lost love

I am afraid my scorp / aries relationship is on the rocks. Married 12 years. I am the scorp (f)and he is the Aries. Very independant. We can not talk anymore. I get mean, he clams up, I get mad 'cause he doesn't talk. We are apart alot- he races sailboats every weekend. I try to follow- but I am always on the outside. When I raced-we were on seperate boats, sometimes seperate cities. Daughter needs a family. I need a friend.

It is sad how a relationship can turn, isn't it...
You are right that your daughter needs family...how old is she?
I left to raise my daughter alone 12 years ago because I felt I was raising her alone anyway and all we ever did at that point was fight...too much negativity!!
My daughter is 13 now...she is a good kid...fun too!
In my case it was the right thing for me...
Lonely at times..but, I have good friends..
and the net...
Take Care...
I maybe wasn't much help..
but, I can be a friend...
Belle

I'm sorry there are problems with your marriage. Is he opposed to counseling? I was married a long time ago to a Cancer male (not my son's father). I wound up in counseling by myself. Best thing I've ever done apart from having my son. I agree with you Belle..if you doing all the work yourself....
My son's father & I split when he was 5 ( he's 31 yrs old now). I was very fortunate to have great family support with a younger brother just a few years older that my son so they became very close (and still are). I hope, Windspread, that you are close to your family. Please consider this post and my feelings as the start of a new friendship and support.

Thank you for all the comments, I think I really need to go back to where we started, & give him the opportunity to learn how to love me. He is always so wrapped up in his adventures, and I am working so there is little time to show affection for me, or to communicate with each other. I am not really good at understanding how to talk to this factual detached guy - comming from an emotional being. It is reallllly hard to stick to facts and not let emotions in. I know he doesn't understand anything else. Maybe if I write it down, the emotions that go with changes in tone and facial expressions won't interfear. I'm not the type to let this go. Gotta fix it, planned on the long term.

Bravo to you for wanting to give another chance. I, too, believe that once a committment is made, everything should try to be done to try to make it work. I'm married to a scorp (almost 4 years) and a lot of the lusture has gone out of our relationship. I still don't want to give up though. Hang in there. I wish you all the best.

You go girl!!

Belle

Scorpio and Aries DON'T mix.

Virgo and Aries don't mix, either!