Just Friends—

Do you have a friend that you would consider being more intimate with...anyone...anyone?

Most definitely, why?

Ewwww no! Atleast not close friends.

Why not close friend Tchick? Too weird for you? Too much family like?

The reason I say definitely is because all I would need to do to have a girlfriend by the end of the week is to literally just choose who to enchant from my list of lady friends, but because I am not one to make decisions just by an ini mini miny mo process, and because I don't believe myself to be that cold and simple, I have not done anything quite like that for now, and they're all just my good friends. Maybe I'm spoilt being around all the cool women that I am and I need to be a little more desperate about it haha, but I'm really not wanting a relationship right now.

"Why not close friend Tchick? Too weird for you? Too much family like?"

-- Yup, no attraction. Depends on the type of friendship... when we'd party and you were drunk you'd end up hitting on your 'friends' lol But then again, I call those 'party buddies' 😛 and it's perfectly fine to start something with those lol However you can call me a bit of a prude but I wouldn't just be intimate with anyone too fast anyway, so it'd still have to develop. As for dating... I'd be open to it, but I don't know if I wanna date someone I party with often sooooo... ? Dammit! I always end up concluding with the same thing I said the first time! Ummm guess the answer is 'no' lol

"I've noticed for me that the best relationships I have had was when I was just friends with them not even thinking them as a potential girlfriend...then eventually going from friendship to girlfriend..."

Oh really? I'm glad that has worked best for you, because I definitely wouldn't mind that - I have quite a few classy lady friends and I'm lucky that way.

Hahaha oh the same sort of thing happened to me about 3 weeks ago when this sex survey had come around and I got to talking with a few friends about it.

Scorp thing? No idea. Why would it be though?

Yea actually now that you mention it - one of my closer Cappy friends has drawn older women his way too, haha of course Cappy guys tend to draw much younger women just as quickly.

"When I meet people for the first time,I can get very comfortable quicker with older people than those of my own age group..."

Same!

Even though she was Gemini?? (If I remember correctly)

I see, good deal.

Hahaha agreed.

Lol. I definitely know what you're saying about Virgos and Leos combining. It is very strong.

"I do not deny the power of the mind and suggestion...do you think the change and pain is self induced by negative thoughts— Like a scorp's thoughts get the better of them or maybe their negative thoughts are need to force change to make them grow—"


That's a good question, and I'm guessing that you have already pretty much answered it for yourself even though you still needed to question it. I think that a Scorp definitely needs their negative thoughts to further push them on. I do think that change and pain is self-induced, but I believe that all human beings have a need to self-induce pain on themselves in order to learn. That's all thought provoking actually.

I believe I have something to attend soon haha, I'm gonna get going. Have a good night.

Your need for mental stimulation comes from the Libra in Venus Bread.

There is no explanation for Elliot. lol! (just kidding)

not as relentless as venus in capricorn 😢

It could be worse Bread. You could also have Libra in Mars. That my friend is a bad placement. Elliot and me are screwed ? well perhaps not if you take this into consideration ? although .... on the other hand ?? 🙂

"It could be worse Bread. You could also have Libra in Mars. That my friend is a bad placement. Elliot and me are screwed"

Hahaha I'd like to think that I've figured out how to go far beyond the problems of Mars in Libra.

Ahhh you are a better man than me Elliot. (not that I am a man but you know what I mean.)

I do have one friend that I would consider being intimate with. In fact, he & I had discussed it but it was never the right time. We took this to mean it wasn't meant to be.

Aprilbaby, I'm a firm believer that things happen for a reason. It was cool with me that it didn't happen, 'cause I'm seeing someone now anyway. Everything works out.

Me to aprilbaby, well hell all my friends female and male are older than me at least 5 years older than me. I was trying to get in the Golden Girls Club that my Aries girlfriend is in but they told me no because I am not 50 yet...Man they me having balls of fun.