My name is Roo and i'm an alcoholic.... i mean scorpio. Yes somtimes it does feel as if being me is naturally a bad thing. I came to this site while searching google for answers to my life. After reading several websites and learning more about the scorpio, i have determined that most (if not all) of my faults and 'talent' stem from my astrological sign.
Basicly, if I where do describe myself in detail to anyone, i would simply refer to the description of a scorpio. Its really weird for me to read these things, because its as if someone is writing about me specificlly.
One of my oldest and best friends is a gemini. He is similar to a 'classic' gemini, but not nearly as similar as most people are to their signs. He also has a 'mild' case of ADD. We occasionally get in arguments that seem to go on forever. This is because i take everything in my life and treat it like its an equation. you can think of it as black/white, 1 or zero, what really is versus what is thought to be, truth vs opinion, the actual point, the shortest distance between one place and another is a straight line... etc etc.... basicly my mind takes things as they are and uses any means to treat it as logical as possible.
my friend on the other hand strays in thought and action. in conversation the rabbit makes many trails, eventually losing his way and forgeting where he began. he rarely takes the effort to analyze all possible routes and outcomes of any type of situation, and therfor his equations remain unsimplified, and sometimes unresolved.
today we had a rather large and inconclusive arguement about many things. it left me thinking about many things. how it is that most people lack the ability to have a logical conversation/debate, the nature of interuptions in conversation, and why it is that most peoples goal of an arguement is to win, rather than finish the equation. it is hard for most to understand the logic and facts of an argument, and with that it is even harder to accept that you are wrong, or that you need to change something.
i am a very controlling person. however, unlike the face value of that sentance, you will in most cases not even relize you are being controlled. human nature allows use to be imperfect, wrong, and stupid. It also lets us ignore logic.
that being said, here is my question. Does this mean I have to change?
ME vs WORLD
should i continue on my path of logic and discard the peices of my l
should i continue on my path of logic and discard the peices of my life that are logically 'in the way' or useless?
or should i cap the volcano of scorpio power?
I fear if I bend my logic for the sake of how others see me that i might being hindering my purpose.
the thing is, im cocky. so much that i admit it with pride. the way i see it, the word "cocky" is just a term created for the weak and intimidated people to use against those of us who see the finish line and know they will be there first. if not that then theres still the simple fact that beleiving in yourself has no limit. It is one of the few things that you cant have to much of.
A strong scorpio is in my mind the true reality of life. I often feel im surrounded by lesser beings. I give all the right and respect i would give myself and anyone, however, in the end it still feels as if the world is covered in a thick smog. How is it that i can see it all? I dare not say i know it all, but if its happening around me i will see all there could possibly be seen. Why doesnt the rest of the world see these things? It like there is a seperate dimension that is the social reality of our world, and most people i know cant see it.
Have any of you ever felt this way? Or something similar? im eager to discuss these things so as to come to a better understanding of this.
Good topic. My scorp thinks like you. But for you 'knowing it all' its cause its very true for some scorps. Some scops know it all. Thats why people either get jealous of you or you kinda like you said, you beat them to the finish line. My scorp doesnt understand this either, but its just that he can see things happen before other do. Scorpios think in depth very very deeply. lol and since you already know everyting....it makes you want to know more.
yea ive always thought i had some weird gift or something, or that i was psychic. i know what ur thinkin before u know your going to think it. i can even explain it fully in words, unless i took alot of time. ive explained it to my friends many times, and taught them a few key elements.
maybe the best way to explain it is this....
im really good at giving massages, and im also very good in bed. the more of a connection i have with the girl, the better both massages and sex are. i have a deep understanding of the people im connected to the strongest. i have never been taught acupressure, but i do it better than probly anyone (unless they are scorpio as well). I beleive this is because i have a strong understanding of my own body and mind. when im giving a massage my eyes are almost always closed, and im not using my hands to "guide me". theres this strange energy that i zone into. its not like anything you can "feel"... if i had to say what it felt like, i would say it felt like understanding. if you could image the essence of understanding... not learning or knowing, but understanding. once im "in the zone" somehow i know how everything feels in her body, or at least in a fairly large immediate area of where i am touching or close to. like a hug, a hug can be a hug like any other hug.... but it can also be alot more. this has nothing to do with where i hold or how i hold or anything. its like theres a connection we all have and some of use can access that more than others.
anyway i use this example because i believe it partially relates to how a scorpio can understand so much about everything thats going on around them.
Roo I believe you and understand you. Thats what a water sign can reach. All that you described in that last post. lol I gottcha. I dont know what aquamoon is talking about. If your not a water sign...few can reach that deep ability to connect and understand.
aquamoon, i disagree with you completely and your retort is both illogical and pointless. but thank you for being a perfect representation of those who are 'blind'.
"you want to talk about simple equations? it's called living life. relating to..."
This is a completely ilogical process of statements. Refering to simple equations and continuing with a mantra on how to live life freely are unrelated and therfor nonsensical. This statement could have been made without refering to simple equations, which in itself is an incorrect refrence to my statements on "simplifing the equation".
With that said, a scorpio does not strive to "win" or "beat", and i did not say or incinuate such. In fact i stated the goal of a scorpio is to remain logical regardless of win/loss. Expecially in arguements. FACTS ARE PRIME when it comes to scorpios. I readily admit my faults and when i am incorrect. I take all efforts possible to be correct because i want to win and beat you, but i wont at the cost of logic. If I did i would be defying what makes me strong enough to win, and therfor I and all scorpios would therfor cease to be different from any other in their strongest account.
scorpios are by far one of the least selfish signs in my opinion. the fact that logic and intensity are our strongest traits allows for us to be extremelly selfless on most occasions. personally, my life is a dedication to you, and them, and everyone else. it is because i know what i know, and that i am as strong as i am that i can let go of everything. Scorpios have a keen ability to both become emotionally obsessed(resulting in selfishness), as well as become emotionally detached from that which a second ago they where obsessed. It is the later of the two that i am most aligned with. The ability to discard care for my own well being has allowed me massive control over my enviornment.
While I may struggle and suffer, i teach and give to many. And in the end it will be the scorpio that carries you on his back, all the while listening to you preach on about how rude and selfish he is. This is the wonder of scorpios, natural heroes born for persecution.
Another personal note.... spiderman is my idol. If you keen enough you will understand the depth of the connection between a scorpio and the image of a hero such as spiderman..... peter parker must have been a scorpio.....
aquamoon... you must be young yourself.... i would love to tear you a new one (which you and i both know i very well can), but i dont need to waste my time on someone as sad as you.
Its rather funny how you can say all these things about me being sheltered and all that blah... because you really look like a fool. All your doing is flaming. you have said absolutely nothing productive. not only that but its like your mad at me, or scorpios, or the world or something. im sorry you have insecurity issues dude, but posting these things is just plain stupid as hell.
Fact for aquamoon: Scorpios own your sad little life, and crying about it on the internet wont change it.
how can you come to me and talk about whining on the internet and trying to validate ones self.
heres a little lesson for the kid who thinks he is older or smarter than me....
This website has forums for people to ask questions and discuss their astrological signs. my post is a well written (descriptivelly) article on a scorpio complex. Its not whining, no part of any of my writings here could be called whining by anyone with half a brain.... that same half brained person could also see that you came here to whine about scorpios. You make it all to obvious that you are threatened by ANYONE with confidence. You also seem to be angry with yourself about something. A life of constant failure and depression may be the cause of your need to VALIDATE your self by WHINING about scorpios. You sound like a middle aged man with a little boys self-esteem problem. You complain just like one, and you have yet to make any logical/reasonable or well formed retort on anything I have said. Every bit of your writing here has been you whining about my writing.
Your a sad sad man and i wish you the best with your life.
There is now absolutelly no need or logical reason for you to continue to post here.
It is easy to accept different opinions and experiences objectively. However when such opinions are stated as an attack rather than objectively, the course of the convesation will naturally take a turn. If you cannot see how it is that your actions create the scenario in which you base your opinions, then your opinions will be perpetually incorrect.
"Don't excuse someone's rudeness as you have in the past. There's a limit to how much you can put up with and it's time to draw the line. You won't only be doing this for yourself, but also for the person in question who has really gone too far this time. "
It like whoever wrote this was there when I had that arguement with my friend.... because he really did go waaay to far.
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Basicly, if I where do describe myself in detail to anyone, i would simply refer to the description of a scorpio. Its really weird for me to read these things, because its as if someone is writing about me specificlly.
One of my oldest and best friends is a gemini. He is similar to a 'classic' gemini, but not nearly as similar as most people are to their signs. He also has a 'mild' case of ADD. We occasionally get in arguments that seem to go on forever. This is because i take everything in my life and treat it like its an equation. you can think of it as black/white, 1 or zero, what really is versus what is thought to be, truth vs opinion, the actual point, the shortest distance between one place and another is a straight line... etc etc.... basicly my mind takes things as they are and uses any means to treat it as logical as possible.
my friend on the other hand strays in thought and action. in conversation the rabbit makes many trails, eventually losing his way and forgeting where he began. he rarely takes the effort to analyze all possible routes and outcomes of any type of situation, and therfor his equations remain unsimplified, and sometimes unresolved.
today we had a rather large and inconclusive arguement about many things. it left me thinking about many things. how it is that most people lack the ability to have a logical conversation/debate, the nature of interuptions in conversation, and why it is that most peoples goal of an arguement is to win, rather than finish the equation. it is hard for most to understand the logic and facts of an argument, and with that it is even harder to accept that you are wrong, or that you need to change something.
i am a very controlling person. however, unlike the face value of that sentance, you will in most cases not even relize you are being controlled. human nature allows use to be imperfect, wrong, and stupid. It also lets us ignore logic.
that being said, here is my question. Does this mean I have to change?
ME vs WORLD
should i continue on my path of logic and discard the peices of my l