Jealous for nothing??

I am curious... I am not really that jealous of a person. But today me and my man were sitting side by side playing scrabble online, and my roomate and her man just broke up so she has been hangin with us alot, shes behind us on our bed. Well, my man threw her his cigarettes and asked her to light him one, okay?? whatever.. so i went pee, and as i come out he asks her to make him a drink. Why the hell cant he ask me if i am his woman? i feel a little UGH about it but not sure how to say anything or even if i should. What should i do scorpios?

Scorpios normally tend to like people to be jealous of them ... in fact, it's not unusual for a Scorpio to play a head-game to see if thier partner would be passionate enough about them to fight for them.

It's possible that he using her to test you ... she is willing to be his servant, and generally speaking, Scorpios don't like weak people like this .. but, she might be available for use to see just how much you feel about him.

I'd watch both of them period. You don't need them to be best friends, nor do they need to be uncomfortable around each other but not do things like that.. I wouldn't like it either. I don't know what his angle was though. Maybe he did want a little reaction out of you. I would just tell him calmly you're not comfortable with that if it escalates.

Posted by CancerianGoddess
I am curious... I am not really that jealous of a person. But today me and my man were sitting side by side playing scrabble online, and my roomate and her man just broke up so she has been hangin with us alot, shes behind us on our bed. Well, my man threw her his cigarettes and asked her to light him one, okay?? whatever.. so i went pee, and as i come out he asks her to make him a drink. Why the hell cant he ask me if i am his woman? i feel a little UGH about it but not sure how to say anything or even if i should. What should i do scorpios?

it would be a good idea to set up some healthy boundaries because if you dont that girl you call your friend might end up being your enemy real fast

I Told him i was a little upset about it..

ME: Ya know? I Didnt like the fact she lit your cigarette and brought you a drink,i am your woman i wanna do that for you
HIM: Well babe i thought you wwere busy,i didnt wanna bother you
ME: I Dont care if i am shaving my treetrunker i will stop,dry my hands and light your cigarette
HIM: *Seductive smile* I'm sorry babe, i didnt realise it would piss you off

So i am thinking pffft ya know,but than he just grabbed me threw me on the kitchen table and we treetrunked.. yeaaaaa...

I am soooo falling for this crap! lol

Posted by Beetleguese

Posted by CancerianGoddess
I Told him i was a little upset about it..

ME: Ya know? I Didnt like the fact she lit your cigarette and brought you a drink,i am your woman i wanna do that for you
HIM: Well babe i thought you wwere busy,i didnt wanna bother you
ME: I Dont care if i am shaving my treetrunker i will stop,dry my hands and light your cigarette
HIM: *Seductive smile* I'm sorry babe, i didnt realise it would piss you off

So i am thinking pffft ya know,but than he just grabbed me threw me on the kitchen table and we treetrunked.. yeaaaaa...

I am soooo falling for this crap! lol

I see you've met manipulative scorp, cancer's are a perfect fit for this type (from the scorp's perspective). Obviously not what you want to hear, but I'd put money on it. Don't waste energy on jealousy, be cautious instead.

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Hey I seen you say you had a cancer ex wife. so I wanted to know if u thought cancers would not be a good match for scorpios and y not?

Its cute now, until he starts playing on your insecurities. I don't think there was any need to get jealous over that. I would've been more bothered that he couldn't light his own dam cigarette or pour his own dam drink lol

But seriously, that whole, "ill stop whatever I'm doing to serve u" mentality, can surely bite you in the ass one day. It may seem cute and innocent now, but it sounds like its really stemming from a lack in confidence. Scorp or not, it is human nature to sense weakness and play on it, whether we realize were doing it or not. Getting that worked up over something so small, is def weakness. Tread lightly.

Posted by Beetleguese
Jealousy is always for nothing, a wasted emotion founded in insecurity.

^ & it's based in control

which he already express'd w/ ur friend...

take bg's advice here he's a male scorp & a smart one

wish u the best cg kiss the babays for us

ME: I Dont care if i am shaving my treetrunker i will stop,dry my hands and light your cigarette





You don't care?


You will stop whatever you are doing, as if whatever you are doing couldn't possibly be as important as what he might need ... to serve him?

Telling him that was the end of any respect he has for you ...



Next time, I suggest you care.

well damn

Hows it going with your scorpio?

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Posted by P-Angel
ME: I Dont care if i am shaving my treetrunker i will stop,dry my hands and light your cigarette





You don't care?


You will stop whatever you are doing, as if whatever you are doing couldn't possibly be as important as what he might need ... to serve him?

Telling him that was the end of any respect he has for you ...



Next time, I suggest you care.

She somehow feels it necessary to tell us about her shaving habits.

She's a disgusting human being, a fat slob, and i'd be willing to bet she's a filthy liberal too.

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I am guessing you dont get laid often.. jealous? yea, i can sense it. Go grab a hot shower and some conditioner and get over it!!!

NEXT!!!!!! *Smile*

cg u betta stop it or ur not getting a ride on the mother ship ....*looks toward sky*

meh idk she may be right ive seen some strange shit....

hope things r cool with u chick

bit of advice

dont let him get too far...if it gets past the uncomfortable point speak up a scorp will c anything else as submission...

not the place u want to be with one of us if u care about us remain equal it saves us energy & time...a crab is a formidable partner cuz we both have shells....but we drive each other crazy! word...