Is this Scorpio(F) - Leo(M) relationship going to work well?

Hi everyone,

I am a Leo male and is currently in a LDR relationship with a Scorpio female for close to a year.
First 6 months we were in the same city, she went back to her home country after 6 months.
We are not yet official GF/BF although we already have the exclusive relationship understanding 2 months ago.
We do arrange meeting once every 3 months since the LDR started and we met once or twice per week when we just started dating in the same city.

As expected for these 2 signs in a LDR, we been experiencing quite a fair amount of push/pull emotions. Communication challenges also during the past 6 months of LDR.
We usually text each other at least once every 1-2 days and past couple of months we've been talking on the phone at least once per 2 days with 45 min to 60 mins duration.
Talks are on each other's day to day happenings, plans, facing of difficulties in each other's life etc.
We supporting each other mentally and emotionally whenever either party requires too.
Most of the time she would initiate the call as she is busier and I have more time flexibility on my side.
Both parties can feel each other is trying to develop this relationship into something deeper with a future.

Hopping to step up to an official relationship with her very soon and planning to have a deep discussion with her.

Her chart is as follows::

Sun Scorpio 20°10' Ascendant Cancer 28°19'
Moon Scorpio 1°14' II Leo 19°10'
Mercury Scorpio 7°13' R III Virgo 14°01'
Venus Scorpio 4°20' IV Libra 14°51'
Mars Sagittarius 2°23' V Scorpio 20°53'
Jupiter Scorpio 0°28' VI Sagittarius 26°49'
Saturn Aquarius 23°50' VII Capricorn 28°19'
Uranus Capricorn 19°06' VIII Aquarius 19°10'
Neptune Capricorn 18°54' IX Pisces 14°01'
Pluto Scorpio 25°15' Midheaven Aries 14°51'
Lilith Aries 13°42' XI Taurus 20°53'
Asc node Sagittarius 3°06' XII Gemini 26°49'

My chart is as follows:

Sun Leo 4°15' Ascendant Libra 23°26'
Moon Leo 5°35' II Scorpio 23°59'
Mercury Leo 16°40' III Sagittarius 22°24'
Venus Leo 15°01' IV Capricorn 20°14'
Mars Virgo 12°21' V Aquarius 19°34'
Jupiter Taurus 26°42' VI Pisces 21°13'
Saturn Leo 6°15' VII Aries 23°26'
Uranus Scorpio 3°08' VIII Taurus 23°59'
Neptune Sagittarius 11°23' R IX Gemini 22°24'
Pluto Libra 9°21' Midheaven Cancer 20°14'
Lilith Aries 29°56' XI Leo 19°34'
Asc node Scorpio 8°25' XII Virg

too much leo and too much scorpio. that means square-ing all the day long.

Isn't she too young for you?

Posted by ElementalLeo
...Both parties can feel each other is trying to develop this relationship into something deeper with a future.

Hopping to step up to an official relationship with her very soon and planning to have a deep discussion with her.

If this is the case, why are you asking strangers if you'll work? If we all said "naw, move on now" what then? Everything you've build thus far goes down the drain? Hopefully she won't find out you're seeking outside validation to decide to be with her because that would easily put a bookmark in this whole thing. Absolutely nothing wrong with having doubt, but you need to be sure all on your own that you want to take this further for her to have faith you're in this for real and commit as well. Talk to her and see if you're on the same page as far as your concerns and expectations go. If not, make a plan to work them out. You both need to be responsible for your own stuff to work on (e.g. those issues that lead to the push/pull) to find common ground.

Honestly, the need for a few thumbs up from outside people is enough to say "bye".

Aside from the LD piece, you seem to be moving in the right direction. Settle that part soon or anticipate problems. That much water she's gonna need more than 60 min phone calls and quarterly rendezvous to feel fulfilled. Besides conversations, which you describe as a "fair bit of push/pull", you have no idea how you two will fit when you're in close quarters and have to actually deal with each other's differences in living colour.

The 6 months before she left doesn't count. You were just dating not in a relationship. I dont know what the hell "exclusive relationship understanding" even means. I guess that's code for don't share your body parts with anyone else? Anyway, having to be in each other space as you share your life, feelings etc is very different from brief phone calls. Now, you two can avoid each other for a few days when things become too much and trust, your Moon and Merc are too much for all of the Scorp energy. You'll both need to work on your communciation style (verbal and non verbal) to work through difficulties.

Good luck.

Oh my... literally all personal placements

in square signs.

Not all make the actual aspect but still.

Your suns and moons both fall in the

other's first house.


Interesting.

Wow...so much Leo and Scorpio. So much square.

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Posted by capricornmoon
Bill and Hillilay did it! Get him some secretary side piece to divulge a little.

Bill is Leo/Virgo cusp so the virgo influence gets along with the scorpio.

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No he isn't.

He's third decan-- but not on the cusp at all.

OP is first decan LEO, which is LEO decan.

I think if you put in the effort good luck.. The Devil and God wants to get together again after that separation romantic.

I've seen this kind of relationship before. It ended eventually but the pull you feel toward each other is too real to deny. Proceed in your own demise and hers.

She is still young to move on from you later but what about you? Think about it.

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by MarchPisc3s

Posted by capricornmoon
Bill and Hillilay did it! Get him some secretary side piece to divulge a little.

Bill is Leo/Virgo cusp so the virgo influence gets along with the scorpio.

No he isn't.

He's third decan-- but not on the cusp at all.

OP is first decan LEO, which is LEO decan.

August 19 is virgo cusp. Google it.

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lol


Its third decan, ruled by Mars.

26 degrees is too far away to be considered a cusp,

unless you're really fucking reaching, or have a

Pathological need to be right.

In the end its just opinion.

Hi All,

Firstly, all comments and opinions from you guys are well appreciated, these put more thoughts in my mind.

@Gobshite: Its always nice to have views of 3rd parties opinion to open whatever I might not be seeing from another angle.

@lisabethur8: I only started into reading detail horoscope recently so its really interesting and makes me think how opposite mine and hers are squared.

@heybitchez: really good eye and observation only from the charts, makes me really know how little on the surface I can learn from these charts.
I am slightly more than 17years older than her and I am 40 this year.

@PhoenixRising: Thank you for taking the time on the long comments and advice, these will be well registered in my thoughts. 3 months after dating her we been since agreed to be in a relationship except non official BF/GF label. And thereafter from how we behave, communicated, travelled and spending time together, it feels we are on the same page of developing this relationship into something deep going forward.
she has quite a strong usually scorpio character and it seems I am getting to understand and making things works better as time goes by. Giving more he own space and in every communication and whenever we are together spending time. Not sure if it matters, we have not got physically close yet except very occasionally holding hands up till now since we are also in LDR. SHe is not the PDA kind from what i feels.
I also tend to feel both of us have more emotion and feeling involvement in this relationship up till now than actual physical attachment stage(even if we have not done that yet). Thank you for the wishes.

@Montgomery: Yes it really been a ride I have not experienced before...Thanks

@TrueFantasy: I agree there are so much more that can affect a relationship, situation and condition of life we are in daily plays such a big part too.
I am hopeful and try to be as optimistic as possible for this to work out.
Yes, I am a first decan leo and I also feels I have quite a lot of cancer/water sign characteristic.
Having deep thoughts and also sensitive, sometime over thinking, and needs own time too.

@TheLibraMudra: Thanks, some days we do communicate on the phone daily and text lesser. Always a joy to speak and communicate on the phone with some one I have my mind on and cares about.

@RumiL: Yes its certainly intriguing...

@FrostedElly: Yes, I think this is also the main reason I have concern how our future will pans out because 2 months back I have talked about getting official but we agreed to be committed to each other from then before the official title/label of BF/GF.
Being a leo, I tend to feel insecure time to time specially in LDR but I trying to handle it and she does understand how I been feeling too.
This also puts me in a plan to have a deep discussion with her to step up to official title soon

@Notebook910: Thanks..Its I also could feel she is also putting in efforts to try work this out 🙂

@BG2: I am curious to know how this impacts

@starlover: Thanks for your comment, this relationship does have quite some ups and downs I have never felt before.
Hope to keep more optimistic thoughts

@VirgoDragirl: Thank you and this does makes me think too. However being a guy at mine age and reasonably well life situation , I think and hope I will be able to handle it well if that really happens.

Thanks all... 🙂

Cheers