leo ascendants

Greetings!
Merry Monday!

I haven't posted in awhile. I sought advice on an aqua virgo subject long time ago. That is four years i will never get back, no to be bitter. I'm seeking advice on a scorpio that i met during that time of my life. I am a femaqua he is scorp. we are both leo ascendants, he is a sagi moon and i am a pisces moon. there is a 10 year age difference but we are not at the ages where that matters.

Thing is we have a 5 year history. During that time i had broken up with virg and went back to my scorp. I did leave my scorp when the virg asked me to marry him to get me back. I know i hurt my scorp. I have apologized for that and years later a life altering event took place and scorp said he loved me, didn't want to lose me and lets me move in.

Long story to that whole process... but now my question is... is this for real? I live with him, yet i'm scared that he'll cheat on me. It's childish but i get jealous about the amount of time he spends with his lesbian pretty butch friend. I read a text she sent him in response to one he sent her.

"..is driving me insane"
she saids "we should hide away for the weekend then, let's go ...."

Yes i did break trust and read the text, but still what is that shiffle about? NONE of my friends would say something like that to me, rather i get talk to him... let him know kindly gently... and when i do he gets defense. I need some therapy anyone please?

With the lack of response I'm assuming no-one has encountered a situation as this? Or perhaps nobody here can qualify with a dignified answer. Qbone are you out there?!

Pretty butch=

She says she is lesbian. she dresses like a boy but is very pretty, as in will shave her legs and then roll up her man pants and let him take pictures of her legs in heels. To be funny they say. She is girly and outdoorsy and does not give off the masculine vibe, yet dates the lipstick lesbians, to which dates means she has a different girl with her every time i see her.

Right I did say i broke trust and looked at text, though 2 wrongs does not make a right. I have not told him that I know about this correspondence. I've been going on about business as usual.
Today though caused a hrmmm... He called me and asked where I was, usually home for lunch, since I was not home for lunch. He proceeded to ask about a scooter and after prying information out him the story he tells me is this; He needs a scooter because he is "helping" a friend all weekend deliver food and therefore will not be able to hang out with me. Hrm? I say. Sure I say but I will be there as a participant and offered to help run food to help him. He said oh he doesn't want me to spend my weekend doing that.

The lesbo is pretty yes. Am I jealous of her sexiness? Thanks for the laugh, I am jealous about the amount of time he spends with her. If he does her whatever, I know that he doesn't love her, he's doing it to do it. But that raises my eyebrows on how committed to me he is.

You're looking for a dignified answer and called out to qbone?

"ur scorpio probably has mad ass fantasies about fucking this pretty lil lezbian, just imagine her ur scorpio licking her lovely long lezbian leg. haha, her butch bouncing titties jubbling around in his face almost suffocating his ass!"



No doubt .... what normal dude out there doesn't fantasize about getting sandwiched inbetween two hotties?

Especially two who will suck each other titties, and devour pussies.

lol, so you clearly describe yourself as being totally jealous of the sexiness he finds in her ... and then you state that you are not jealous .. and actually think we are suppose to believe what you say, rather than your actions, as you described them.


What a laugh .... I'm sure this Scorpio is probably enjoying it also.

Posted by P-Angel
lol, so you clearly describe yourself as being totally jealous of the sexiness he finds in her ... and then you state that you are not jealous .. and actually think we are suppose to believe what you say, rather than your actions, as you described them.


What a laugh .... I'm sure this Scorpio is probably enjoying it also.

Posted by Nimbus
... Am I jealous of her sexiness? Thanks for the laugh, I am jealous about the amount of time he spends with her.

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I find that when two people enter a relationship with the other they like to spend time with each other. I feel jealous and imo appropriately so when i work all day and wish to have quality time with the person i love.

He misses me, he doesn't want to lose me, he loves, etc..This is what he says. It's like he is bi-polar. He switches.
What is with the mind game here? What am I not understanding?

I continue to speculate on this and wonder how to communicate this without him becoming defensive.

Am I to direct,upfront, persistent?
Not persistent enough?

I am at wits end here since we've never been able to continue and resolve a single conversation/argument. He always walks away and says he doesn't want to dwell on negative s---- and that he has something else to do. He then walks away like the conversation never happened. He is 40 yrs old! Seriously! I am tolerant and patient to a point and simply want to know wtf? is going on here?