messed up with a pisces

Dear Fellows, I missed with a pisces friend, she didn't say anything
But I have this feeling that she is moving away from me.
From your experience what is the best way to gain her trust again

A Fish is unpredictable .. we will swim away at the height of a relationship when it's at it's very best .. with no warning at all.

YOu just wake up one day and we're gone.

Terrible, yes, I know ... I've approached this topic many times and the Fish just look at me like I have two heads because it's such a natural part of our beings, that they don't even realize that it's a flaw.

Here's something that might help you to understand .... most people, when they feel a negative feeling, like being slighted, or fear, or being taken for granted, or any kind of emotions where they feel that they've been violated by another person = they will approach that other person to clarify, or argue, or stand their ground, or whatever it takes to let the other person know that they feel as though they've been unjustly judged.

A Fish won't do that .. we'll just leave. And I'm talking emotionally here. We could still be standing right in front of you, and never say a word .. emotionally, we've already packed our bags.

It's a defense mechanism. We see no point in arguing a point of any kind because there's nothing to talk about ...... if another person has offended us, they aren't worth another second of our life, so we flipped the switch off and then wait for the door to open for a physical exit.

And Scorpios tend to cause this in Pisces. The Fish soul is gentle, no matter how mouthy we may get, and the Scorpion doesn't take much care in that, they are prone to sting BEFORE they think, and a Pisces don't have any desire babysitting another emotionally. If a Scorpio cannot handle it's own feelings, and stings before it thinks then we're out.

There's nothing you can do to gain her trust back, except stop trying to ... if you attempt to do it, then she'll see right through it and realize that you're trying to manipulate the situation, and that will make it worse.

Think of it like a light switch. The Fish is able to flip that switch on feelings, and trust me, once that happens we no longer have any remore or guilt, so there's no association of feelings with you. That's why we can become very dangerous people. Not because we are bad-ass, no, not at all ... it's because if there is no guilt, then there is nothing to associate in the brain that the action is wrong.

Anyway, back to you ..... stop trying to get her trust back. Instead, mend yourself in whatever it is you did, and if it's a sincere healing, then she'll recognize it.

thank you for your thorough explanation p-Angel. what if she approached me again , how shall i react, shall i act normal or be distant and cold.

i know she loves me very much, can a pisces hate a person after she loved him as her soul mate?

Being cold will only push her farther away, surely.

Be you, be genuine, be open, and apologize if it's sincere.

I love her so much but she is acting pull and push, now she
Is back talking to me, she is the one open the conversations always,
The problem now whenever I am formal with her in text msgs she becomes
Very friendly and uses words like my love, thank you etc...and when I
Start to be friendly she switch on the "formal mood"
What shall I do keep on being formal?

I feel we are playing children immature games and I hate it that's why
I am acting formal with her,
I want your advice scorpios, how to deal with her

She wants me to be avaible according to her schedule and timings, once she get a little busy
she will not bother to even reply to me "good morning" msgs, then
suddenly she shows up acting innocent and wondering why I am cold.
I am avoiding open discussion with her because I know I will hurt
her with my words.
I was just texting her half an hour ago, I was formal and she was
Trying to break the boundaries, and I felt she is apologizing to
Me indirectly using excuses which I believe was made up and she
Thought I would believe her as usual but all what I said was
"Never mind" ," I know" And I think she got up upset .

I wantt her to learnn a lesson, if someone loves you don't get used
To it and treat him like kitchen mop whenever you need to clean a
dirt you wash it and mop with it then you through it in the sink
She is treating me the same, whenever she wants to talk that's it
I have to listen and be caring and whenever I need to talk to her
She get suddenly busy for months barely replying, then she shows
Up again feeling she needs to talk any one and assumes I will be
There for her.

Posted by WxW


I wantt her to learnn a lesson,...

I think this is the wrong mentality to have with a Pisces female...or any other sign for that matter.