Is Scorpio ex making me jealous?

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Basically was seeing a Scorpio guy for 2 months. I know !! Not long but really liked him! He chased me initially and was so romantic. Thought he really liked me. Then sort of went hot and cold so I asked him what was up. He said he had a block when it came to a relationship and he's head was all over the place. He said he missed me. Confusing for me. I said you need to be on your own. He didn't argue! Now straight away within a couple of weeks he's flaunting pictures of a new girl all over Facebook. I know scorpios are known for getting revenge so I'm not sure if he just wasn't into me or is rubbing my nose in it cause I bruised his ego? How can a guy jump from one girl to another like that. Maybe he just moved on but its humiliating that he went into a relationship so quick after telling me he had a wall up when it came to relationships!!
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Basically was seeing a Scorpio guy for 2 months. I know !! Not long but really liked him! He chased me initially and was so romantic. Thought he really liked me. Then sort of went hot and cold so I asked him what was up. He said he had a block when it came to a relationship and he's head was all over the place. He said he missed me. Confusing for me. I said you need to be on your own. He didn't argue! Now straight away within a couple of weeks he's flaunting pictures of a new girl all over Facebook. I know scorpios are known for getting revenge so I'm not sure if he just wasn't into me or is rubbing my nose in it cause I bruised his ego? How can a guy jump from one girl to another like that. Maybe he just moved on but its humiliating that he went into a relationship so quick after telling me he had a wall up when it came to relationships!!
Well given that he didn't put up much of a fuss when you suggested he be on his own doesn't suggest you "bruised" his ego. So I think the revenge piece is a stretch---unless you've left something out. If you didn't want him to leave, why did you suggest it? It sounds like you were hoping he would either 1) stick around and sort himself out or 2) leave and be alone moping somewhere while he sort himself out. Problem is, "being on his own" was your suggestion not his. He didn't think he needed to be on his own to figure things out or get get back on track where you're concerned. He told you what his issue was. He has walls up. One thing has nothing to do with the other. Having walls up doesn't mean he's going to go without having a body next to him. He wanted a body and he found one.

As well, as you pointed out, it was only 2 months. There isn't much to get over. Just because you see a picture of him and another girl doesn't mean he's in a "relationship" so I'm not sure why you're interpreting his statement and seeing pics on Facebook as a contradiction. Again, one thing has nothing to do with the other. Having walls up doesn't mean he can't enjoy the company of another. He clearly did with you for two months.
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Well, the way you've presented it you clearly knew what you wanted out of this dynamic and what you wouldn't put up with (e.g. confusion, hot and cold behaviour). You made your expectations known and he didn't want to live up to them. He did you a favour by not wasting anymore of your time.

Ignore his newsfeed/wall post and keep it moving. At this point you're torturing yourself by reading it and staying "friends" with him on social media. He can't rub your nose in anything if your nose isn't all up in his kool aid.