How does a female leo get over at heartache

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Leofelldeepwaters on Sunday, June 28, 2009 and has 16 replies.

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@Leofelldeepwaters
17 Years

I was recently in a 3 year relationship and I would like to know how to speed up the process faster.
Any advice? I would like to stop this feeling of unrequited love and it just hurts

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Get John Grays book, "Venus and Mars starting over" it helps you to identify the process of losing someone whether it be through death or cheating or just an end to the relationship. Can be founf at your local library🙂

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@Chatz
19 Years1,000+ Posts

getting "back on the horse" so to speak also works wonders. Ive got to take the longest to get over somebody - like seriously, the LONGEST lol yet when there is somebody new out and about it makes it so much easier and quicker to ummm forget that somebody who hurt you.

Keeping busy is a must - its so easy for Leos to get caught up in the "why me, why did it happen to me" but seriously, yes time and keeping busy, meeting new people works wonders 🙂

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@xtina
17 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Posted by Chatz
getting "back on the horse" so to speak also works wonders. Ive got to take the longest to get over somebody - like seriously, the LONGEST lol yet when there is somebody new out and about it makes it so much easier and quicker to ummm forget that somebody who hurt you🙂

Yea that's called a rebound... Not too fun if there is such a thing as karma.

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Yep there is no quick way but you do have to go through the motions and the book just makes you aware of what you have to deal with in order to overcome your pain and also is alot healthier to move on to the next person. But in general it's normally having someone else of interest that makes you realise you are over the other person. For some people that can happen quickly and for some it can take a long long time!!

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@ALL_KNOWING
17 Years

Look at yourself in the mirror and fall in love with yourself all over again. When you can look at yourself and feel good of what you have accomplished/experienced, good and bad, you can move on. The memories will still be there but don't dwell. Remember the lessons learned and have fun during this new phase of your life. Good advice already earlier, draw, paint, write, read, be happy!

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@Leofelldeepwaters
17 Years

I am not into rebounds really because I don't like hurting people. I want to go find a decent man now but I thinks best I enjoy a bit of single life and find myself again.

I really like the advice you guys put here I am already done a couple and took already in thought it helps 🙂

Thanks guys

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@Little_Ms_Sunshine
17 YearsLeo

Well, what always works for me is surrounding myself with friends and family. If that doesn't work, get a new hair style , take a trip, start working out. Do something for YOU.

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@Isosceleese
17 Years

there is no way, imo, to speed up anything, you will only end up tricking yourself psychologically..for me, i just have to go thru the motions, no matter how uncomfortable it is, because thru all of that, i come out stronger on the other side.

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@sweat.lioness
17 Years500+ Posts

haha female leo mends a broken heart by finding someone new to break their heart all over again. Female leos are extremely attractive you will find someone knew and then before you know it your ex will come crawling back to you. By then...it will be too late. You won't like him anymore, unless he has some extraordinary quality to offer.

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@zantetzuken
18 YearsLeo

Way back when my heartbreak was still very fresh I enrolled in a correspondence course to help keep my mind occupied with math. Then when September rolled around I signed up for night school. I also found city building games helpful because you have to pay attention to everything in the gameplay in order to keep the population happy, therefore very little time to think about him.
Those two things helped me when nobody else could.

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@lovage
17 Years

be by yourself for awhile, rebounding isnt healthy and get to know who you truly are....time will heal the pain and yourself. Be patient!!

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@Veyes
16 YearsLeo

take a walk, listen to music, (it's almost two months after your thread), but you'll be ok to be single.. 😉 just do what you want to do 🙂 and be happy.. smile and tell yourself in the mirror every morning that you are beautiful, attractive, intelligent woman; say "I love you" to the mirror. nothing can make you down.. 😉