Love a of scorpio

Is there any way to know when a scorpio loves you?
You cannot ask them and they will certainly not tell you spontaneusly.
So how can you be sure that you do not live a big illusion?
I#ve heard once that the more a scorpio loves the more they will try to hide it.
Is that so?
I want to tell my scorpio that I passionately love him,but I'm afraid that he doesn't quite share the feeling.
Could you guys give me an insight on this riddle wrapped in an enigma?

I can't unwrap the riddle for you. Maybe a Scorpio man can give you some insight. I would definately tell him your feelings for him!!! He is going to control the situation, and that is the way they are. You will know if they are interested. You can feel their intensisty, and you just need to pay attention. Watch what they do instead of listening to what they say!
They are the greatest of men if you find a good one!
Good Luck

I agree, tell him and see what he does, the best way to know his true feelings is to tell him and see his re-action. If for some reason he doesnt feel the same way, I would leave...there is no sense in wasting ur time.

I will definetly tell him,but I need to be alone with this guy and that is kind of hard to accomplish.
But do you think that if he shares the same feeling he will tell me?
If I say "I am in love with you " and he feels just the same,will he return these precious words to me?
That's why I was asking about the scorpio love paradox-the more they love , the more they will try to hide that.

You are right to a degree about the scorpio love paradox. But know this: as soon as we feel completely "safe" with you (which, with some scorps, that feeling never comes because of our suspicious nature), you will know beyond the shadow of a doubt what our feelings are for you. And not necessarily through words. More through our eyes and body language and...amourousness (is that a word?!).

I would actually suggest that before you tell him, make yourself something of a riddle for HIM to figure out. We like that mysterious stuff! ; )

Dear phoenix_rising,I have to tell you that we are playing riddles for more than 2 years and all that I could find out was that " I have to wait a little bit longer".What does that mean?Contains this some sort of a amourousness?
I am planning on giving him without any words a little rock in shape of a heart that I have found on an island.What do you think-is this subtle for a scorpio?
I feel that-since I was told to wait-I need to know what I am waiting for.Maybe it is all about the game and nothing more to it.
What are your scorpionic opinions?

First of all, I think your rock idea is absolutely perfect. That's exactly the kind of stuff I'm talking about. Wow, so you've been going through all this for 2 years! Okay...my scorpionic opinion, is that you are waiting for something. I don't think it's futile, unless this scorp has serious issues with wanting to be pursued (in whatever capacity) only for the sake of being pursued. My question to you is, do you get that feeling? Or, when he looks at you, do you feel like it's genuine? These are your best indicators. If when he looks at you, you feel elctricity radiating, and in his eyes you see a longing...that is your best indicator of sincerity.

Again, I don't *think* it's futil, but he is playing a game, he is testing you...I'm just not sure whether it's for his own ego boost or what. But 2 years is a long time to play with someone for no other reason than an ego boost, so my feeling is that there is sincerity there.

You're in my thoughts ; )

futile, I mean

i think scorpios play with you for a while to test your boundries. Ie. are you going to be easy? Do they have to come away from the crease or will you do it for them. In my opinion i think it is all a test of how much you respect your own life? And they gather from that that if you respect your own life and dont chase them then you will respect them too. I dont know, its all pretty complicated, i dont understand why it cant be easy.

Yeah, I can relate. It does feel like a wicked game sometimes, doesn't it? I myself am a Capricorn femme and my Scorpion male friend, I feel has been messing with my mind for almost a year now.
It's like he leads me on, he leads me on, he leads me on, then as soon as I'm ready to give up the fight of being "just friends" with him, WHAM! He turns ice cold, and shuts me out.
Yeah, sometimes I wonder "What is this!!!" Then I'll shut him out too. But then he always manages to work his way back to that soft spot of mine. And no matter how frustrated I get with him, I can't help but take him back. The friendship is just too GOOD. He makes me laugh like none other.

It's weird. It's like we're in a relationship, but we're really not. I'm never quite sure where we stand and if he really wants me romantically or just at his side 24/7 as his sidekick and trusted companion (which I have no objections to being, BTW.)

Oh, I don't know. I don't know either. I guess it's best to just let them show you (in their own quirky little ways) how they feel about you, and in time, I guess we'll see, huh?

Thank you all guys !
Yes,when we look into each others eyes i feel electrified at a high voltage and I feel like he wants to melt into my soul .But that is all , nothing more,is like he is afraid of giving and showing more; he acts like he would be shy,only I know he is tough.And when we kiss ( social kiss on the cheeks),he stays half a second longer than normaly and puts his lips half a centemeter closer to my mouth than he would do with others.
He drives me insane,but I am into this game!

INCREDIBLE!
I gave him the heart-shaped rock !
And he turned from the big wolf into a lamb!I am confused!He showed me that he can be so sweet and delicate!
I am completely dizzy!