and although ive had a secret crush on him, I figured he saw me as a little sister.

Smh. Life has an interesting way of figuring things out for you. Now, this is totally an experiment ive never tried before (and they all know that), wonder if im going to end up happy with it, or decide to blow up the lab—

IS, no last night was all talking.

Elle, I have no idea how it will turn out...i know the ls and virgo are good enough friends that I wont lose that no matter what. Ive tried so many other arrangements...time for an experiment..what have I got to lose? I do know ill survive no matter what happens. I always do. But thanks, im sure ill be asking your opinion and advice..i like to hear it even if I dont listen right away.

Epi, I think that if it ever came to one party or the other wanting exclusivity, itd be discussed and mutually agreed upon. Once that agreement was made id see no reason to not trust it, just bc it started out open doesnt make anyone untrustworthy...it can change if thats whats decided.

Elle, what exactly are you thinking is going to happen?

Im sorry if im being dense but the second sentence you said confused me, huh? Be more explicit?

Thanks Dazed. Thing is, thats the exact reason im trying this. I CANT harness those feelings when im too focused on one person. They multiply exponentially. So the experiment is, if im not focused on one person, will the fact that I can just call one of the others if I get that way about one of them balance me out? So far it is working, the obsessive possessive feelings I was starting to get for the ls are gone bc ive been hanging with the aqua. Course there has yet to be any sex in the equation except w the ls. And three at one time may just be too much drama. But none of them would be hurt if I said, this isnt working lets just be friends.

Hmm. Ill think on that dazed. And Bobbie, you have always known you have that right. lol Since when do I learn anything the easy way? I just have to try things and see what happens.

Dazed, stop being so freaking smart with good advice. It's getting hard to seem impressive with you being so good at it. 😢

Lurking this thread because it's familiar. Plus, it's interesting to see the points made.

It's not really lurking once you talk, eh? ....Going back to lurking. >.>


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Good luck dear.

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